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    Search SC where no females are allowed?

    (Not sure if this should be in Club Chat, so mods of you wanna move it I understand...)

    Is there a such thing? This is sort of a spin off from my other thread, cause it got me to thinking....

    If these clubs do exist, and you work at it, where is it at?

    Even if you don't work at one but know of one.......I am really curious about this.

    What about a club where they allow female custies but have some kind of control over it? Like what I mentioned before about the one club that made it MANDATORY all female custies had to be together with a guy as a couple, extra cover charge, required drink purchase.....etc.....Does this kind of place exist any more?

    I just think that these flocks of non-spending, insult throwing, attention stealing rude ass females has spun out of control. Wondering if there are any clubs still left in the world that give a shit and try to do something about it....

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    when I went to scarletts as a custy, they required I walk in with a guy...

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    All the clubs in Houston actually shouldn't allow unescorted women in because it's against the law. It's also against the law for women to dance for other women in those clubs. I never knew this until my lawyer informed me. I've only had one tell me that I had to be accompanied by a man to enter though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Farrah_Holiday View Post
    All the clubs in Houston actually shouldn't allow unescorted women in because it's against the law. It's also against the law for women to dance for other women in those clubs. I never knew this until my lawyer informed me. I've only had one tell me that I had to be accompanied by a man to enter though.

    I wish we had some of those laws here.

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    Gogo Rama in NJ does not allow women.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CherryBomb954 View Post
    I wish we had some of those laws here.
    ^LOL ! I feel sometimes feel that way myself when I dance in S.F.

    I also wanted to add that St. James in Houston doesn't allow unescort ladies either. I
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    at my club, women can only come if they're there with a guy.

    still gets a lot of girls in the club though.

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    NYC used to have a rule for female custies to be allowed with a male only,at least some of Manhattan clubs.In DC we used to very rarely have them (a long time ago),and when they came in (with a guy),they were very nice,respectful and quiet,now...on weekends at least half of total customers are women and all they do is stare with big open eyes,act rude,point fingers and laugh or pretend to like you in a sexual way and grab,wiggle their tongue out or say suggestive comments in front of everybody,which is just as degrading.Mostly they do this to impress the guys.Cool women custies are VERY rare and usually are former dancers or bartenders or such.

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    sigh i miss the good ole days. when not only were women required to be escorted by a man for each female.
    women DIDNT want to go to stripclubs.
    it was a secret when a guy went almost always.
    it was a true "boys only club"
    then it became so every once in awhile you would see a couple. mostly always swingers or something. in either case. they sat quiet as a mouse and watched ONLY. if anyone tipped or got dances it was the man.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rusdancer View Post
    NYC used to have a rule for female custies to be allowed with a male only,at least some of Manhattan clubs.In DC we used to very rarely have them (a long time ago),and when they came in (with a guy),they were very nice,respectful and quiet,now...on weekends at least half of total customers are women and all they do is stare with big open eyes,act rude,point fingers and laugh or pretend to like you in a sexual way and grab,wiggle their tongue out or say suggestive comments in front of everybody,which is just as degrading.Mostly they do this to impress the guys.Cool women custies are VERY rare and usually are former dancers or bartenders or such.
    I guess that's why I have always been told that I am a great female custy. Bc I used to be a dancer!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Farrah_Holiday View Post
    All the clubs in Houston actually shouldn't allow unescorted women in because it's against the law. It's also against the law for women to dance for other women in those clubs. I never knew this until my lawyer informed me. I've only had one tell me that I had to be accompanied by a man to enter though.
    Why the hell is it illegal to dance for other women? Is it some sort of anti-gay law?

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    Quote Originally Posted by velvet View Post
    sigh i miss the good ole days. when not only were women required to be escorted by a man for each female.
    women DIDNT want to go to stripclubs.
    it was a secret when a guy went almost always.
    it was a true "boys only club"
    then it became so every once in awhile you would see a couple. mostly always swingers or something. in either case. they sat quiet as a mouse and watched ONLY. if anyone tipped or got dances it was the man.
    *Shrug* I seem to be in the minority on this topic, but I adore female customers. Almost every big money night I have involves a female customer at some point. My last sunday I got over 300 from a woman (on a $10 dance night). I agree that some women are annoying, but most of the ones I've dealt with in MN are going into a strip club because they want to be there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Otoki View Post
    *Shrug* I seem to be in the minority on this topic, but I adore female customers. Almost every big money night I have involves a female customer at some point. My last sunday I got over 300 from a woman (on a $10 dance night). I agree that some women are annoying, but most of the ones I've dealt with in MN are going into a strip club because they want to be there.

    You've been lucky! I guess this, like alot of things, has to do with the club and the location. Count your blessings, and I hope you never have to experience what me and alot of others have dealt with!!

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    I loved having female custies. In fact it was common for women to come back in and see me many times and even couples. They are so much more fun than the guys because it is out of thier ok zone ya kno? But they have so much fun with it! For all I know most of IL clubs allow women.





