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    I go to the SC often in the afternoon, if i like a girl i will buy at least 2x$25.00 lapdances from her, and buy her a drink or 2. There was this sexy little thing the other day and I took her for a lap dance, we were having fun but when she decided to put her head in my pants and then she flipped to get her butt near my face It had the most aweful smell ever!!! She looks clean all the time, even elegant on her stripper outfit but OMG! It gave me a headache. After that song was over i told her thank you very much, paid her and left the club for that day. Every time she sees me she comes to say hi, I buy her a drin and when she asks me to dance again i say, "I'm ok baby today, don;t worry, go make your money, I dont want to waste your time." Should I just tell her the real reason I dont want to dance with her again? or should I just wait until she gets the hint?

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    Default Re: Body Odor, is it rude for me to tell a dancer?

    LMFAO!!!! AHAHAHHAHAHAAA.......



    sorry.... this story was just funny to me...

    i would want to be told... because that could be something fuckin up my money and i would wash extra well and spray extra fresh scent down there if a custie told me i had a problem....



    but some girls are funny about that stuff and it might just anger her...

    idk, i woud tell her if u really wanted to help her out....





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    Default Re: Body Odor, is it rude for me to tell a dancer?

    Just spray her ass with deodorant next time you see her. She'll get the hint.


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    Default Re: Body Odor, is it rude for me to tell a dancer?

    If she truly has a strong odor, she would probably be better off if she were gently informed of the fact. However, if she does not suffer from B.O., your remarks would merely be an insult and could lead to an unjustified paranoia on her part.

    The problem is that I don't think you can form any opinion as to whether she has B.O. based on a one-off lapdance on a particular day at a particular time. On any given day, at any given time, any one of us can be ripe. For it to be B.O. worthy of mention, social protocol dictates that it be a persistent problem.

    So, if you're truly interested in helping her and the community at large, I think you should get another lapdance and, if the smell has perdured, you should tell her in as gentle and discreet a manner as possible

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    Just spray her ass with deodorant next time you see her. She'll get the hint.


    ROTFLMAO..... ahhahahahah

    aw man, wouldn't it be something if he tipped her lady speedstick during her set??


    i would DIE if i saw that happen....





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    Default Re: Body Odor, is it rude for me to tell a dancer?

    I am going to the club after work today, lets hope she's there. I will confirm your suspicions

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    Default Re: Body Odor, is it rude for me to tell a dancer?

    If you can smell it so can she. I know that on days when I was ...*ahem*... not so fresh, I didn't get all in people's faces with it. Hopefully she realized she was having issues and has taken the proper steps to correct it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by shadowfast View Post
    I go to the SC often in the afternoon, if i like a girl i will buy at least 2x$25.00 lapdances from her, and buy her a drink or 2. There was this sexy little thing the other day and I took her for a lap dance, we were having fun but when she decided to put her head in my pants and then she flipped to get her butt near my face It had the most aweful smell ever!!! She looks clean all the time, even elegant on her stripper outfit but OMG! It gave me a headache. After that song was over i told her thank you very much, paid her and left the club for that day. Every time she sees me she comes to say hi, I buy her a drin and when she asks me to dance again i say, "I'm ok baby today, don;t worry, go make your money, I dont want to waste your time." Should I just tell her the real reason I dont want to dance with her again? or should I just wait until she gets the hint?
    you should tell her. she is probably wondering why you wont dance with her again. she probably doesnt even know that she smells , especially if its coming from her butt...i mean how many of us are flexible enough to sniff our own butts?

    you telling her MIGHT make her mad, but she will make a note of it and start washing herself before she begins work and this will probably increase her sales
    lol this is why i wont put my crotch anywhere near a customers face, because even though I dont smell anything, you never know if the customer is going to smell something.

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    YIEZUZ F-CKING XMAS!!! I paid her for another lap dance and same thing, and it's not the butt smell, its Angy-man-resenting-pussy that stinks, I had to stop the dance, sit her on the private area, still payher for the 2 dances but i told her, "look doll, i am telling you this cuz it might be the reason why you complaint of not making as much money sometimes, you need to take care of yourself down thhere..." she replied "what do you mean"? , her face was red of embarassement but she took it like a champ... i told het I can't wait for you to dance for me again once that issue is resolved.... we'll see.

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    Awww....at least you still encouraged her and still said you wanted to get a dance from her after the fact!! Good man!
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    Quote Originally Posted by shadowfast View Post
    we were having fun but when she decided to put her head in my pants and then she flipped to get her butt near my face It had the most aweful smell ever

    Umm....that may not be BO. That may be BV. If the smell was coming from the crotch/ass region, I fear it may be something of a "girl problem" It's common, doesn't mean she is dirty. Just means she may need some antibiotics.

    If not that, the only other thing maybe it could be was stinky ass from having been at work for a long time...?

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    Default Re: Body Odor, is it rude for me to tell a dancer?

    This sounds crazy as hell. Glad you finally told her.

    It's harsh criticism, I know, but I would want someone to be honest with me. Guys are usually up front with me about little stuff, but when it comes down to explaining why you don't want a dance from me, here comes the lies.

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    Yeah It was probably BV and it's an easy fix. You did a good job telling her and you did it with more tact than many people can manage.
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    Why wasn't she aware of that? Don't other people smell it? I've been aware of that maybe 3 times, but these were one-off dancers. So I didn't bother tell ing them.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    sounds like sweat or an infection of some sorts?

    wow she took it really well. i guess she honestly did not know.
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    or it's a problem she's acutely aware of and mortified by and does her best to cover up, but apparently not well enough.
    "If she wants to dance and drink all night, well there's no one that can stop her. She's going til the house lights come up or her stomach spills onto the floor. This night is gonna end when we're damn well ready for it to be over, worked all week long, and now the music is playing on our time. Yeah we do what we do to get by, and then we need a release!" - Against Me!, "Thrash Unreal"

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    That was really gross, but I am so proud of you for speaking up. Hopefully the problem will be corrected.

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    I think you were very polite, and did the right thing. I'm siding with others that it's probably just BV, which is easily treated.

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    Sorry for the ignorance ladies, what is BV?

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    A bacterial infection "down there" that can easily be fixed with a little round of antibiotics. It can smell a little off and could be due to wearing the swimsuit material clothes in the club all the time.

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    Thank you for the explanation

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cassandra39 View Post
    A bacterial infection "down there" that can easily be fixed with a little round of antibiotics. It can smell a little off and could be due to wearing the swimsuit material clothes in the club all the time.
    Why does the material increase the chances?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Otoki View Post
    Why does the material increase the chances?

    Because some synthetic fabrics trap moisture, which creates an environment for microorganisms to breed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarletPhoenix View Post
    Because some synthetic fabrics trap moisture, which creates an environment for microorganisms to breed.
    Ah, got it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_Luscious View Post
    If you can smell it so can she. I know that on days when I was ...*ahem*... not so fresh, I didn't get all in people's faces with it. Hopefully she realized she was having issues and has taken the proper steps to correct it.
    Not always. My sense of smell doesn't function most of the time. It gets frustrating!

    Example: My fiance was away for about 7 months. I held down the fort here at the apartment with the three cats. His cat sometimes urinates where she shouldn't. (We're re-training her now) I can't smell it! When he got back and found a nasty spot on the carpet that his cat had apparently used over and over and OVER while he was gone, I was embarrassed. Friends had come over! Nobody'd said anything... but I'm sure it stank in the place while they were here.

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