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    Question Friends you know socially at the club

    I live in a busy town/city. With only a few really good clubs to strip at but what do you do if you are working and people you know are at the club? Such as people you know from school because I am a college student. Then they recognize you and ask you about it later, or that night? I was just asking if anyone has ever been in this situation before? And what would you do?? lol Thanks!

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    What you do is up to you. You're either OK with people knowing or your not. If you're worried about being recognized, you may want to work out of town.

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    Yeah. It is not much of an issue I was just wondering if anyone has been in that situation before and what they did.

    I also asked because my town is very busy and the only business I can get is here. Out of town clubs are 2 hours away in Charleston. That is kind of far...
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    Default Re: Friends you know socially at the club

    i have had the same problem. I was working in a club about an hour away from my home town and had a whole bachelor party of guys i went to highschool with come in. Yeah, it was embarassing but i got over it. Eventually you just get used to seeing people you know outside of work inside of work. If you're not comfortable with it, don't work so close to home. Gas is cheaper now, take advantage. If you don't want to go so far, just get used to it. It will happen, so just be prepared.
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    You're in Myrtle Beach? I would think that there are plenty of clubs that you could hide in there. also with the volume of clubs it doesn't seem like it would be that out of the ordinary for someone to dance.

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    I started dancing at a club about 20 min. away from my university.. never really had an issues... I had one guy from one of my classes recognize me.. he actually got a few dances from me and it wasn't really weird for me.
    if you go to college where there are thousands of students... you're not gonna run into a bunch of people you know. so i dont see it as a huge issue.

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    I've had so many people come in that I knew from "real life" it is not even funny.

    So I just walked right up to them, big smile on my face, and said HEYYYYY what are YOU doing here?

    If you act like it's not a big deal, then they won't think it's a big deal either. If you seem mortified and ashamed, well then they will just feel really bad too, and it will be uncomfortable for everyone.

    I'm proud of what I am able to accomplish via my stripper money, so I really don't care who sees me.

    It usually ends up being very lucrative for me to behave this way too; I remember a group of guys came in for a bachelor party and I knew 2 of them from my old job where I made them coffee & bagels every single morning. Ha! They thought it was great that I was a dancer and I ended up making a few hundred off of them! I was the only dancer they spent money on too If I had seemed embarrassed and avoided them all night, I would have missed out on that money (and honestly, it was a lot of fun to get to know them better).

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    Quote Originally Posted by achickonspeed View Post

    So I just walked right up to them, big smile on my face, and said HEYYYYY what are YOU doing here?

    Thanks!! It makes me want to go try out tomorrow =)

    But I think its best to wait till the season isnt so slow!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by rachylove View Post
    Thanks!! It makes me want to go try out tomorrow =)

    But I think its best to wait till the season isnt so slow!!
    Wait until the end of February, begining of March and you'll get lost in a sea of girls.

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    I have been confronted a few times, usually on campus once in a while. I go to a community college, its not that big so word does get around rather quickly. I deny it sometimes pending on the situation, but I have told people that I am a stripper. It does work out sometimes, they come to club to just see me.

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    Default Re: Friends you know socially at the club

    I've run into people I went to school with, or old coworkers before. I just talked to them, I didn't do anything out of the ordinary. But I'm an "out of the closet" stripper so it's not really an issue if anyone sees me at work.

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