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    Hey everyone.

    Well, I know this is so frekin' high school but I can't stand it anymore! I work with this girl, let's call her "Veronica". For years now we have worked together at various clubs in the city. She has hated me from day one, accusing me of " stealing her moves" which is so immature and silly. I will admit Im a damn good dancer, one of the best in the city, hands down. ( god I know that sounded vain but I swear to you Im pretty humble) Anyways, about 5 years ago, my second day working at the club she was at, she accused me of " stealing her moves" told me to stop, I ignored her. Then the next day, I spilled beer off the counter in the change room and it fell on the floor, I wiped it up and went on with my shift. At the end of the night before I go on stage she comes storming over to me bare footed with her plastic flip flops in hand... shouting " did you fucking spill beer in the change room?" I said yes, she continued... " well you got it all over my flip flops!" I responded, "there rubber, they'll dry" and was called on stage. Ever since then she had done everything in her power to make my work night a living hell. So, I decided to never work at that bar again because she was there. So I went back to my home club.....

    Happy working, Veronica free for 3 years she ends up at the club im working at because she got fired from the other bar. She has been working with me for the past two years and Im at my wits end. I am leaving that bar because over the weekend she upset me so much. She does little things like tells customers lies, sits at a table that Im at. Walks by my vip room while im in there with a customer and will smile at him and try to steal him. Well, the other night she took my customer from me while I was sitting with him at his table with his friend. She comes over and whispers something in his ear ( looking at me the whole time) and off they went, he was with her for the entire night, most likely spent $500 on her. I was so angry. She is that type of girl that ALWAYS wins. She should have never even come over to a table where I was sitting, I dont do that to her, she has no respect.

    This girl, is pretty on the outside, I wont lie, but a terrible person on the inside. I dont know how to handle it. I cant work with her because Im constantly thinking of ways to get revenge. That's not healthy. I cant stand the person I become when I work with her. Im sad because were we work, its the only busy club in the city and everywhere else sucks really bad. The fact that its 4 days later and Im still pissed off about it goes to show you I seriously need help. I dream of cutting her hair off or her getting fat, its negative to my soul and I want it to change. Does anyone have any suggestions? If not to help me get over this then to get revenge.... lol

    AHHHHH.... SEEE! I need help.
    Stop talking. Start spending! lol

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    Oh god, I dont know....my suggestion would be to fight fire with fire....payback?

    Since you arent going to quit because you love your club, and in all fairness YOU were there first, and she isn't planning on leaving.....I would probably find a way to get her fired. Think about it. She is obviously pushing your buttons and probably hoping YOU leave, so I would figure out some way to get rid of her

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    But doesn't that make me no better than she? Doesn't that just fuel the fire and make matters worse? God! It's so hard to decide..... thanks for the input babe.
    Stop talking. Start spending! lol

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    I had the same problems with a girl I used to work with. Then karma finally bit her on the ass. She knows not to fuck with me.





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    I don't think you should stoop to her level. I say keep ignoring her and just do ur thing. Don't let her see that she is getting to u and hopefully eventually she will stop.

    Maybe you can work different days/shifts to avoid seeing her for now?

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