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    I start next week, and any general advice would be appreciated. My game plan is to keep my eyes and ears open on my first day and possibly learn from the other girls. Kind of take my ques from them.

    I bought black platforms, and going all black the first day with a balck miniskirt and thong, black top. I have long dark hair that is going to be teased way up.

    I'm 5'6, 140.

    My boobs are a good size I think (Cs), but when I went to the club to talk with the owner I noticed that most of the girls walking around were bigger than me in the chest. I am a little concerned that I may be overlooked because of this, but I might just be overanalyzing (i do that).

    I have a thick booty, and hope it can make me some nice cash.

    I am half latina and half white. From what I saw all the girls are white there. Maybe my darker features can help seperate me from the crowd.

    Can't think of anything else to share right now. Any advice is appreciated!

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    The best of luck to you Jersey Girl. It sounds like you have your plan down-to stay alert to everything around you and to learn by example. Smart lady! Your outfit and your description of yourself sounds hot. If it works for you,you might play up your Latina sexiness by wearing some jewelry or article of clothing that has a Latin flavor and/or by dancing to Latin flavored music which is some of the hottest,sexiest,and most romantic in my opinion. If these things work for you,you can always go with it. If it doesn't work,you can always try other things,right? Just be you and I think your individualitywill make you GLOW!!! Cheers, Harlow

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    I always wished I would have taken more after the hispanic side of my family! I look as all-American as can be! I think most guys in a strip club would pick a mixed or hispanic girl over a white girl if they both danced equally well and were both equally seductive, just my opinion. Or maybe that's just the way it is down south. I wear brown contacts b/c I have naturally blue eyes and dye my hair brown and tan so girl you are so LUCKY! Don't worry about a thing you sound like you are going to be bringin in the dough

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    off topic: why wear brown contacts? i think dark hair and tan skin with bright blue eyes is an absolutely gorgeous combination. your eyes really pop when they contrast so much.
    "If she wants to dance and drink all night, well there's no one that can stop her. She's going til the house lights come up or her stomach spills onto the floor. This night is gonna end when we're damn well ready for it to be over, worked all week long, and now the music is playing on our time. Yeah we do what we do to get by, and then we need a release!" - Against Me!, "Thrash Unreal"

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    I'm thinking the same too. I have boring brown eyes... I would love blue eyes.

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    lol i think it's the grass is greener on the other side thing. Ive thought my eyes looked "washed out" blue all my life and have always wanted dark eyes. Alluring, exotic dark eyes. Just like people that have always been stuck with brown eyes want bright eyes for a change. But for me it's just wanting that whole hispanic look.

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    LOL. Im mixed. Tan skin , jet black hair...and i wear blue contacts for the "exotic contrast". I still get asked if im hispanic all the time,lol.
    The grass is always greener,lol.

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    Good luck, jerseygirl. The club scene has been slow for awhile. Don't get discouraged. Try to hold on to as much money as you can. Don't go out and buy tons of outfits right now until you're sure that this is going to work out for you. Try to learn as much as you can. Don't be afraid to ask questions, but keep your personal business private. Happy Hustling!

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    Don't be afraid to ask questions, but keep your personal business private. Happy Hustling![/quote]

    What do you mean "personal business?"


    Oh, and hotrod, I agree that blue eyes with dark hair kicks ass. The contrast is great. I have brown eyes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jerseygirl View Post
    Don't be afraid to ask questions, but keep your personal business private. Happy Hustling!
    What do you mean "personal business?"


    Oh, and hotrod, I agree that blue eyes with dark hair kicks ass. The contrast is great. I have brown eyes.[/quote]


    She means your real name, phone number (unless you have a work phone), person details like family names, address, etc.

    Also...not to be mean, but if youre about 140lbs at 5'6", the club will most likely ask you to tone up/lose weight.

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    Also...not to be mean, but if youre about 140lbs at 5'6", the club will most likely ask you to tone up/lose weight.
    Skyeebaby I know you weren't trying to be mean, but any "ideal weight" website for women will tell you that any weight between 117-154 for a woman 5'6" is great. She is 14 pounds shy of even being near overweight. If she is 140, she is perfect and probably "thick" looking! I highly doubt she looks fat. Especially if she is part hispanic...sorry but a lot of us white girls tend to not have the greatest fat distribution it likes to go to the stomach, butt, and thighs (pear shape). Black girls and hispanic girls a lot of times look "thick." And 5'6" isn't exactly short. Height helps a lot. And I'm NOT putting down your helpful post either!!

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    Best bit of advice - while it's ok to watch the other girls for tips and advice, you probably shouldn't directly go up and ask how they make their money or how much, girls can get touchy about this.

    Also, don't tell men that you're new to dancing, if they say "I haven't seen you here before" just tell them you've danced heaps at other clubs and thought you'd give this new club a turn. I've seen too many girls admit to being new and have the guys be all dogdy or weird on them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cadenceq View Post
    Also, don't tell men that you're new to dancing, if they say "I haven't seen you here before" just tell them you've danced heaps at other clubs and thought you'd give this new club a turn. I've seen too many girls admit to being new and have the guys be all dogdy or weird on them.
    I trust what you're saying to her, definately. But I've also seen other girls write that they've actually used the excuse they were new to "appeal" to guys. That innocence/newness does seem to turn some guys on. But you have to read the guy first. I bet it works with the big rednecky-manly kind of guys that like to be "in control." I dunno, I've never even been a dancer why in the hell am I trying to help

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    "hotrodriguez" is one cool user name

    I wish you well and hope you make even more money than you think you will make ( a good feeling indeed ).

    BTW: jerseygirl too of course. Another great user name.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SkkyeBaby View Post
    What do you mean "personal business?"


    Oh, and hotrod, I agree that blue eyes with dark hair kicks ass. The contrast is great. I have brown eyes.

    She means your real name, phone number (unless you have a work phone), person details like family names, address, etc.

    Also...not to be mean, but if youre about 140lbs at 5'6", the club will most likely ask you to tone up/lose weight.[/quote]

    No offense taken. I have a fairly flat stomach, but I'm bottom heavy. I would never give out any info like that to a client.

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