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    The grabbiest customers in my PERSONAL experience have been women. Trying to get you to kiss them while onstage, reaching for your boobs onstage, wanting to come ON the actual stage.

    Also myself and a GF of mine have BOTH been bitten on the buttcheek by a woman.

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    i dont mind female customers at all! before i was a dancer, i used to take my band members to strip clubs whenever we played in various cities....

    it's quite funny now looking back at it... i used to always wonder why dancers would avoid our table as if we all had the plague or something! (which was a shame for the girls working there... because i always had large amounts of cash to spend on treating my boys...the girls brave enough to come talk to us were the ones that got the rewards).... of course.... now that i work in a club... i understand that strippers just have it in their head that customers with women are just a 'waste of time'.... which i think is sooooo far from the truth...

    ladies are easy! go up to them and compliment them / show them attention... if you do it right the man will usually offer to buy the lady a dance or the lady will insist you dance for her man...

    my two pence on the matter anyway...

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    Quote Originally Posted by xxRavenxx View Post
    i understand that strippers just have it in their head that customers with women are just a 'waste of time'.... which i think is sooooo far from the truth...

    I have got to disagree with you here, at least from my standpoint. I think you'll find many others on this board will disagree too. I have very specific reasons for hating female customers at my club, and also very specific situations. Things like I mentioned before, including pointing fingers and sniveling at dancers when they are on stage, pointing fingers and sniveling, also talking shit VERY loudly about dancers when they walk by the table, coming in groups of 5-10 (WITHOUT guys) all dressed up treating the club like a meet market. Giving eachother lapdances to try to show off and attract guys, flashing their titties and ass to the guy customers.....They are not there for the dancers at all. The only time they pay attention to the dancers is to talk shit and hate. I'm just saying, if you want to get dressed up and go out with your girlfriends to get laid, go to a bar!!! It's just plain RUDE and yes, it effects mine and the other girls income

    I do not have it in my head that ANY table, regardless of whom is at it, is a "waste of time" I NEVER pre-judge customers. To me, looking at a table and trying to evaluate their spending potential based on what they look like, their race, or like you mentioned above if it's mixed-sex.....is the biggest mistake a dancer can make.

    I am sure that you and your bandmates were hella cool, and I probably would have come to your table! What you need to understand is situations where females are good customers in the SC nowadays are getting less and less. Any chick who wants to come to my club and conduct herself in an adult manner, be respectful and get dances with her man, is totally welcome I'll be all over that......

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    It's so ironic.... like Raven (and others, I'm sure) I've experienced the dreaded "female custie" from both perspectives. Before I danced, I went to the SC's with guys a few times. I was so thrilled to be somewhere forbidden, I barely said anything, and actually had several dancers inform me that it was ok to touch, and physically place my hands on their hips. Looking back.... it's funny.

    As a dancer (for 3 years), I had good ones and bad ones. A few really hilarious, awesome couples (turned into semi-regs) right alongside the nasty, groping, attention-grabbing bitches. And the haters..... the ones that always confused the hell out of me were the women who'd buy their BF/husband/whatever a lapdance, and then get pissy when you.... well..... gave him a lapdance. But whatever, they paid.

    After quitting, I still like to go back to SC's as a custie - and NOT to attract attention. I'd never go back to where I danced, I have no need for drama. I have had some of the nastiest, bitchiest things said to me by dancers, totally unprovoked - but never on the floor, always in the bathroom. One dancer came up behind me while I was washing my hands and said "What the f- are you doing in here? Oh wait - you ARE a girl!" Umm.... yeah.... I'm 5'6", fairly thin, C-boobies and have long brown hair? Ouch. Oh well. It's ironic because I never go out to the club if I don't plan on dropping at least $300-800 between my boyfriend and I. Rare treat, hot night out, always fun with the right dancer(s). Their loss, I spose.

    Maybe instead of "no females" it should be "no bitches". If only there was a screening process.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CherryBomb954 View Post
    You've been lucky! I guess this, like alot of things, has to do with the club and the location. Count your blessings, and I hope you never have to experience what me and alot of others have dealt with!!
    I've dealt with the irritating female customers who give their guys a dance while they're in the club, or the grabby ones who don't want to listen to my rules, but I could count them on my two hands. I would also like to emphasize that I am lucky about my club: if anything out of control happens, or people start acting inappropriately, the staff has your back and steps in. They will remove customers from the club if they are ruining the atmosphere.

