Hmmmmmmmm How to say anything without coming across as condescending, chauvinist, or flippant? This is the razors edge.
You have the young, sweet, innocent girl next door type going for you. This is popular so don't sweat that. That is the type that rocks the school girl costume, daisy dukes costume, lil soldier girl costumes, Bo peep costume, etc. A cardio workout to burn excess calories, more lean meats and vegetables less carbohydrates (bread, pasta, etc) , and a low weight/high repetition free weights program for all over body tone would suit you need for now
You say you want into a high end club? Well you need to be high end and that takes work on your part. No one else can do it for you.
That MAC counter is an excellent suggestion, and I am pairing another suggestion to go with it. Buy a
Digital Voice Recorder and place it on the counter there to record all of the attendants suggestions. Then you can play that advice over and over again.
Diction. That art of speaking well. Men do not go to high end clubs just to see naked women. These men are also there to elevate themselves above the ordinary, to feel above the commonness of their average day. If this is only fantasy, so what. Watch this movie and see what Lawrence Fishburnes character has to say to the young girl.
Akeelah and the Bee. Maybe listen to
BBC radio and listen to their "style". You will come across as cultured and more desirable. Most anyone can be "street" or "ghetto" and it is over done. Emulate Michelle Obama perhaps and you will have better customers.
Your local public library may have language tapes or CDs on loan. A little French or Italian to toss into your conversation. To recognize when someone else uses a phrase and what it means will elevate you in that persons opinion since you understood how "clever" they are.
Seek out a style consultant, even if it is a one time appointment for now. This person will give you valuable advice on colors that complement your complexion and the ones to avoid. you will also get advice on proper clothes fit and the right kinds for your body type, and the designers that produce them. This is what business people do quite often, since appearance is part of the sale for them too.
If you are going to a club for an interview, then go like you are there to work. All the makeup and body preparations done. Dance bag ready. pad lock for the locker, lockable makeup box, baby wipes, hand sanitizer, etc. You are there to impress, don't look like you wandered in off the street and need change for the pay phone.
Hope that helps, and any is useful for you.
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