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    Angry Not gettin hired anywhere... confused and fed up!!! grrrr....

    i just don't understand why i'm not getting hired anywhere tho.... i feel like the only reason ricks hired me was because i was black....

    i kno i gained a lil wieght... but delilahs didn't even see me with my clothes off....

    i have a lil stomach... and love handles... but i can work on that....

    do u think that is why i'm not gettin hired??... or is it just my face (which i can't change) so i should not audition there anymore...

    i mean, i've gone to 4 clubs and not gotten a call back... i feel like there has to be something going on with me...

    (I'm gonna delete the images soon so please don't copy them...tank u! )
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    If they are spending money, we don't call them stalkers. We call them Regulars.
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    Default Re: Not gettin hired anywhere... confused and fed up!!! grrrr....

    my hair is in braids right now... i took the orange bathing suit pic a few days ago.... should i take out my micros and put in a weave?? is that why i have been getting turned down by the upscale clubs???





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    The braids makes you look WAY young. But that isn't always a bad thing. I don't know exactly where you are trying to get hired so I don't know. But, have you tried maybe some not as good clubs? You can actually make some better money bc guys go there to hang out and want your personality just as much as your looks. Try doing 30 Day Shred by Jillian Michaels and drinking at least 8 8 oz glasses of water a day. I lost 10 lbs last month by doing that. I also got a stripper pole so that has helped. Think about what clothes suit your figure best and also what patterns. That can always make a difference in the illusion of your appearance. I don't know if I helped, but I tried. Good Luck!

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    Oh and try to maybe get some darker eyeshadow and eyeliner. That will make them look more up than down. Even in a strip club.

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    To be very very honest, you look typical. You have that "girl next door" look that works well for white girls in white clubs a lot of the time but it doesn't do anything for black girls at white clubs. You'll need to make yourself look more exotic and interesting (for lack of a better word).

    Definitely tighten up your mid section and yes, a GOOD weave or wig will probably help (in my experience, braids don't go over so well). I emphasize good because a fucked up wig or weave (one that you just slap on your head without blending and taking your facial shape into account) can be spotted a mile away and they make whoever wears it look very low class.

    Make sure your make-up is on point and kind of dramatic to play up your pretty features.

    I hope I don't seem condescending. That's not my intention at all. I'm just trying to be helpful. If I'm out of line then tell me to shut the fuck up and I will .
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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_Luscious View Post
    To be very very honest, you look typical. You have that "girl next door" look that works well for white girls in white clubs a lot of the time but it doesn't do anything for black girls at white clubs. You'll need to make yourself look more exotic and interesting (for lack of a better word).

    Definitely tighten up your mid section and yes, a GOOD weave or wig will probably help (in my experience, braids don't go over so well). I emphasize good because a fucked up wig or weave (one that you just slap on your head without blending and taking your facial shape into account) can be spotted a mile away and they make whoever wears it look very low class.

    Make sure your make-up is on point and kind of dramatic to play up your pretty features.

    I hope I don't seem condescending. That's not my intention at all. I'm just trying to be helpful. If I'm out of line then tell me to shut the fuck up and I will .
    no...these are good ideas... stuff i haven't heard before...

    i don't put on alot of makeup... so maybe that is another thing... i have always looked "cute" in a young sort of way...very girl next door.... maybe i'll try and make it more "dramatic and interesting"...

    is there anyway to make myself look older too??





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    Quote Originally Posted by Forever_Fallen227 View Post
    The braids makes you look WAY young. But that isn't always a bad thing. I don't know exactly where you are trying to get hired so I don't know. But, have you tried maybe some not as good clubs? You can actually make some better money bc guys go there to hang out and want your personality just as much as your looks. Try doing 30 Day Shred by Jillian Michaels and drinking at least 8 8 oz glasses of water a day. I lost 10 lbs last month by doing that. I also got a stripper pole so that has helped. Think about what clothes suit your figure best and also what patterns. That can always make a difference in the illusion of your appearance. I don't know if I helped, but I tried. Good Luck!
    one club... i have no idea why didn't hire me... the girls there weren't that pretty at all

    they had one chic that looked so old and drugged out... and her mid section looked like the skin from pregnancy never stretched back in... like the skin was suffocating her belly button ring...

    i kno for damn sure i looked better than that.... so i'm not quite understanding whats going on with me....

    i think i would do better if i looked older i guess.... and u said the braids make me look young... so i guess i will be taking them out soon





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    Make-up can make all the difference in making you look older. I have that young problem too and I just had to learn how to do my make-up properly. There are some really good make-up tutorials on here and on Youtube.
    "A stupid man's report of what a clever man says is never accurate because he unconsciously translates what he hears into something he can understand." - Bertrand Russell

    "It's just a matter of people having low self esteem and being way too easily offended." -Random Guy on a Internet Forum

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    something wierd is goin on with the new search.... do u have any links miss luscious?





