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    Hi xoxo Ok so I use to be able to talk dirty and I like to think I was pretty good in bed too but long story short I took a long break from sex and havent really had a steady BF in awhile .....

    Now I am seeing someone and I am noticing my skills are rusty ....also he is 6 yrs younger than me *ahem* so ......he likes talking dirty and I love it but I cant think of anything to say .....other than the obvious ....I really really dont think that ANYTHING I would say would turn him off .....


    so do you like talking dirty ? what do you say to your partner that really gets them going ???

    One thing my Best friend told me she says to her man ....*who is 7+yrs younger than her* ..... and this just stops him in his tracks is she says "f**k that Pu**y like you own it" and he does ....lol ....


    so help me please !?!?
    In Atlanta looking for a new place/club to call my own ... be back in Sarasota from time to time because I love the Cheetah xoxo

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    lol. fuck that pussy like you own it? for some reason that makes me giggle.

    I am a little shy when it comes to dirty talk... my last bf was into it and and would try to get me to talk dirty but I always felt silly doing it.

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    Give him a soft teasing kiss, just one.
    Look longingly at his machine; purse your lips.
    Tell him exactly what you are going to do to his body parts in great detail.
    Dirty talk is not cursing; it is expressing a longing for him.
    Touch him almost anywhere while you are talking.
    Look him in the eyes and watch for pupil dilation.
    Smile, but not broadly.



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    compliments to him work wonders... like " ur so hard, or deep or u feel so good" or "dont stop" or "right there" also tell him its ALL HIS my man loves that.... that only he can make u feel that way.... i dunno...... or if u know spanish,say something sexy in spanish,even if he doesnt understand. my man LOVES that.. have fun!!

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    Ok well we had a huge fight last night so ....fun fun


    anyways , I like most of the suggestions , thanks so much .

    I want to try the spanish thing because I do speak it alot to my kid and he did mention that that was a turn on but for some reason I feel silly doing it .....I should have done it from day one ....ummm I guess i am doing some good things then just need to do them more .....he takes forever and I shouldnt complain but I dont need to get off like that all the time ...seriously first thing in the morning we have sex for at least a half hour depending on how much time we have ..... night sex last for hours ...which is nice but its hard to think of things to say all nigh t, hahah .....
    In Atlanta looking for a new place/club to call my own ... be back in Sarasota from time to time because I love the Cheetah xoxo

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    I was never really big on dirty talking until my current guy... kind of an erratic behavior that just comes out.

    I've been asking him "who's pussy is this??" and... he'll say "mine" & I'll repeat the question in a few different ways... and we end up having the most aweeesssommmeee sex evarr! :-p
    "Maybe some women aren't meant to be tamed. Maybe they're supposed to run wild until they find someone - just as wild - to run with."







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    Grrrr we just had a NASTY break up .....not that we cant still talk about dirty sex talk but .....fuck ....anyways I think I am gunna head into work and get this shit head out of my head .....thanks for the help xo ox
    In Atlanta looking for a new place/club to call my own ... be back in Sarasota from time to time because I love the Cheetah xoxo

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    OOH sorry about the breakup That really blows

    But just to out my two cents in,I love dirty talk. Nothing turns me on more.
    My man loves it when I tell him I'm about to cum
    Sex is good,I need some.
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    Good thread guys I like the little tips. "Fuck this pussy like you own it" made me laugh a little too haha I don't think I'm balsy enough for that. But letting them know it's their pussy does seem effective.

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    c'mon u bad doggie make my kitty purrrrrrrrr
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    Quote Originally Posted by pinklips View Post
    lol. fuck that pussy like you own it? for some reason that makes me giggle.

    I am a little shy when it comes to dirty talk... my last bf was into it and and would try to get me to talk dirty but I always felt silly doing it.

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    "Spank me Daddy!" always gets my blood pumping.

