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    Angry Fucking DJ

    The dj could be an asshole to ppl @ my club and he's usually nice to me but tonight was the first nite he ever turned on me.

    I was by the dj booth and all of a sudden he starts talking to me

    "Does your b/f like what you do? What do you tell him when you get home? 'Honey, I grinded on cock all night?'"


    That was totally out of line.

    Then later on I was in the dressing room since my friend was doing my hair and started to insult me about having hair extentions wen all the girls have em.

    He was mean to me the whole nite.

    Then the second time he went in there while we were straightening my hair he was like

    "Are you guys straightening it?"
    So sarcastically I said,

    "No, we're curling it. ......its sarcasm "

    So he was all like, u wana be like that?

    So he went for the lowese thing. I'm mixed with black so he starts saying

    "you guys are taking down the statue of liberty and putting aunt jemima with a turkey leg up"

    &

    "what does jfk, martin luther king, and barack obama have in common? (what?) I'll tell you in two weeks....."


    I just felt like he was out of line and it got to me a lot, sadly.

    Should I confront him about it or just leave it alone? :[
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    I think you should see how he acts next time you go in.. and if he is still on his sh*t, then you should say something..

    If he has moved onto making someone else miserable, then I think you should just leave it alone.. you don't have to be overly friendly, just be cordial.

    Thats how I am at work. I'm sorry he made you feel that way.

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    Holy shit, can you talk to a manager or the owner? Are they approachable? I would not feel safe working with this guy.
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    My guess would be he wants you, you are out of his league, and he's compensating the way an insecure asshole so often does, pretending to be cocky, and turning out an arrogant (actually insecure) prick. Insulting what he can never have.

    In any case, he's way, way out of line--and not funny, either. Best policy--ignore him like the geek he is. Whether I could do so in your shoes, I don't know. Find out if he has some kind of in with the owner or manager. If he does, proceed with caution.
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    agreed the same thing happened to me he always would be so flirty and once when i brought my boyfriend in he turned into a complete immature dick then simply stopped talking to me

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    ""what does jfk, martin luther king, and barack obama have in common? (what?) I'll tell you in two weeks.....""

    ^I am NOT amused.

    Grr...

    That is very strange. How odd that he would be normal to you and then be like this all the sudden. Can you talk to him or is he completely unnaproachable? Is it possible one of the other girls may have told him you were talking shit/made up some sort of other lie about you to him to start pointless drama?



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    Maybe you don't tip him?

    Just throwing it out there... one of the DJs I worked with was mean to the cheapo girls, and rightfully so.. not insulting them in any way, but he wouldnt make small talk, wouldnt smile and wouldnt play the songs they asked him to play promising to tip later.. he did keep it professional

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    This guy is WAY out of line with his obscene comments and racist remarks. I agree with Djoser, I think Mr DJ wants you. Do you think he was holding on to hope that the two of you might one day hook up, but recently found out you have a very steady boyfriend. Are you on good terms with your coworkers? Can you dscreetly ask them if ever "goes off" on any of them. I hate to appear stupid,but is he white? Has he gotten this new rude attitude since the election? I would have "lost it",if he made that assasination joke to me. That crap is NOT FUNNY AT ALL. I pray for our new president and his family everyday. I agree with the poster who said you need to find out how tight the dj is with the management. I would tread lightly if he is tight with management. If he's not tight with them,I would start writing down his rude comments and nasty things that he says to others.

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    I've had those kinds of problems with djs before. I tell them this "I don't like the way you talk to me. If you treat me with respect, I will tip you 10% of what I make every night. If you don't, then you will never see another dollar from me." If that doesn't work, then you get together with other girls who have the same complaints, and go talk to the managers together. If you get a few girls together, then it shouldn't matter how tight he is with management.

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    This must be "DJ turns on stripper he's always been nice to" week. Me and a guy that I have been working with for quite a while, and have always been chums with, got into it this week. He's always been my favorite and we've always been great work partners.

