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    I've wanted to strip since I was 18 and it all started b/c my boyfriend wanted me to go to a local strip bar with him and maybe dance (he was a dud anyway but I was stupid then). I didnt do it but I always thought there would be decent money and some fun involved and also a chance to be sexy. I just got implants about a month ago and started out as a 32 AAA (boy flat). They turned out okay but when I'm naked they are three finger widths apart (far spaced breasts) and I got the crease inscisions. The scars don't look that great and ride a little high so they are somewhat visible. I'm not sure how much more they will fade but I do use mederma. I've got kind of skinny legs at the bottom but a good butt actually. My feet. I was born with club feet (no pun intended) and the worst part, besides the scars on the backs of my legs, are my toes. They look like hell! They are all crooked and stuff!! So how badly, I guess I'm asking, would guys treat me if I tried to be a stripper? Would they all laugh and would I just be a joke? I'm not that pretty but I'm not ugly (I've inserted a pic). I really want to try to get into shape and do this but I'm scared that I'll just be a joke. what do u girls think?



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    Default Re: I wanna be a stripper but im not that hot

    i think you're hot!! and i'm not a dancer but i think you would do great.

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    Thank you you are too sweet!

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    I think you would do fine

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    You're very pretty.
    You can always wear closed toes shoes if you are conscious of your feet.
    The only thing i would advise caution about is starting so soon after your BA - i presume you had them placed under the muscle and if you intend to learn to use the pole then you need more time to recover before starting that. They are very new and they will drop and fluff and the space will close up some - mine look better year on year - 6 years down the line mine look far better than they did even a year after my op, so have some patience.

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    If you're curious about dancing, the best thing for you to do is audition IMHO. Spend time in a club, talk to management and maybe other dancers. You being hot or not does not get you into the business nor does it keep you out. Dancers' looks vary widely from club to club. You don't sound very confident in your looks, though. Hopefully your BA will have helped with that. Confidence is key, promise.

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    Default Re: I wanna be a stripper but im not that hot

    You seem very pretty to me also

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    You're definately hot enough girl!


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    Girl you are hot! You look like the girl next door which will work in your favor. As far as scars go, search SW and you will find alot of makeup that can cover that up. As far as your boobs far apart, alot of guys like that! What you need to do is realize what you like about yourself and show off that and then you will learn to LOVE the rest fo your body...especially from all of the added attention. GL

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    You could definitely be a dancer if you wanted to. You wouldn't believe some of the girls I've seen dancing. Makes me wonder what they were thinking when they decided to be strippers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hotrodriguez View Post
    My feet. I was born with club feet (no pun intended) and the worst part, besides the scars on the backs of my legs, are my toes. They look like hell!

    Knee highs! Thigh highs! Cute socks....guys love that shit.

    You are a very attractive girl. Go grab some cute knee high socks and rock it.

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    Default Re: I wanna be a stripper but im not that hot

    Girl,you're crazy if you think you're not hot.
    You're gorgeous.
    I think you would do fine,just be more confident.
    I've seen strippers with missing teeth,so don't worry about not being up to par.
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    You look quite lovely in your photo. You can conceal things like leg and ankle scars and toes through creative costuming (boots, opaque stockings etc.). And there is no reason to be concerned about wide set breasts. Everyone is built differently. You can even work on creating more cleavage with the right costume accessory, such as a cupless push-up bra or corset.

    My only concern is how are you in heels? Was your surgery 100% corrective so that you can stand and dance in 6" heels? If you've never tried walking in the stripper shoes before, this may be a problem.

    Also, you should make some visits to strip clubs as a customer. The girls that work there are normal women with normal flaws. The difference is the lighting and the costuming to create an illusion of fewer flaws. A little body makeup can go a long way to concealing scars, especially on the breasts after surgery.


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Default Re: I wanna be a stripper but im not that hot

    You are very pretty huni. Only thing is I have been talking to some girls still working in the industry and with what they have been averaging lately isn't great. And they have strong hustles are great girls and very gorgeous and friendly. So if you do this I suggest having a second job as well just in case. Once settled in on an average everyweek and comfortable enough with it then just stick with dancing. It is tough out there these days. I am glad I quit 2 months ago. Good luck!!





