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    "Well, I have 4 kids, so back off!!"

    I feel kinda bad even posting this, but I gotta vent cause this is just bullshit!

    I don't usually work weeknights, cause I know how slow it can be, and girls are cut-throat competitive, but I went in anyway cause we needed some mid-week cash (groceries, etc). It was HELLA slow as I expected, but I still just smiled and kept positive thoughts in my mind.
    My first stage, fella comes up to tip me. I could tell he had money. He says: "When you come off stage, come see me, I'd like to buy you a drink and get some dances"...... Sweet!!!
    So I go over, have a few glasses of wine and give him some dances. I pitch my VIP hustle and score. He says YES. Just then I get called on stage again and it's too late to "tip to skip" if you know what I mean.
    So I go on stage and half way through, notice another girl had swooped in and was now sitting at the table. No big deal, I thought. It happens all the time, and I don't care. He probably was in the process of telling her he had plans. So I go back to the table after my stage and he's sitting there looking PISSED. I ask if everything is alright and he says "NO, that girl (points to the girl that had been sitting there) is CRAZY. She's giving me and attitude about not buying her a drink!"
    Now, I don't know the girl, and I wasn't there, so I can't judge. I just try to shrug everything off and say "Well, let's escape from this drama and go to the VIP!" He smiles, and right as I am getting him up, the girl comes over and starts ripping me a new asshole!!!!

    Basically she went off in my face, saying that because she has 4 kids and is a single mom, that she DESERVES THE MONEY MORE THAN ME! That she is "there to make money" (like I'm not) and "Needs it more than any bitch in here" WTF??! I don't even know what she said after that. A bunch of jumbled "poor me" bullshit followed by her telling me she'd "Get fired or go to jail" over me. I mean seriously WTF? I didn't do anything! I was on stage when whatever happened.
    I ended up walking away and finding another customer. I saw the guy later and he apologized and said he wasn't coming back ever again.

    Like I said, I don't know what happened....BUT it's still no cause for this girl to go off on me simply because she feels her need is greater than mine. How did she know I didn't have kids, anyway? I don't....but she somehow pegged me for a child-less person.

    I happen to have a husband that pays out 60% percent of what he makes for child support, so I might as well have a baby of my own. Hence the reason I started stripping!


    I am in no way saying that I don't have sympathy for single mothers, but damn! Amazing how some people are such modern-day MARTYRS! (a person who seeks sympathy or attention by feigning or exaggerating pain, deprevation, etc)I know it's got to be hard but to take it that far as to go off on someone simply because they were making the money YOU thought you deserved more?
    WTF. I mean fuck, I am as poor as everyone else. The last thing I think about doing is something as ridiculous as this.

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    Default Re: "Well, I have 4 kids, so back off!!"

    eww what a bitch. i can understand being mad because its a slow night (i think this all the time when im having a slow night, "why is this bitch getting so many dances. i deserve the money more than she does cuz i havent done any yet!") but blaming it on her kids? if she couldnt afford kids she shouldnt have had them! it was her choice to have those poor kids, i feel so bad for them. its so freaking stupid to have kids, much less FOUR kids when you are not financially stable. girl deserves to have her kids taken away from her

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    Default Re: "Well, I have 4 kids, so back off!!"

    That makes my blood boil! I hate cut- throat bitches like that, I know it's everyone for their own self, but she needs to have some dancer etiquette and get on birth control. I'm glad you got the cutsy, the best woman won.

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    Thats so wrong.... there is a chick like that in one of the places I work.... tells everyone she has 4 kids, one died, one is sick .....etc.... no child support.... who knows if its true but I think the whole idea of using that as a hustle is pathetic.

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    Default Re: "Well, I have 4 kids, so back off!!"

    Wow at no point did a bouncer step in? Maybe bouncers at my club have nothing better to do but that would never have transpired. They will check on girls when there are two with a customer to make sure everything is ok. I would have alerted management, not only is that cut throat but the club lost money.

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    Yeah, and the thing is to, she was just trying to fuck up your game...I mean think about it, her yelling at you certainly didn't make the customer say, "You're right, you do have four kids, I will take you to VIP instead!"

    Although I have to say in regards to this

    I happen to have a husband that pays out 60% percent of what he makes for child support, so I might as well have a baby of my own. Hence the reason I started stripping!

