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    Excuse me while I vent. Im so pissed right now and upset. My boyfriend had the nerve to call me selfish tonight.

    I went to his house tonight to do some laundry and have sex. Well I did the laundry but we never got around to the sex. I fell asleep and when I woke up maybe an hr and a half later he had an attitude. I ask him whats wrong he wants to know why is it that everytime I come over I fall asleep. Yes I do usually about an hr or so then Im down for whatever.

    So I try to explain to him that I dont get much sleep at night because I have a 3 month old son and I also have two other kids, so yall know I don't get the 8 hrs of sleep needed to have proper rest.

    I also work a full time job who takes care of my 3 children by myself. I up every morning somewhere between 4-5 am and Im not going back to sleep till 10 or later than night.

    I still cant be believe he called me selfish because I fall asleep sometimes when I go to his house and when and I wake up I like hey lets have sex. He's like I hope your well rested I wanted to have sex earlier now I dont you only wana have sex when you want to.

    Was I really being selfish?

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    No, you were tired. He just wants more attention.

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    Almost sounds like a power trip.

    I've never understood the whole "we only have sex when you want to" argument either. So then I should have sex when I don't want to? WTF?


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    ^^I have never understood that shit either.

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    You're not being selfish at all. You're understandably exhausted. He's the one who's being selfish. He's lucky you want sex with him at all.

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    No you're not being selfish... you deserve your rest.

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    Having sex when he demands and you are tired will only piss you off in the long run and will teach him to be spoiled. Remember what we talked about in regards to 'training'?

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    ^^Girl Im trying to work on "training" his ass now.

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    I feel you on that. Dayum, you have a 3 month old (and a pouting 2 year old boyfriend too)

    Men can be such dicks. Teach him how to do ur laundry and tell him to wake you when it's done so yall can have sex.

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    WTF, I would have been pissed.

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    ^^ Oh I am I don't have time to deal with a 32 yr old child. Then when I try to explain it to him he can't seem to get it through his head.

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    ^ Jesus. You don't have time for this. It's just going to get worse, imagine the kind of husband he'd be! Move on!

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    is he the father of any of these children? if he is, why on earth isnt he helping out caring for them?! if not, does he have any children of his own?

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    Yes my youngest is his. He helps out but not enough we dont live together either.

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    if you're comfortable with this, perhaps he should be spending more time with the baby. perhaps you could alternate weekly with him? or something along those lines so you're both equally doing your part? maybe then he'll understand why you're so tired. it seems like he is a first time parent with little experience. i myself am childfree, but i still know how tired children can make you, since i occasionally spend time with my friend's 2 yr old- and after a day of that i'm TIRED!

    and no, i dont think you're being selfish at all. that man needs to understand how children can exhaust you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MoetATL07 View Post
    Yes my youngest is his. He helps out but not enough we dont live together either.
    Point that shit out to him right there!! As soon as the word selfish came out of his mouth, I woulda snapped back in the Shaniqua tone like, "Muthafucka, maybe if you were around helping me out with YOUR kid more, then I wouldn't be so damned tired! You'll do it when I'm good and damned ready to!"

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    So, you have a kid, but you don't live together, but you have sex with him?

    You're giving this guy a pretty easy time. He needs to be helping 50/50 with his kid.

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    Im comfortable with my child going over and staying with him. Thats what I want to do to show him whats it like. Yes this is his first child so he is totally new to this but that is still not an excuse.
    No we dont live together its a long story when my son was conceived we werent living together then we had a baby first instead of doing it the other way around.

    Im gonna tell him I need him to do more with our son. That I need more help Im just so use to doing it all by myself I dont say anything.

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    I agree with Viola. He has it way too easy- give him some more responsibility. If he resists give him an ultimatum. If he still doesn't straighten up or change his attitude, you have all the proof you need.

    Take it from someone who nows. One big lesson I've learned is what is revealed in the beginning is more often than not what you will have to deal with for years to come. Why bother unless you enjoy dealing with a man who acts like a boy? He's much older than you yet acting immature.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MoetATL07 View Post
    So I try to explain to him that I dont get much sleep at night because I have a 3 month old son and I also have two other kids, so yall know I don't get the 8 hrs of sleep needed to have proper rest.

    I also work a full time job who takes care of my 3 children by myself. I up every morning somewhere between 4-5 am and Im not going back to sleep till 10 or later than night.
    You do all of that PLUS dance, too? Damn girl!!

    Quote Originally Posted by MoetATL07 View Post
    ^^ Oh I am I don't have time to deal with a 32 yr old child. Then when I try to explain it to him he can't seem to get it through his head.
    He's 32? WTF? I was expecting this to be a way younger guy, more like 23. Then I scroll down and read that.
    Tell him if he wants sex then to help out a little more so you have the fucking energy to do it in the first place. Damn.

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    ^^ Not dancing right now still trying to lose the baby weight.
    Ok I told him what was up and he agreed to get in son more often.

    And I am the one way younger than him I only 24 yrs old.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MoetATL07 View Post
    ^^ Not dancing right now still trying to lose the baby weight.
    Ok I told him what was up and he agreed to get in son more often.

    And I am the one way younger than him I only 24 yrs old.
    Now we're talkin' my little Georgia Peach!!!

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    Who's selfish??? Put a mirror in front of him. Done like dinner that you didn't have time to cook for him because you're too busy being an independent mother. That's a wrap.

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    I hate to break it to you, but you have FOUR children.

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    Let him have the baby as much as possible. I did this with Ahries dad and he got the point. FAST.

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