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    My regular is constantly giving me "advice" on working at the club, which more often than not tends to be that the money in the industry is no longer good enough to be worth me being a stripper. He's always "reminding" me that I'm a nice girl and I shouldn't be taking my clothes off for less money p/night and that the club is too quiet for it to be worth me going in.

    He goes to the club 3-4 times a week whereas I'm pretty new to dancing, so part of me feels like maybe he knows what he's talking about. But no-one knows about stripping more than the strippers ourselves, right? Its true that earnings have gone down in the industry in general but my club was sold out of VIP rooms last weekend so clearly there's still $$$ out there!

    Ugh, it's just getting me down. I'm just trying to stay positive amongst his negativity and trying not to let it affect my money.

    Tell me I need to have confidence in my own decisions instead of listening to this crap?!


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    ^ forget that guy. He's trying to wear you down to date or fuck him.

    Although I am not making as much as I used to at my new club and in this economy, I'm certainly making more than I would at any other job until I finish school.

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    ^Right. It's shitty, because I have to work more hours to make even close to what I was making a few months ago, but I'm still making full time wage at part time hours. I plan on sticking it out.

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    yeah he's totally trying to wear you down.

    with these types, i always tell them that i'm thinking of becoming an escort. at some point in the conversation, it leans to what price i'm thinking of charging. i say 50 for sex, as if i think it's a fair price. and go figure, they ask to be my first customer. then i laugh at them.

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    If he's so worried about how much $$ your making, then tell him to give you more to make up for the difference in what he thinks you should be making.

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    ^^^ that's how i'd handle it. i'd tell him to give me money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by holly07 View Post
    If he's so worried about how much $$ your making, then tell him to give you more to make up for the difference in what he thinks you should be making.

    I second this BRILLIANT plan. At best, you'll get more money. At worst, it'll shut his ass up!

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    Quote Originally Posted by she sells sanctuary View Post
    yeah he's totally trying to wear you down.

    with these types, i always tell them that i'm thinking of becoming an escort. at some point in the conversation, it leans to what price i'm thinking of charging. i say 50 for sex, as if i think it's a fair price. and go figure, they ask to be my first customer. then i laugh at them.
    That sounds like a fast track to a soliciting charge. Be careful!

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    as long as you're happy with the money you're making, and you're making more there than you could be anywhere else, fuck what some "old timer" strip club customer thinks.
    "If she wants to dance and drink all night, well there's no one that can stop her. She's going til the house lights come up or her stomach spills onto the floor. This night is gonna end when we're damn well ready for it to be over, worked all week long, and now the music is playing on our time. Yeah we do what we do to get by, and then we need a release!" - Against Me!, "Thrash Unreal"

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    Quote Originally Posted by scarymary77 View Post
    ^^^ that's how i'd handle it. i'd tell him to give me money.
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    Quote Originally Posted by abadvi View Post
    That sounds like a fast track to a soliciting charge. Be careful!
    not the way i say it. and i am careful. i never agree to anything. i never take money.

    i just do it to see if a guy is an opportunistic predator like that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by she sells sanctuary View Post
    not the way i say it. and i am careful. i never agree to anything. i never take money.

    i just do it to see if a guy is an opportunistic predator like that.
    One does not have to take money or even touch a person to be guilty of prostitution. One only has to offer a sex act for something of value. If you have seen the guy more then once he is not a cop, at least not one who is working.

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    Default Re: My regular's "downer" advice

    i don't offer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_McKenna View Post
    My regular is constantly giving me "advice" on working at the club, which more often than not tends to be that the money in the industry is no longer good enough to be worth me being a stripper. He's always "reminding" me that I'm a nice girl and I shouldn't be taking my clothes off for less money p/night and that the club is too quiet for it to be worth me going in.

    When people give me fatherly advice, I just say, "You are so sweet. Thank you for watching out for me." I mean, what can they say to that? And it strokes their ego.

    Anyway, since he is dancing with you, your being a "nice girl" is obviously what he likes about you/it's a part of his fantasy.

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    is he spending alot of money?

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