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    Default What does "give me your number and we'll leave it at that." mean?

    I went to my usual strip club tonight. I am not exactly a regular. I make it out there when I am in the area, about 2 nights in a row, about every 3 weeks. One of the dancers tonight sat with me and conversed for a while. I had only seen her there on one other occasion. I got 2 or 3 private dances from her at that time. I bought her a drink while we talked. Then we went to the back room for a couple of dances. While we waited for the next song to start, to start the dances, she told me to leave her my phone number and "we'll leave it at that". I didn't have any business cards with me, so after the dances, I went to the bar to get a napkin and pen (and another drink). I wrote my number down, but then she was talking to a group of guys and I didn't want to disrupt her conversations or business. I figured I would pass it to her when she was free again. She ended up being occupied with dances, and I didn't see her again the rest of the evening.
    No big deal. I will be going back again tomorrow, because I had planned to all along as I am still going to be in the area. I don't know if she is working or not. I am just curious what she is wanting with my number.
    I never mentioned or showed interest in meeting outside the club. I am not adverse to that obviously. I just don't delude myself into thinking that the girls showing interest in me in the club is anything more than doing their job.
    Although I spent a bit of money there, it was nowhere near enough to put me in the candidacy as a sugar daddy.
    I have gone out with some dancers in the past, but usually not before knowing them a little better and having discovered at least some mutual interests. Anyway just curious what she may have meant. Not really too concerned one way or the other.
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    Default Re: What does "give me your number and we'll leave it at that." mean?

    I won't ask her for her number. A dancer giving up her number to customer opens herself up to stalkers or harrassment. The power and decisions lie with the dancer.
    She's going to make money off of me whether she shows (feigns) personal interest in me or not. Of course she may think she needs to make me think there is a shot at something. Heck she may be asking every guy in there for their number, and have a lot of them paying her bills.

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    Default Re: What does "give me your number and we'll leave it at that." mean?

    My point is that her not giving me her number would not be an indication that she isn't interested, but that she isn't stupid enough to give her information to someone she barely knows. If a dancer thinks she might be interested in finding out if she could be interested in a customer, getting his # allows her to set up a safe meeting place, and if she finds she is not interested can cut off contact without worry of being harassed afterward.

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    Default Re: What does "give me your number and we'll leave it at that." mean?

    it's stripper shit.

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    She probably wants your number so she can call you when business is slow at the club. I've gotten a few such calls over the years and have also been in the club and asked by dancer friends to call my friends to come down when its been slow.
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    Default Re: What does "give me your number and we'll leave it at that." mean?

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    She probably wants your number so she can call you when business is slow at the club. I've gotten a few such calls over the years and have also been in the club and asked by dancer friends to call my friends to come down when its been slow.
    That's a possibility that I hadn't thought of. She had mentioned that the last couple of days hadn't been too busy. I actually live over an hour away, so I don't just come in at the spur of the moment. I don't believe I mentioned where I lived to her.

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    Well that's a good point based on all the cases of customers being stalked and harrassed by strippers. Those crazy strippers just can't get it through their heads that this is only a business arrangement. That's why the clubs all make sure that the lots are all clear before the strippers leave the building at night. It's to keep all those obsessed strippers from following me home. I was planning of going ahead and giving her my phone number if she is there tonight. Maybe I shouldn't though. I don't know if I can fend her off if she tries to force herself on me.

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    I don't see how the joke is on me. If she calls me and does actually want to go out, that's cool. If I give her my number and she never calls, that's cool too. If as Bem401 says she calls to try to get me to come down and spend money on a slow night, that's not a problem. No matter what I will still be going back and spending the same amount of money there and will be just as likely to spend as much on her as I would otherwise. Maybe she does think asking for my number would get me to spend more money on her. Hey, that's the business, I have no problem with that idea.

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    Default Re: What does "give me your number and we'll leave it at that." mean?

    Strippers collect numbers to bring in customers, period. Times are tough at my SC and lately, just about every dance ends with "give me your number".

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    Default Re: What does "give me your number and we'll leave it at that." mean?

    CC condensed...

    Dude: Does she like me?

    Other dudes: No

    Dancers: *crickets*

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    Default Re: What does "give me your number and we'll leave it at that." mean?

    She wants to secure you as her regular and know what days you will be in to ensure that she is there when you are.

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    Default Re: What does "give me your number and we'll leave it at that." mean?

    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    CC condensed...

    Dude: Does she like me?

    Other dudes: No

    Dancers: *crickets*

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    Default Re: What does "give me your number and we'll leave it at that." mean?

    Quote Originally Posted by Loganx2000 View Post
    I won't ask her for her number. A dancer giving up her number to customer opens herself up to stalkers or harrassment.
    Dancers have PL phones that they use for work and getting their number doesn't mean it is personal; even if they see you OTC it is not personal. Repeat after me it is only business, it is only business.

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    ^^ Earl LOL True. But as I am lotion lubing Miss D that is hard to remember...even though I gave her $500 a few minutes before which automatically makes it business not personal.

    I truly admire the guys who can totally disconnect

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    Default Re: What does "give me your number and we'll leave it at that." mean?

    Quote Originally Posted by Loganx2000 View Post
    I won't ask her for her number. A dancer giving up her number to customer opens herself up to stalkers or harrassment.
    Not as much as before.

    Most have gotten smart enough to get a TracPhone or something similar, with a non-traceable number to use for work.

    They can give that number out to customers or what have you and if they decide for some reason they don't want to deal with someone(s) who have that number they toss a $30 phone, buy a new one, put some minutes on it with a phone card you can purchase at any corner store and give the new number out only to those people they want to keep on the string.
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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