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    Default How Does Amateur Night Work?

    I have a student of mine who sporatically does 1 on 1's and just asked me to train her for Amateur night.

    I have an idea of how this works, isn't it usually girls from other clubs? I have heard these events are generally rigged, is this true?

    I am not sure if she plans to be a dancer, as far as I know she has a job that she quite likes that requires her to work a lot of hours, so not sure if she'd even have the time. I'm not real clear on why she wants to do it, if for a reason beyond a bit of fun.

    I think I am looking for some insight as to what it is and what she can expect. I am not sure if she intends to win or not - her pole ability is very much beginner level - not sure if that will matter much. I don't want to over train her on moves that I know she is not quite ready for.

    I've not had this question posed to me so I want to be sure she is ready. Usually my students are already dancers or just get the job - no one has ever asked me about auditioning and amateur night. LOL! My students are always fun.

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    Default Re: How Does Amateur Night Work?

    We do an amateur night in our club; and it pretty much runs like ... well; like a normal night at the club.

    They're rigged at my place in the sense that you "win" or place in the top three based on how loud the crowd is for you. Get enough of your friends in there that night to scream for you and .... you get the idea.

    The majority of the time, amateur nights (including at my club and others I've worked at) double as auditions for experienced girls seeking a job at the host club. So you get an interesting mix - very experienced girls who will work that pole and tip trick and generally VERY OBVIOUSLY not be amateur; and then girls who obviously have never been naked in front of a hundred or more people that just look adorable in their little civilian heels and lingerie.

    Generally, I try to be as helpful to the honest newbies as I can be. Loaning shoes, helping with makeup, helping with outfits ... but not all strippers who are employed are quite so nice. She can probably expect that it really won't be so bad.

    Tell her that she really doesn't have much to worry about. So she can't pole trick. Big deal. She should get herself a pair of stripper heels (they help SO MUCH with the "feel" of the whole experience) that she can move in - they do come in lower heel heights! From there, a cute outfit is necessary; just some sexy lingerie will do her fine. Anything she would do during sex is fair game. Roll around on the floor, touch yourself, look sexy, grind the pole; etc. Watch movies and videos on youtube. GO to the club she plans to do the night at and watch the other girls. Observe and find things in their routines that she herself can do. Not pole tricks -- floor work and such.

    She'll be fine. The crowd there KNOWS it's an amateur night. She won't get booed off the stage or anything!

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    Thank you so much!

    Okay so then I will run the lesson focusing on getting into a groove and dancing around the pole, feeling comfortable, some really simple movements and spins...we'll do loads of floor work and ofcourse I'll have her bring in her heels so she can used to manuevring around the pole.

    I was going to suggest she wear black boots, corset and black booty shorts with T-bar thong under...she's kind of the gothy type.

    I wonder if it's audience applause - because I can bring some other girls from class and we can scream our heads off for her. Some girls have been begging to for me to take them to the club.

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    Default Re: How Does Amateur Night Work?

    Best of luck to her!

    Only thing I would say? I've been dancing a year now (not a vet by ANY standard, but I know my way around); and I'm more the "gothy" type; and I STILL can't get a corset off of myself gracefully, unless it has a zipper.

    Better bet is a fetishy bra of some kind (I got a cheapy vinyl thing from an adult super store with matching vinyl pleather boyshort thingies for like 30 bucks. Works WONDERS.)

    Unless of course she's FAR more graceful than myself, which is entirely possible.

    Or an underbust corset! PLENTY of girls wear those.


    ANYWAY. My .02 cents. Wishing the best!

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    Default Re: How Does Amateur Night Work?

    The idea isn't necessarily to "win" though, assuming there's some kind of prize. The point should be to have fun and to experience the thrill (or whatever) of moving semi-naked on a stage in front of a whole crew of people. Right?

    So, ready or not is potentially a different question than whether or not one has a bag of tricks, but really whether one is psychologically and emotionally ready.

    Take it off!!

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    Default Re: How Does Amateur Night Work?

    Thank you for that. We have another session tomorrow and I'll be sure to let her know it's not a competition but a performance.

    I don't think she would be weird about taking her clothes off she has apparantly did an amatuer night right after her first class, lol!

    We're working on comfort zone right now, not getting nervous and sweaty, floor work and a lot of pretty transitions - oh and dancing in heels

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    Default Re: How Does Amateur Night Work?

    so how did it go?

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    She hasn't done it yet.

    I feel like she is too concerned with "showing everyone up" which makes me really sad. I don't think she will find happiness in this adventure and I've told her so. I've told her to enjoy being on stage and feeling beautiful but she seems really focused on winning - I think she is using this as a way to work some sort of issue she has with feeling insecure next to other women. We're still training, but I hope she comes to realize what I am saying about doing it for fun and getting pleasure out of having everyone look at her and see her beauty rather than walking into it like it's a competition...

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    Default Re: How Does Amateur Night Work?

    Quote Originally Posted by Charlee View Post
    She hasn't done it yet.

    I feel like she is too concerned with "showing everyone up" which makes me really sad. I don't think she will find happiness in this adventure and I've told her so. I've told her to enjoy being on stage and feeling beautiful but she seems really focused on winning - I think she is using this as a way to work some sort of issue she has with feeling insecure next to other women. We're still training, but I hope she comes to realize what I am saying about doing it for fun and getting pleasure out of having everyone look at her and see her beauty rather than walking into it like it's a competition...
    Oh, that's too bad. I was hoping she'd have fun! (This is Anya from previously ... had some issues with that SN so I changed it. lol) Hopefully she'll come around and realize she just needs to let loose and enjoy it for what it is. Not as some competition between her and the other women. That really takes ALL the fun out of it. Best of luck.
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