    How many kids does he have???
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    God loves strippers and when guys do things like that its an automatic ticket to HELL!


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    Quote Originally Posted by VegasPrincess View Post
    Yeah, and the thing is to, she was just trying to fuck up your game...I mean think about it, her yelling at you certainly didn't make the customer say, "You're right, you do have four kids, I will take you to VIP instead!"

    Although I have to say in regards to this

    I happen to have a husband that pays out 60% percent of what he makes for child support, so I might as well have a baby of my own. Hence the reason I started stripping!

    How many kids does he have???
    I also wondered that.

    Why did you walk away from the dude? I'm sure he was even more irritated with that girl (and probably liked you more). Was he just too mad to get the VIP?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Otoki View Post
    I also wondered that.

    Why did you walk away from the dude? I'm sure he was even more irritated with that girl (and probably liked you more). Was he just too mad to get the VIP?
    i was wondering the same thing. i would have no way given up and left. fuck her.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Harleylynn View Post
    Wow at no point did a bouncer step in? Maybe bouncers at my club have nothing better to do but that would never have transpired. They will check on girls when there are two with a customer to make sure everything is ok. I would have alerted management, not only is that cut throat but the club lost money.
    The bouncers there rarely do shit. I've seen girl fights transpire and they just stand there. Thank god I don't have to tip them out! Alerting management would have gotten me nothing but a good laugh.
    I make $$ there, and generally like the club, I never have nights like this, either. It's been low to no drama for me since I've been there then this bitch steps out of the woodwork.

    Quote Originally Posted by VegasPrincess View Post
    Yeah, and the thing is to, she was just trying to fuck up your game...I mean think about it, her yelling at you certainly didn't make the customer say, "You're right, you do have four kids, I will take you to VIP instead!"

    Although I have to say in regards to this

    I happen to have a husband that pays out 60% percent of what he makes for child support, so I might as well have a baby of my own. Hence the reason I started stripping!

    How many kids does he have???
    ONLY 1 ! Amazing, huh? We have done our homework and it's solid at this point that he's having too much garnished, and we need to lawyer up but it's expensive. It's one of those things we need to take care of but takes time and money.

    Quote Originally Posted by Otoki View Post
    I also wondered that.

    Why did you walk away from the dude? I'm sure he was even more irritated with that girl (and probably liked you more). Was he just too mad to get the VIP?

    I walked away because I thought this bitch was gonna kill me! She was throwing a mad fit. I was just fearing for my life (or one of my limbs)

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    Default Re: "Well, I have 4 kids, so back off!!"

    I would have said "..and by acting like this you're setting a wonderful example for them, now if you'll excuse me I have a VIP to do"
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    Default Re: "Well, I have 4 kids, so back off!!"

    Oh my god, talk about literally turning dancing into begging with your body.

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    Default Re: "Well, I have 4 kids, so back off!!"

    I have seen dancers like this in action. What they don't realize it that they're hurting themselves more than anything. Every other customer in there is probably thinking what a crazy bitch she is and that's just killing her chances of getting dances from anyone else.

    We all have bad nights. But would it kill these girls to just take it into the dressing room and stop scaring customers off?!

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    What a trashy way to behave. I would definitely tell my manager if I were you.

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    Unbelievable. It doesn't matter if she has ten kids and they all have cancer. We're all there to earn a living, stripping is not only for the needy!!! Where does this sense of entitlement come from?

    I wouldn't have let the guy go, I would have looked at her like she was crazy and took his arm and led him into VIP.


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    I'd have asked her if she knew what condoms were.

    Sorry hun, that was so immature on her part. I'd have walked away just as you did, I can always think of great retorts after the fact, but freeze up in the moment and just have to dip. I assume you are avoiding her, how is that working, any more drama?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Celia View Post
    I'd have asked her if she knew what condoms were.
    BWAHAHAHAHA~

    Quote Originally Posted by CherryBomb954 View Post
    I walked away because I thought this bitch was gonna kill me! She was throwing a mad fit. I was just fearing for my life (or one of my limbs)
    That sucks. I don't think I would have found a tactful way to get the customer to VIP in that situation. Sorry this happened to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Celia View Post
    I assume you are avoiding her, how is that working, any more drama?
    Well, I didn't work tonight, not working until Saturday. I am gonna act the same as I have to her and just about every other girl I work with.....by completely ignoring her.