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    Here's what I could find:

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=94154

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=86714

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=99123

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=85432

    http://raquel13.com/makeup/tutorials/

    http://specktra.net/

    You can also go to a MAC store and have one of the make-up artists do it for you. That way you can see exactly what you need to do to achieve certain looks.
    "A stupid man's report of what a clever man says is never accurate because he unconsciously translates what he hears into something he can understand." - Bertrand Russell

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    In other words: Boo-motherfucking-hoo

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    What are you auditioning in??? What are you wearing?

    I agree with everyone who said you should really work on your makeup. Practice getting all gorgeous, tone up, and keep shining your smile. You're bound to get hired!!!


    Many kudos for sticking with it... even after so much rejection. A lot of girls would have fallen apart. Bravo Mia!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    What are you auditioning in??? What are you wearing?

    I agree with everyone who said you should really work on your makeup. Practice getting all gorgeous, tone up, and keep shining your smile. You're bound to get hired!!!


    Many kudos for sticking with it... even after so much rejection. A lot of girls would have fallen apart. Bravo Mia!
    I wore a pink gown with cut outs and high slits to most of my auditions... except at one of the risques... i wore the silver romper in my avatar... and at delilahs... it wasn't an audition...just an app and a picture.... so i was in my normal clothes... next time i go, i will have to get extra dolled up and wear something really sexy so i look better in the picture....

    and tank u sophia.... i kno i'm not fugly... and i worked in a great club in pittsburgh and made good money there... so i know i can do it if i just work on whats wrong... starting with my stomach and makeup





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    LMAO!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_Luscious View Post
    Here's what I could find:

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=94154

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=86714

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=99123

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=85432

    http://raquel13.com/makeup/tutorials/

    http://specktra.net/

    You can also go to a MAC store and have one of the make-up artists do it for you. That way you can see exactly what you need to do to achieve certain looks.





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    If they are spending money, we don't call them stalkers. We call them Regulars.
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    Fuck these people, seriously. Fuck them in the ass without lube or warning.
    LMAO!!!!

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    You are adorable! I agree with trying a much more glam and sophisticated makeup look and yes,MAC can help you there for sure! I like the pic with the high-ponytailmaybe something like that would be cute like a sexy Barbie! Your'e not in bad shape at all...I just think you need a new look and a shot of confidence...GOOD LUCK!

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    Hmmmmmmmm How to say anything without coming across as condescending, chauvinist, or flippant? This is the razors edge.

    You have the young, sweet, innocent girl next door type going for you. This is popular so don't sweat that. That is the type that rocks the school girl costume, daisy dukes costume, lil soldier girl costumes, Bo peep costume, etc. A cardio workout to burn excess calories, more lean meats and vegetables less carbohydrates (bread, pasta, etc) , and a low weight/high repetition free weights program for all over body tone would suit you need for now

    You say you want into a high end club? Well you need to be high end and that takes work on your part. No one else can do it for you.

    That MAC counter is an excellent suggestion, and I am pairing another suggestion to go with it. Buy a and place it on the counter there to record all of the attendants suggestions. Then you can play that advice over and over again.

    Diction. That art of speaking well. Men do not go to high end clubs just to see naked women. These men are also there to elevate themselves above the ordinary, to feel above the commonness of their average day. If this is only fantasy, so what. Watch this movie and see what Lawrence Fishburnes character has to say to the young girl. . Maybe listen to and listen to their "style". You will come across as cultured and more desirable. Most anyone can be "street" or "ghetto" and it is over done. Emulate Michelle Obama perhaps and you will have better customers.

    Your local public library may have language tapes or CDs on loan. A little French or Italian to toss into your conversation. To recognize when someone else uses a phrase and what it means will elevate you in that persons opinion since you understood how "clever" they are.

