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    I posted this in the newbie section, and got plenty of views, but no replies....I'm just curious if this is considered "slow" for dancing

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    What do you mean by slow? Her actual movements or how many tips she is getting?Her movements seem to be a nice medium pace. As far as tips go, stage is usually a place to advertise and gather leads. Your rel money is made with one on one interactions with the customers.

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    Her movements

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    I don't think her movements are slow. The stage is very small, however her movements are not in my opinion fluid. There are different "styles" of dance, and this would work in some clubs.

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    I don't think her movements were necessarily slow or fluid, but why are you asking??? This may help for us to better understand the real reason behind your post...

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    I've just been really confused with how slow to dance while on stage or giving a lap dance, especially if there is fast-paced music playing. I just feel awkward dancing reallly slow to a fast song such as "Womanizer" by Britney Spears.

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    She wasn't really impressive to me, but I am only one person. Being slow and sensual works for some and doesn't for others. One of our weekend girls never danced to anything fast tempo. But that worked for her. I danced to some slow sometimes and made good money. But I usually dance to faster songs. All my songs are rock. I don't dance to any pop or rap. Every now and then I will throw techno in. Here is one of my fave girls' links to youtube. Watch her vids. She is very fluid.

    http://www.youtube.com/user/REDKE71

    She is also the winner of Miss Poleapalooza for 2008

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    i dance slow, even to rap and R&B. As long as you are aware of how your body looks its sexiest different speeds will work.

    You dont have to "keep up" with the music you are dancing to. You can always find a slow beat and look good to the song even if its fast. im more worried about looking fluid and sexy than being a dancing machine.

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    Honestly? I think that you're OVERTHINKING it. And when I say "over-thinking it" I mean you're not going to make any $ because of it.

    Stop thinking of stripping as a "pace" of dancing. I dance "AMAZINGLY" whether I'm shaking, grinding, or drifting in boredom. harmony with the music.

    STOP OVERTHINKING IT. IT'S NOT THE "SPEED" OF YOUR HIPS. If you don't get it, that's your problem. (OK OK, I'm a bitch, but come on, ya'll know what I mean - "too slow or fast"??) (IF ya have to ask - that's your only problem) As much as all you sexy SW'ers promote kindness to newbies - I'm right! Right?

    It doesn't matter how fast or how slow.. STOP caring - and the men will CUM to YOU!! Be confident, stop worrying!! They can sense it on you!! Be confident - and the money will follow! Good luck chica! :-)

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    I just watched the first one...

    i'm pretty sure her movements are slow. But its because she is pausing alot to pose for the camera. Its less about the dancing and more about being in a nice position.

    but even if you were to dance that slow, you might be able to pull it off without it getting boring.





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    Quote Originally Posted by hl1986 View Post
    Honestly? I think that you're OVERTHINKING it. And when I say "over-thinking it" I mean you're not going to make any $ because of it.

    Stop thinking of stripping as a "pace" of dancing. I dance "AMAZINGLY" whether I'm shaking, grinding, or drifting in boredom. harmony with the music.

    STOP OVERTHINKING IT. IT'S NOT THE "SPEED" OF YOUR HIPS. If you don't get it, that's your problem. (OK OK, I'm a bitch, but come on, ya'll know what I mean - "too slow or fast"??) (IF ya have to ask - that's your only problem) As much as all you sexy SW'ers promote kindness to newbies - I'm right! Right?

    It doesn't matter how fast or how slow.. STOP caring - and the men will CUM to YOU!! Be confident, stop worrying!! They can sense it on you!! Be confident - and the money will follow! Good luck chica! :-)
    O.K. I understand what you're saying, but the only reason I asked is because all I've read while browsing through various threads is to do everything "slow". This is the first time I've asked this question (yes, I posted two threads, due to no replies to the other), so I don't understand how you can say that I'm "Overthinking" it.

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    well, i actually got told by a customer when i started dancing that i had good moves... but i danced too fast.

    So, i think speed of dance is actually a quite relevant question. If you don't have alot of movement (i.e. pole tricks, splits, ass poppin)...then dancing too slow for 4 mins straight tends to get very boring for customers....i have witnessed it

    But you could also dance too fast (like i did when i first started), and no matter how great you wind your hips or do your tricks...it takes away from the sensuality

    but as for finding your own speed, a median between the two...no one online can help you out with that. Ask customers or the girls. I'm sure they will tell you if you need to slow down or speed up. You can't compare yourself to girls on videos. You need to find your own style

    I think hl1986 blew the question up....its not that serious


    ps. please delete the other thread....two of the same is just not needed
    Last edited by Ms. Mia Roberts; 11-16-2008 at 03:11 PM.





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