What is your response if a customer you found attractive finds you on facebook and emails you?
I would be flattered and respond to email
I would respond but be cautious
I would not respond but not be frightened
I would not respond and be frightened


What is your response if a customer you found attractive finds you on facebook and emails you?
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Life outside the club has little or nothing to do with the work these gals endure at the club. In there you are $$$ to them, therefore they have to pay attention to you. Outside (including the net, the supermarket, mall, etc.) It's a whole different story, they have a life like you and me and they do not want to be either contacted by you or any customer (unless there is some serious $$$ involved). So, forget you saw her on Facebook, dont even mention it to her, just move on...



Cute or not, I'd want to how how he find me..since you can only find me on those sites if you know my real name (first and last). I wouldn't respond.
Life is what happens when you're busy making other plans


You don't even need a last name. I may reveal the search method on another post.
I'm so glad I'm not on facebook. I'm not even on myspace. No thanks!
My sister joined facebook and in a matter of days her page was flooded with hella messages from old classmates. Half of them were asking about me, wanting to know how I'm doing... NOT!
I just don't want to talk to people I've left behind for a reason, right? And if a custy tracked me down, I just might close the page. That just sounds alittle stalkerish to me, but what do I know, I'm like freaking paranoid.


I dunno, I really think so many dancers on here are different then who i know locally. i'd say most every dancer i know is on myspace and while they psuedo act like they don't want to be found, they all have sexy hot work photos, half their friends are customers, it is a big ole marketing tool, at least that is how it is here.
ofcourse, that is myspace and not face book, i dunno a thing about facebook.


yes...I meant my space...not facebook. I also would think that strippers like attention and if it is a paying customer I see this as an added bonus to be able to coordinate schedules, etc. I think the customer would be offended if the dancer did not respond back.
Last edited by ironmaidern; 12-05-2008 at 02:55 PM. Reason: correction


I appreciate those who have filled out the poll at the top. Thanks.



^ seconded.
Many dancers use myspace as a marketing tool so that they can publish their schedule and make bookings etc in exactly the same way other models, dancers, comedians etc do. Chris Rock has a myspace page and you may have been to one of his gigs, that doesn't mean he considers you a friend or wants you to start acting as though you and he are buddies.
Facebook is evil. But that's another rant.
Sure you did.
Obviously. I mean, why else would we get naked for money. Oh, also, we were all molested as children and have daddy issues.I also would think that strippers like attention
Heaven forbid a dancer offend a customer. We hate doing that. Especially the super nice ones who track us down in totally non-creepy-stalkerish ways.and if it is a paying customer I see this as an added bonus to be able to coordinate schedules, etc. I think the customer would be offended if the dancer did not respond back.




These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?




It's happened to me many times and its still happening. I just ignore it and leave it be. It is personal not work. I like to keep work at work. Home at home. Seperate. Safe. Comfy.

I wouldn't be frightened. I don't have my address on my page but I would be pissed. I would consider it a complete invasion of privacy and disrespect towards customer/dancer in/out of club boundaries.




^^^????? I have inadvertently found several SW girls on 'adult' 'dating' sites. I recognized them by the pics they posted (I don't spend much time in PicP but if I did I would have probably found more) and name (if used), and a little research showed it was in fact them. Not creepy. If you don't want to be searchable, don't set up an account that allows you to be.





I wouldn't want a stripper finding me on Facebook since I have my family and former classmates on it, Myspace is another story, that's my alternative social site.
Umm, no. I would not be at all comfortable with that. When I am at the club, I know you. Outside of the club, I am a different person and need you to respect my boundaries...You do NOT enter my social network, it would only lead to trouble in one way or another. It is not your business who my friends or family members are, what my plans are in a given night, or who I am in "real life."
Don't you see the difference between an adult dating site, or even a work-oriented my-space page, and a facebook page that isn't related to work? Obviously, we should all be cautious about the info we put out there, but it requires stalker intentions to find a dancer's real-life profile.
I did amateur night once, and the next morning I had a friend request on myspace from one of the patrons I saw there. How he found me, I have NO idea.
Now I make all of my profiles on myspace & facebook private and I block people I don't know.





It depends. I have a Facebook that's with my real name and info. Most of those who found me there are former classmates or relatives. That's fine. If a customer found me there I'd be livid and quite frankly terrified. On MySpace I have a name I use on various forums, and I mostly use this to keep up with bands and things like this. I too would be creeped out if a customer found me there too.
Having said that, I know many dancers (using their stage name) who have MySpace profiles where they list upcoming performances, etc. To me, contacting dancers on these sites is fine because they are using them to boost their career. Like I said earlier I use MySpace to find new bands.




And this is why I'm such a large and loud advocate for womens handgun usage and gun rights in general..
So what if I use My-Space or Face book? Strippers don't have actual lives?!?! My God - perish the thought.


That would creep me right out.
I would not reply, and I would avoid the customer if they came in the club. If they were persistent about talking to me I would even ask to have them thrown out.
1. Because it's stalkerish, and just the thought that someone was sitting around and searching me...when they only know me from work...
2. It is one of the reason's I keep my profile fairly private. Most dancers do not tell all their family, friends, and old classmates about their profession. Trying to get added to the network seems like some weird power ploy in a way, being able to "leak" the info.
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