    Seek out a style consultant, even if it is a one time appointment for now. This person will give you valuable advice on colors that complement your complexion and the ones to avoid. you will also get advice on proper clothes fit and the right kinds for your body type, and the designers that produce them. This is what business people do quite often, since appearance is part of the sale for them too.

    If you are going to a club for an interview, then go like you are there to work. All the makeup and body preparations done. Dance bag ready. pad lock for the locker, lockable makeup box, baby wipes, hand sanitizer, etc. You are there to impress, don't look like you wandered in off the street and need change for the pay phone.

    Hope that helps, and any is useful for you.
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    oh man. in the third pic you look so young! I just want to pinch your cheeks.

    I get told alll the time I look young too...
    In order to create a more sultry look I use black eyeshadow...
    sometimes when I have some free time on my hands, I'll play around with my eyeshadows and see what looks good for the next time I need to do my make-up.

    I agree that maybe the braids might not be the best idea. I think you'd look great with straight hair and a side bang.

    make sure when you walk in the door to look great. make up done... hair done and down... and a you should wear a nice form fitting outfit that compliments your figure... because alot of times the manager knows whether or not he is going to hire you right at first look.

    do you have a workout regimen? I remember you saying you live on campus, so take advantage of your schools gym..

    good luck

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    You're gorgeous! I think long hair with side bangs like the op said. Your body is sexy and cute. Keep trying, dont give up

    The clubs might have reasons for not hiring which has nothing to do with you. Try different managers at different times.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms. Mia Roberts View Post
    I wore a pink gown with cut outs and high slits to most of my auditions... except at one of the risques... i wore the silver romper in my avatar... and at delilahs... it wasn't an audition...just an app and a picture.... so i was in my normal clothes... next time i go, i will have to get extra dolled up and wear something really sexy so i look better in the picture....

    and tank u sophia.... i kno i'm not fugly... and i worked in a great club in pittsburgh and made good money there... so i know i can do it if i just work on whats wrong... starting with my stomach and makeup
    You're not fugly. We just need to switch up the game plan.

    Young-looking isn't necessarily bad. You'd look great in a schoolgirl outfit and pig-tails and I am certain that you would bank like crazy. However, getting your foot in the door is the first step. So.... let's scheme

    We already know what doesn't work. Maybe it's the gown. I have no idea what it looks like... if you want you can post a pic. For all I know it might not be flattering and you may need to buy/borrow another audition outfit. Not the end of the world... You're in Philly so you have South St. at your disposal... there are plenty of little lingerie shops there stocked with at least one or two reasonably priced gowns. Shop around, score a deal... if all else fails you can always buy this Leg Ave. gown. http://www.snaz75.com/la-8238.html . It's under $20 and it looks great on ANYONE.

    If you're certain it's not the gown (and like I said... I don't know) we should take a look at the outfit you wear TO the audition. There is lots of helpful advice (and successful accounts) here: http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...d.php?t=122297

    Next... hair.... I have to agree... a weave or a wig would probably be helpful. I have never seen a dancer with braids and there must be SOME reason for it... the most likely reason being that club managers don't like 'em for whatever reason. If you can, get a weave/wig that is nice and long and make sure it is perfectly styled for your audition. Cinamonkisses recommended this style and I have to agree that it is GORGEOUS.... http://cgi.ebay.com/Sexy-long-wig-la...QQcmdZViewItem

    Make-up... yeah.... you can handle that. You have a lot of great links. Experiment and practice. Play around.

    Weight.... no big deal. In a month you'll be stellar.

    Practice your moves, your facial expressions in the mirror. Get comfortable stripping clothing off. Make sure you move SLOWLY..... verrrrrrrrry sllllllowly. By the time you're all set... this will be second nature to you.

    Good luck!
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    I think you're adorable. So, please don't get discouraged. Business is really slow these days. Some clubs have a hiring freeze during the winter. Don't think that it's you. Next time, go dressed to impress and ready to work. I think it's all BS why you're not getting hired, but stay positive and keep at it.
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    There could be so many possibilities. Could be the area, the club, your look, age, amount of girls at the clubs, anything... I did notice in the last picture, you have very closed-off body language. I know that's probably just being insecure in front of the camera, but are you going to these 'interviews' optimistic and confident or feeling like you're going to be turned down?

    I suffer from the 'young' thing too. I don't recommend cutting all your hair off, but I noticed whenever I wear my wig with bangs I ALWAYS get so many more comments about how young I look. With my chin length hair, people guess about mid 20s. I would go to a wig shop and see what makes you look more mature and compliments you the most.

