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    Okay so I'm totally new to this. I've been trying to think of a general "plan" for approaching guys for my first day.. I've been reading a lot of the great info here and it's helping a lot but I'm still really nervous.

    Since I have NO clue what I'm doing and I'm going to be brand new, I'm thinking I can use that to start coversations. Like if I see some guys I can go up to them and ask them "Hi! Have you guys ever been here before?" and then when they answer act really sweet and flirty and say something like "Omgosh this is my first day, I was so nervous but I've always really wanted to dance and it's so fun" etc blah blah.

    My look is sorta sweet/innocent/trendy kinda teen-ish (even tho I'm 26 lol).

    Also when I go up onstage, should I sorta see who is watching me and then approach them first? Also look around the room and see a guy and try and make eye contact and then draw them in that way based on his reaction?

    Also, is there some sort of ettiquette as far as customers go, like as long as they are alone they are fair game? I don't want to start trouble with anyone, like approach a custie when another girl was talking to him but went to the bathroom or something and get beat up when she comes back lol. I'm a little nervous about messing with a custie someone else is talking to but I know thats the nature of the competition right?

    Is there any other tips for a TOTAL complete newbie?



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    When I would start at a new club and would say "ohhh this is my first time here!"... They would be a little apprehensive until I would say "... but not dancing! just my first night at a club"... I didn't get a good reaction to being a newbie, they kind of associate that with a mediocre dance.. just my personal experience, might work for you! =]

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    I'd say DEFINITELY use the "I'm new, I don't know what I'm doing...wanna go into VIP to initiate me/try me out/cheesy phrase?" Many new girls have the ability to bank easily because they are a kind of novelty. Every guy wants to be her first 'n all that shit.

    So I'd recommend that you play it up. You might get some guys who recognize the logic (new girls don't give that great of dances), but most will probably jump all over that.

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    Ooh I never thought about the fact that they might think my dancing would suck. I was hoping my stage moves would convince them otherwise. Hehe. I could say something like "I'm new here so I'm a little nervous on stage still, could you tell?" and depending on if they say yes no or you did great blah blah whatever, I could say "Yeah it was fun up there, I love it! But you know what I love even more? Giving private dances, it's so sexy and intimate, how about I show you?"



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    Dude...I wouldn't worry about that. 99.9% of guys would never put that much thought into it. They think new=better. Seriously.

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    Not in the dirty south florida! LoL
    They always try to get the best bang for their buck, unfortunately : (

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    I'm probably over thinking this. I just feel like it would be so impossible to sell dances. lol. I keep telling myself that the girls must be there because they are making money, no one would work there otherwise and if they can do it I can do it.

    I just need a jumping off point so I can figure out what sort of hustle works for me. The newbie thing seems like it might work. I also want to try to kneeling down in front of their knees, putting my hands on their legs and looking up and smiling at them while we talk thing as mentioned in another one of the hustle threads.



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    Quote Originally Posted by CarlyMIA View Post
    Not in the dirty south florida! LoL
    They always try to get the best bang for their buck, unfortunately : (
    I am the best bang for their buck.



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    If you work in a smaller club, the DJ will usually announce before your stage sets that you're new. Even if he doesn't, just mention it to all of the guys who tip you on stage, smile like a fucktard, and you WILL get dances. Ask them if they want to try you out, and shit that sounds really pervey like that. They'll love feeling like they're initiating you into the world of strip clubs. "You can be my first dance!!" etc. etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MsClaireVoyant View Post
    I'm probably over thinking this. I just feel like it would be so impossible to sell dances. lol. I keep telling myself that the girls must be there because they are making money, no one would work there otherwise and if they can do it I can do it.

    I just need a jumping off point so I can figure out what sort of hustle works for me. The newbie thing seems like it might work. I also want to try to kneeling down in front of their knees, putting my hands on their legs and looking up and smiling at them while we talk thing as mentioned in another one of the hustle threads.
    You'd be surprised how many girls come to *work* and just hang out, happy to leave with little money after working 7 hours, wasted.
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    I was totally naive before I started stripping, so I completely missed out on the new car smell effect. I could've banked ridiculously if I had even opened my mouth when I was first starting out. But no...I sat at the bar like a wallflower, night after night. I still made hundreds of dollars (at a tiny club), just because I was new. Imagine how much I would've made if I had been all like "heeey...I'm new...wanna be my first lap dance?" 'n crap like that. Gaaaah. This is what you need to do!!!

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    Gosh you guys are helping me have so much confidence. Thank you! I'm totally going to use all of this!

    "You'd be surprised how many girls come to *work* and just hang out, happy to leave with $100 after working 7 hours, wasted. Its mind boggling but I <3 those girls... more $$ for me me me!"

    ^When I went to audition, there were girls getting wasted in the dressing room at 12 noon... they didn't look like they took much care in their appearance either.. it was sorta sad to see but it kinda made me feel better about myself.



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    Quote Originally Posted by MsClaireVoyant View Post
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    Hehe it sounded worse than I meant it. But still.



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    Default Re: My hustle ideas- will they work?

    I am the best bang for the buck is the attitude to take...be careful w/ the first time thing. Many guys see "seasoned dancers" as pros ie: the best in rooms/dances.

    Sometimes the newbie thing may work, other times no. depends on the club. I know a newbie that stated she was the worlds best lapdancer because she practiced for her ex's for the past 10 years or sumthin,lol.Custies loved it.

    I ALWAYS ask if its their first time in the club then give a big welcome, or welcom back. For first timers you get to explain the the dancing/pricing. so its like you immediately get to gauge the reaction and start the sell ...and youve already made a little small talk too.

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    ^Good idea, thanks, and asking if it's their first time will be a good way to walk up and start a conversation. That will probably be the hardest part for me, knowing how to approach.



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    The newbie thing has totally worked for me at my club. The guys think 'oh a newbie... she doesn't know the rules yet and maybe she'll go further than the other girls' so seriously use it to your advantage. They'll realize quickly that you know the rules, but once they get your amazing lapdance, they'll be asking for more. It works every time.

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    you could probably work the asking if they'd been here thing into also saying that you're new.

    "hi! i'm ___________! is it your first time here?"

    if they say yes, you say, "oh good! me too! tonight's my first night, i just started. how about we get to learn the ropes together? i'm a little scared to give my first lapdance, but if you hold my hand i bet we can make it through it together!"

    if they say no, you say "well how many times have you been here?" and wait for their answer. depending on what it is, you can either say "well damn! you've been here more times than i have. want to give me a tour of the lapdance room?" or, if they've been there less times than you, you can say "oh, well i'm brand new here, but not quite as new as you are! want me to show you around? i give a great tour of the lapdance room..."


    best of luck!
    "If she wants to dance and drink all night, well there's no one that can stop her. She's going til the house lights come up or her stomach spills onto the floor. This night is gonna end when we're damn well ready for it to be over, worked all week long, and now the music is playing on our time. Yeah we do what we do to get by, and then we need a release!" - Against Me!, "Thrash Unreal"

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    I always start my convo's with " Hi ! How's your night going " ? It's super easy+ you can guage them a bit when they respond as to whether they want you there or not.

    How are things going for you?

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