Okay so I'm totally new to this. I've been trying to think of a general "plan" for approaching guys for my first day.. I've been reading a lot of the great info here and it's helping a lot but I'm still really nervous.
Since I have NO clue what I'm doing and I'm going to be brand new, I'm thinking I can use that to start coversations. Like if I see some guys I can go up to them and ask them "Hi! Have you guys ever been here before?" and then when they answer act really sweet and flirty and say something like "Omgosh this is my first day, I was so nervous but I've always really wanted to dance and it's so fun" etc blah blah.
My look is sorta sweet/innocent/trendy kinda teen-ish (even tho I'm 26 lol).
Also when I go up onstage, should I sorta see who is watching me and then approach them first? Also look around the room and see a guy and try and make eye contact and then draw them in that way based on his reaction?
Also, is there some sort of ettiquette as far as customers go, like as long as they are alone they are fair game? I don't want to start trouble with anyone, like approach a custie when another girl was talking to him but went to the bathroom or something and get beat up when she comes back lol. I'm a little nervous about messing with a custie someone else is talking to but I know thats the nature of the competition right?
Is there any other tips for a TOTAL complete newbie?




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I'm probably over thinking this. I just feel like it would be so impossible to sell dances. lol. I keep telling myself that the girls must be there because they are making money, no one would work there otherwise and if they can do it I can do it.


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