    Also, +1 to the extreme makeup thing...

    You're not a 10 in body, but you're certainly not bad at all considering what you can see at SCs. A booty makes up for a lot of things, anyway.

    Another thing, no offense but you may want to consider getting a normal job for the time being...
    There's only so much you can learn in one place...
    The longer you wait, the more time that you waste.

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    From a males perspective, you look to nice and innocent. For a strip club it doesnt work for you. Try looking more slutty. At first glance you look smart try looking like trouble, someone thats done somethings.

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    You would get hired in Dallas! There's nothing wrong with you, you're gorgeous. I know that doesn't help much, but I don't understand why you aren't getting hired either...

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    good points. I wasn't really paying attention to what i wore to the auditions... i had shown up in sweats once or twice. I didn't think it mattered....

    and my make up has been weak now that i think about it. that last pic i added was the most make-up i have ever worn. (and it was holloween lol)

    i can't take a pic of the pink gown because i don't have it anymore. all of my dance clothes are gone. I just bought a black leg avenue gown tho, and i think its alot sexier than the pink one was. So that could have been a problem too.

    i've never had a regular workout routine. I danced in a group and hit the gym once in a blue moon.... That was all my excersise. Anybody have a particular routine (or link to one) that really helped them loose the weight?

    I think i'm gonna set a 10 lb goal.





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    LMAO!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cortana View Post
    You would get hired in Dallas! There's nothing wrong with you, you're gorgeous. I know that doesn't help much, but I don't understand why you aren't getting hired either...
    lol...tank u....maybe i'll move to dallas then





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    Fuck these people, seriously. Fuck them in the ass without lube or warning.
    LMAO!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ArmySGT. View Post
    Hmmmmmmmm How to say anything without coming across as condescending, chauvinist, or flippant? This is the razors edge.

    You have the young, sweet, innocent girl next door type going for you. This is popular so don't sweat that. That is the type that rocks the school girl costume, daisy dukes costume, lil soldier girl costumes, Bo peep costume, etc. A cardio workout to burn excess calories, more lean meats and vegetables less carbohydrates (bread, pasta, etc) , and a low weight/high repetition free weights program for all over body tone would suit you need for now

    You say you want into a high end club? Well you need to be high end and that takes work on your part. No one else can do it for you.

    That MAC counter is an excellent suggestion, and I am pairing another suggestion to go with it. Buy a Digital Voice Recorder and place it on the counter there to record all of the attendants suggestions. Then you can play that advice over and over again.

    Diction. That art of speaking well. Men do not go to high end clubs just to see naked women. These men are also there to elevate themselves above the ordinary, to feel above the commonness of their average day. If this is only fantasy, so what. Watch this movie and see what Lawrence Fishburnes character has to say to the young girl. Akeelah and the Bee. Maybe listen to BBC radio and listen to their "style". You will come across as cultured and more desirable. Most anyone can be "street" or "ghetto" and it is over done. Emulate Michelle Obama perhaps and you will have better customers.

    Your local public library may have language tapes or CDs on loan. A little French or Italian to toss into your conversation. To recognize when someone else uses a phrase and what it means will elevate you in that persons opinion since you understood how "clever" they are.

    Seek out a style consultant, even if it is a one time appointment for now. This person will give you valuable advice on colors that complement your complexion and the ones to avoid. you will also get advice on proper clothes fit and the right kinds for your body type, and the designers that produce them. This is what business people do quite often, since appearance is part of the sale for them too.

    If you are going to a club for an interview, then go like you are there to work. All the makeup and body preparations done. Dance bag ready. pad lock for the locker, lockable makeup box, baby wipes, hand sanitizer, etc. You are there to impress, don't look like you wandered in off the street and need change for the pay phone.

    Hope that helps, and any is useful for you.
    i don't have a problem with my diction or sounding intelligent. I lived many places so i don't have any accent. I've never acted street or ghetto because its not my style. And i don't think i have much problem talking to customers or making money when i get in the club.... its the GETTING IN that i'm having extreme problems with.

    I think you are right though about how i need to go into my auditions... i need to maybe look more high end... i'll throw on something a little nicer when i go back to audition. Maybe black pencil pants and a sexy silk shirt or something. I've been dressing really young when i go into my auditions.

    and i'm gonna take that diet advice, tank you





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