    The other night when I went to tip him out, he looked at my tipout and questioned if I was tipping him out as much as I should be. Then he went on to accuse me of having more VIP time than I really did. I do not have a reputation of being dishonest with my tipout and don't know why he would accuse me of lying. It was weird. I have to work with him tonight, and I guess I'm just gonna act normal like nothing happened but it's still weird...


    What that guy said to you was a whole other story, though. He's borderline making racist comments and that is NOT acceptable. Also, saying things like making references to you "grinding on cock" is also disrespectful and demeaning.

    Was he fucked up maybe? High on something? Drunk?

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    Quote Originally Posted by CarlyMIA View Post
    Maybe you don't tip him?

    Just throwing it out there... one of the DJs I worked with was mean to the cheapo girls, and rightfully so.. not insulting them in any way, but he wouldnt make small talk, wouldnt smile and wouldnt play the songs they asked him to play promising to tip later.. he did keep it professional


    ?
    No.
    I tip him more than other girls.

    That's sad if you think that's an excuse for my dj to be acting rude to girls RANDOMLY at my club.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady Xplicit18 View Post
    ?
    No.
    I tip him more than other girls.

    That's sad if you think that's an excuse for my dj to be acting rude to girls RANDOMLY at my club.
    Then...STOP!!!! Tip him just a little bit(say $5 bucks) and say something like" I woudve given you more, but you were such an asshole to me the other day. Stop it, and you will get more...keep it up, and ill go to a mgr or stop tipping you at all".

    Guarantee you he stops(if he has an ounce of common sense he will).

    Sorry you had to deal with that dollface, no one should have to put up with that.

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    Another superstar giving us a great name...


    Tip him minimum and run the dollars under a faucet first.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady Xplicit18 View Post
    ?
    No.
    I tip him more than other girls.

    That's sad if you think that's an excuse for my dj to be acting rude to girls RANDOMLY at my club.
    It's sad that I think it could be his excuse for acting rude? I'm just giving you ideas on MAYBE why he acted the way he did... so it's sad I have an opinion? OKKKKKKKKKKKKKAAAAAYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!

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    I feel for you. It sounds like his girlfriend realized what a piece of shit he is and dumped him so now he's taking it out on you. Or, as someone else said, he probably has a thing for you and has his panties in a bunch because he knows he's out of your league. I'd complain about him to the manager especially the racist remarks he made. He doesn't deserve to have a job with that attitude. And as for tipping him, he can eat shit if he thinks he's gonna get money from those he makes remarks to.

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    WOW!!!....um you handled it better than I would have...I would have went off on his ass and got fired!!...Sorry but for me I just cant deal with demeaning racist people..ughh!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady Xplicit18 View Post
    The dj could be an asshole to ppl @ my club and he's usually nice to me but tonight was the first nite he ever turned on me.

    I was by the dj booth and all of a sudden he starts talking to me

    "Does your b/f like what you do? What do you tell him when you get home? 'Honey, I grinded on cock all night?'"


    That was totally out of line.

    Then later on I was in the dressing room since my friend was doing my hair and started to insult me about having hair extentions wen all the girls have em.

    He was mean to me the whole nite.

    Then the second time he went in there while we were straightening my hair he was like

    "Are you guys straightening it?"
    So sarcastically I said,

    "No, we're curling it. ......its sarcasm "

    So he was all like, u wana be like that?

    So he went for the lowese thing. I'm mixed with black so he starts saying

    "you guys are taking down the statue of liberty and putting aunt jemima with a turkey leg up"

    &

    "what does jfk, martin luther king, and barack obama have in common? (what?) I'll tell you in two weeks....."


    I just felt like he was out of line and it got to me a lot, sadly.

    Should I confront him about it or just leave it alone? :[
    I would shove my heel up his nostril. However, the best bet is to speak to management about it (and ask the hairdresser to back you up as a witness). That shit should never be ok in any club.

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