    Quote Originally Posted by Dottie Rebel View Post
    What a trashy way to behave. I would definitely tell my manager if I were you.
    Not an option. They usually just end up firing both girls, not matter who is in the right and who is in the wrong. It's like asking to be canned just by coming to management and involving them in any drama. They are so jaded, their attitude is to just fire both girls rather then sit and listen to bitching back and forth about who was right. I don't want to lose my job over such nonsense!


    oh yeah, P.S. girls.........

    I forgot to mention that this girl also has a BRAND NEW boob job, what appears to be extensions, and the getup she was wearing didn't look cheap, either. Gotta love it.

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    Default Re: "Well, I have 4 kids, so back off!!"

    What a dumb bitch.

    I guess if she got fired or went to jail, that would solve all of her money problems and she would have plenty of money for her 4 kids.

    I think I would have walked off to just to diffuse the situation. But, I still would've tried to get the VIP and do my best to make the customer feel better,maybe even offer a complimentary song or something. It also had to have been very embarrassing to him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CherryBomb954 View Post

    Not an option. They usually just end up firing both girls, not matter who is in the right and who is in the wrong. It's like asking to be canned just by coming to management and involving them in any drama. They are so jaded, their attitude is to just fire both girls rather then sit and listen to bitching back and forth about who was right. I don't want to lose my job over such nonsense!
    Well that fucking sucks. And I know exactly what you mean. So many managers take the attitude that it's all just "bitch drama" and they don't want to "get involved". My management takes that attitude to a certain extent. We have found we can go through the housemom, who is older and has the GMs respect. If she takes something to him, he knows it's for real.

    Sucks that you don't have that support, Cherry

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    I have NO sympathy for people like this. THATS WHAT SHE GETS FOR HAVING KIDS SHE CAN'T AFFORD.

    Having multiple children when your head is barely above water is DUMB.

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    PS, since clubs usually don't care what their girls think, next time, talk the *customer* into complaining about her to the club.

    You can always jump in after him to further gang up on her. She deserves it : P.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CherryBomb954 View Post
    Well, I didn't work tonight, not working until Saturday. I am gonna act the same as I have to her and just about every other girl I work with.....by completely ignoring her.



    Not an option. They usually just end up firing both girls, not matter who is in the right and who is in the wrong. It's like asking to be canned just by coming to management and involving them in any drama. They are so jaded, their attitude is to just fire both girls rather then sit and listen to bitching back and forth about who was right. I don't want to lose my job over such nonsense!


    oh yeah, P.S. girls.........

    I forgot to mention that this girl also has a BRAND NEW boob job, what appears to be extensions, and the getup she was wearing didn't look cheap, either. Gotta love it.
    Wow. Fail.

    I'm sorry you don't have supportive management. My club is pretty drama-free BECAUSE they fire girls who cause problems. It makes a huge difference in the quality of girls you get there.

    Quote Originally Posted by venusace138 View Post
    PS, since clubs usually don't care what their girls think, next time, talk the *customer* into complaining about her to the club.

    You can always jump in after him to further gang up on her. She deserves it : P.
    That actually sounds like a good idea, if the customer was willing to complain from the beginning.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TopChevyGirl View Post
    What a dumb bitch.

    I guess if she got fired or went to jail, that would solve all of her money problems and she would have plenty of money for her 4 kids.

    Right.......? I mean, talk about hypocrisy reaching a new level! To be SO concerned with your child's well being to the point of flipping out on me just cause I was making money, then in the same breath admit a willingless and lack of concern for getting fired or even GOING TO JAIL?? I mean, WTF?

    Last time I checked, going to jail was a costly mistake, for anyone. And what would she have gone to jail for? Hitting me? Breaking one of my bones? I couldn't imagine anything else she would have had in mind to be locked up for. Hence why I ran far, far away!!! I don't need to be layed out by some crazy bitch. I've never been hit in my life and don't want to start.

    Quote Originally Posted by Dottie Rebel View Post
    Well that fucking sucks. And I know exactly what you mean. So many managers take the attitude that it's all just "bitch drama"
    Yeah, that's pretty much how it is. It's not smart to get into a cat fight. They'll just throw you the fuck out. The guys that manage the place have been there for like 14 years, so I think they are just jaded, like I said. I avoid them at all costs and just do my job. They barely know my name, which is a good thing. I stay out of their way and they don't fuck with me.

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