Even after a couple of years now of being a strip club regular, this is still a subject I find hard to figure out on a case by case basis. I think some general rules are easy.
1. If a girl comes up to you as a first-timer (whether it's your first time in the club, or just your first time to talk to her), if she is the initiator, there is no "tipping for conversation" (TFC) obligation. She is trying to sell you a dance, or a VIP, and you either buy or you don't. She can stay as short or as long as she wants, it's up to her, but the sale is the tip here.
2. If you are someone's regular, you pretty much have already worked out what kind of $$ you will be giving for her time and/or dances. So my confusion doesn't really aply here.
3. If you are Mr. Moneybags, you just let the money flow when you're in the club and there are no worries if you're doing the right thing. Money is always a Right Thing.
So. If it's not a first-time conversation, you're not a girl's regular, and you're not Mr. Moneybags, is there a TFC obligation? How do you know when it has started? How do you know how much? Does it ever get explicit (it hasn't with me -- and I'm not talking about sexually explicit). How does the girl initiating the conversation, not you, change the TFC obligation? If you get dances, can that cover a TFC obligation?
It's still all complicated and confusing.



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