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    There's a book called The Pearl that is a reprint of all this Victorian pornography from a periodical in the late 1800's, it's awesome stuff. Not corny and crude, or contrived like the vast majority of modern erotica. I used to read it to one old SO while we fucked, she loved it lol. But after a bit we'd have to toss the book.

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    this morning after work at 3am I HAD THE BEST SEX and he knows i LOVE when he talks to me. he said "every ni**a in the club wants to fuck you like this " i said "they cant fuck me like you fuck me" he LOVED THAT i dont think it was a silent speechless moment the whole 20 minutes. the words just flow out of me..... lol... but i would NEVER say those things in general conversation. unless im drunk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anosrepanosrep View Post
    sorry. I did the same thing when i broke up with this guy i met from the sc, i was so freaking naive. I thought he loved me, i was so stupid, lol. I went to work like everyday, it's a great way to be distracted and helped me cope with my lonliness. I'm just focus on making money from men now, it's a great reward.. break up with my bf and banking at work =). and when i'm not working i travel and hang out with my friends. but you know we are still communicating through email, I really need to work on putting an end to this completely. I hope you feel better.

    I do thanks , he is still sending me emails but they are rude mostly ... its funny I got over him with the help of a guy friend who I never saw "like that" but I am actually considering dating this person ..... so yeah me !! lol
    In Atlanta looking for a new place/club to call my own ... be back in Sarasota from time to time because I love the Cheetah xoxo

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    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    "Spank me Daddy!" always gets my blood pumping.

    Spank me daddy <33
    In Atlanta looking for a new place/club to call my own ... be back in Sarasota from time to time because I love the Cheetah xoxo

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xiomara View Post
    this morning after work at 3am I HAD THE BEST SEX and he knows i LOVE when he talks to me. he said "every ni**a in the club wants to fuck you like this " i said "they cant fuck me like you fuck me" he LOVED THAT i dont think it was a silent speechless moment the whole 20 minutes. the words just flow out of me..... lol... but i would NEVER say those things in general conversation. unless im drunk.
    Thats hot I love it !! Thats hot sex girl , good for you xoxo
    In Atlanta looking for a new place/club to call my own ... be back in Sarasota from time to time because I love the Cheetah xoxo

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    I think saying things challenging his sexual ability might make things fun. Like "is that all you've got?" "you can't fuck" "you can't take this pussy i'm giving you" "Can you?", all the while you're riding the living shit out of him... it's good to tell him it's his and shit, but it's also great to take what's yours. Throw him down, pull his dick out and just start sucking it (that part is my boyfriend's advice) lol, but yeah...

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    Oh, I feel like such a slut...."

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    Keep it coming. I need help too. Nothing like starting to talk dirty and then after a few moments you're both quiet b/c you don't know what to say.
    I also have a custie that's random that likes it and I was only able to do it once b/c I just start laughing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer View Post
    Give him a soft teasing kiss, just one.
    Look longingly at his machine; purse your lips.
    Tell him exactly what you are going to do to his body parts in great detail.
    Dirty talk is not cursing; it is expressing a longing for him.
    Touch him almost anywhere while you are talking.
    Look him in the eyes and watch for pupil dilation.
    Smile, but not broadly.



    Let us know if this is helpful.
    This is fantastic. Saying "yeah baby fuck me, your cock feels so good" is all fun and great but real dirty talking is not that.

    Real dirty talk is sitting on their knee, your bodies so close you can feel it but not touching, and talking softly in their ear about how you're waited sooo long to be this close to them, every part of your body feels so amazing just being with them that you almost don't need any more. About how you've spent all day just thinking about their cock and how amazing it feels in your mouth, the shape of it, filling you and your wet lips sliding all the way down.

    Telling them slowly how when you get up you want them to bend you over and tie your hands behind your back. Telling them exactly what you want them to do to you in excruciating detail.

    It's hard, taking it slow, holding back and looking them straight in the eye with your voice low and husky from arousal. But it's good for everyone, mmmm.

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    i can't talk dirty. i feel silly when i try

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