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    girlie you are beautiful, youll do great, i saw this one girl who was pigeon toed with a lazy eye and she banked from what i saw.

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    You are absolutely gorgeous! I bet you would do fine as long as you believe you are worth it. Don't put yourself down like that! And once again you are SMOKING HOT, great complexion and bone structure. As far as scars go guys do not that pay that close off attention at all.

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    You look great to me. Go rock it!

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    You're very pretty....but you gotta go in to the clubs knowing how smokin hot you are!!!

    Youll do the best when you radiate confidence.

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    LOL may I be the millionth person to say you are absolutely gorgeous, darling! A real head turner.

    One thing I am sort of concerned about though... all strippers do get knockbacks. It's part of the job. I'm sure you know this and I don't mean to be patronising but I worry that if you go in thinking you're not hot you might take them more personally...? You know?

    Anyway, you really are a stunner and if you decide to do it there's no way anyone would think you were "a joke" as you put it. I have known some real high earners who weren't as pretty as you.

    GOOD LUCK WHATEVER YOU DECIDE x

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    Confidence goes a long way in this business. So, instead of ripping yourself apart with what's wrong with you, try building yourself up with what's right about you. Anyone can dance, Lord knows I've seen it, but everyone can't make a living at it. Sounds like you need to get over your fear of rejection and test the waters. That's the only way to know for sure if stripping is the right step for you to take, but it's not all that it's cracked up to be. Money is tight for many now and business is slow. This may be a great time for you to experiment, I dunno. Good luck with whatever you decide and remember, you're only as hot as you think you are.

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    i agree with a lot of the posts on here. first off, you have a gorgeous face, and also a girl next door kind of face which will take you far.im going through the some self conscious issues myself before i start dancing. if you have a problem with your feet i agree with wearing closed toes shoes or even those thigh high boots (which will cover up the leg marks too). i would suggest trying some bio oil for the scars once youve healed a little more from the surgery. but if you have the confidence, those little issues with yourself wont matter. just keep telling yourself how hot you are. remember these guys are paying to come into the club to see you! play up the features you like about yourself and make sure you feel sexy yourself and itll all shine out when your on stage. just remember your gorgeous and dont take anything personally, most fo these guys are strangers, who cares what they think, you know youre hot. i also agree though that you should wait a little longer. a month or two is too fast to be getting up on that pole with implants IMO.and congrats on the new boobies. youll do great...

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    Gosh thanx EVERYONE for the very uplifting and helpful posts! Ive never set foot in a strip bar/club and have a lot of (bad) preconceived notions about them. This thread has rendered some great advice and I'm most definitely going to give myself a little time to heal and shape up before setting out on that journey. I bought a little all-in-one work-out gizmo last year just collecting dust, calling my name.

    ♥Hugs♥ thanx again u guys who have posted!!

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    I think you are hot, so go for it! lol

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    I think you are absolutely gorgeous (like everyone else!). But, maybe a bit self conscious as someone who was self proclaimed 'not that hot'. Maybe having a bunch of guys tell you how beautiful you are (if you decide to dance) could help!

    I was a lot less confident before I started dancing. I'm sure a lot of the girls here would agree with me...

    Whatever you decide to do, good luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by angelicat View Post
    I think you are absolutely gorgeous (like everyone else!). But, maybe a bit self conscious as someone who was self proclaimed 'not that hot'. Maybe having a bunch of guys tell you how beautiful you are (if you decide to dance) could help!

    I was a lot less confident before I started dancing. I'm sure a lot of the girls here would agree with me...

    Whatever you decide to do, good luck!
    in part i agree with you, but her self esteem seems dangerously low. you and i (and pretty much any dancer) know that for every 100 guys who tell you you're beautiful... there's that one asshole who says something totally hateful. i don't think being in an environment so heavily driven on physical appearance is good for her right now. she's very pretty... but i worry that she could head down a dangerous road if she doesn't build some self-love BEFORE going into dancing.

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