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    i dont think anyone is saying that there are not some good female customers out there. it's just that the vast majority are not. so we would rather just not have them in the mix at all.

    i also look at it as a loss because the guy they are with is not going to spend money unless she approves or even wants to get dances. so it's one less male in the club that probably wont spend.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CherryBomb954 View Post
    I have got to disagree with you here, at least from my standpoint. I think you'll find many others on this board will disagree too. I have very specific reasons for hating female customers at my club, and also very specific situations. Things like I mentioned before, including pointing fingers and sniveling at dancers when they are on stage, pointing fingers and sniveling, also talking shit VERY loudly about dancers when they walk by the table, coming in groups of 5-10 (WITHOUT guys) all dressed up treating the club like a meet market. Giving eachother lapdances to try to show off and attract guys, flashing their titties and ass to the guy customers.....They are not there for the dancers at all. The only time they pay attention to the dancers is to talk shit and hate. I'm just saying, if you want to get dressed up and go out with your girlfriends to get laid, go to a bar!!! It's just plain RUDE and yes, it effects mine and the other girls income

    I do not have it in my head that ANY table, regardless of whom is at it, is a "waste of time" I NEVER pre-judge customers. To me, looking at a table and trying to evaluate their spending potential based on what they look like, their race, or like you mentioned above if it's mixed-sex.....is the biggest mistake a dancer can make.

    I am sure that you and your bandmates were hella cool, and I probably would have come to your table! What you need to understand is situations where females are good customers in the SC nowadays are getting less and less. Any chick who wants to come to my club and conduct herself in an adult manner, be respectful and get dances with her man, is totally welcome I'll be all over that......
    That's an excellent explanation. Thank you.

    It definitely does depend on the club. I imagine places like the Vu have this problem, but I've never worked there. We did have some bad experiences when I worked at Sinners, but they were still pretty rare.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Otoki View Post
    I would also like to emphasize that I am lucky about my club: if anything out of control happens, or people start acting inappropriately, the staff has your back and steps in. They will remove customers from the club if they are ruining the atmosphere.
    This is one element that is COMPLETELY missing for me.....We have an o.k. staff but they aren't very efficient. Take for example the two female custies giving eachother dances and flashing their titties RIGHT in front of the stage a few Saturdays ago...no action taken. The bouncers just sit there and stare like "duuuuhhhh" I've seen shit like that get shut down with lightning speed at other clubs, and if they kept on, they'd be asked to leave.
    I'm just gonna stay away from Saturdays. It's the worst day for that kind of thing.

    Quote Originally Posted by velvet View Post
    i dont think anyone is saying that there are not some good female customers out there. it's just that the vast majority are not. so we would rather just not have them in the mix at all.
    Great sum-up!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by CherryBomb954 View Post
    I have got to disagree with you here, at least from my standpoint. I think you'll find many others on this board will disagree too. I have very specific reasons for hating female customers at my club, and also very specific situations. Things like I mentioned before, including pointing fingers and sniveling at dancers when they are on stage, pointing fingers and sniveling, also talking shit VERY loudly about dancers when they walk by the table, coming in groups of 5-10 (WITHOUT guys) all dressed up treating the club like a meet market. Giving eachother lapdances to try to show off and attract guys, flashing their titties and ass to the guy customers.....They are not there for the dancers at all. The only time they pay attention to the dancers is to talk shit and hate. I'm just saying, if you want to get dressed up and go out with your girlfriends to get laid, go to a bar!!! It's just plain RUDE and yes, it effects mine and the other girls income

    I do not have it in my head that ANY table, regardless of whom is at it, is a "waste of time" I NEVER pre-judge customers. To me, looking at a table and trying to evaluate their spending potential based on what they look like, their race, or like you mentioned above if it's mixed-sex.....is the biggest mistake a dancer can make.

    I am sure that you and your bandmates were hella cool, and I probably would have come to your table! What you need to understand is situations where females are good customers in the SC nowadays are getting less and less. Any chick who wants to come to my club and conduct herself in an adult manner, be respectful and get dances with her man, is totally welcome I'll be all over that......
    fair enough! i must have just been super lucky! i've never seen any "rude" female customers in my club (maybe it's because it's england and there's some cultural differences....or maybe it's because its a upmarket club)... i asked a bulgarian girl last night why she doesn't like to approach couples when i suggested we approach a table and she said she didn't want to... and she said it was a respect thing because it might be her boyfriend...

    everyone has their reasons i guess!

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    Raven - i think it's the lub you work at - Strings has lots of female clientele, most of whom understand the dynamics of the SC. Outside of a highend London club women tend to behave, well, more provincially. I've lost count of the number of times i've seen females try to get on stage or start dancing or making rude comments and trying to start fights with dancers, had them try to grab, lick, kiss me, get mad because i gave their man a dance which is what they paid for and all of the other things people have mentioned.

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    Quote Originally Posted by velvet View Post
    i dont think anyone is saying that there are not some good female customers out there. it's just that the vast majority are not. so we would rather just not have them in the mix at all.

    i also look at it as a loss because the guy they are with is not going to spend money unless she approves or even wants to get dances. so it's one less male in the club that probably wont spend.
    I understand that the argument is "most female custies are not good custies", which is what I was disagreeing with. As reiterated above, it depends on the club. I (and some others) am lucky enough to work in a club which provides a positive atmosphere for dancers and polite customers of either gender

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