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    I had one dancer acquaintance tell me she was 36 but a month later she forgot and told me she was 22. That's so strange. I know girls psych each other out by lying on how much they make and lying to custies is the norm but why would another girl lie to a fellow dancer? That's just too much..

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    Some people just lie about everything to everyone.

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    ^QFT. Some do it to keep privacy. Like not giving out real names or letting people know about your personal life. Not all entertainers can share their occupation with the world.

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    That sounds like the kind of lie you tell to keep from hurting YOURSELF with the truth. I'm 24, but if I were 34...I might be sensitive when other dancers ask me my age. Even if it's just to say "Wow you look so much younger!" I still wouldn't want to hear it. Did you ask her a question about age twice to get those answers? Or did she just volunteer the info out of the blue?

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    Out of the almost 7 years I have been dancing, I have told a fellow dancer my real name half a dozen times, and only had friends 3 dancer friends outside work.

    It's just because I'm private and dont want drama. It isnt personal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PrettyCurlieQ View Post
    ^QFT. Some do it to keep privacy.
    I call myself only changing the details... but the details are dates, cities, states, countries, people, whether it was a sibling or a cousin, etc. AKA...the shit that MATTERS is the details.

    That shit is hard to keep up with and I'm not a good liar so if I say something one day...the next it's hard to remember. I get caught up all the time with people (like, not people who know me in real life).

    "Miami in 2000? I thought you were up in NYC in 2000."

    Then I'm sitting there like... SHIT! lol

    Or "That's your friend? I thought that was your brother/cousin."

    Then it's SHIT all over again.

    It's all the truth but it's a realllllll messy patchwork quilt and the if the seams don't line up straight, it's because it was none of your business anyways...I'm a big pussy until someone throws a punch...so instead of telling them nothing I feel compelled to "share". I keep telling myself I'll remember who I told what to, but I just don't give a fuck anymore.

    I used to have a life story for "Candy" then a life story for "Erotic" and another for "Desire" then "Amber" then "Amber Miel"...

    Fuck. AmberHoney...that persona...she's from the Dominican Republic, her real last name is Miel that's where the honey comes from...she is 23 and has been 23 since like, 2002? lol She went to school in Washington, D.C. and she went to college at a really small all girls college that doesn't actually exist...

    36, 22, 99, 104... she might have just slipped up and told you the truth on one occasion. Or she might have slipped up and told you the "fake" truth. You know, the truth that you you tell to your "VIP clients/custies" even though it's still a lie it's kinda closer to the truth so it's the truth?

    lol

    In some way...we all do it. Especially in this business. You can get lost doing this shit. You can really lose yourself, especially if your on stage/in bed persona dances/turn tricks as a way to escape your current reality in addition to making asswads of money.

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    Hah. I worked with a girl that was a "pshychiatrist, a teacher, a nurse..." so on and so forth. Something new everyday. Biggest backstabber and liar I ever met in my entire life and still to this day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    .................... and only had friends 3 dancer friends outside work.

    It's just because I'm private and dont want drama. It isnt personal.
    Couldn't have said it better myself.

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    When I lie it's because I've learned what wackos I have had to work with and what they are capable of doing with the truth. And my life IRL is nobody's business.

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    Some girls can also be vicious on the floor and use information to stop a successful dancer from banking, because they have low self esteem and dont believe in what they have to offer.

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    I cant recall really ever lying to a dancer recently, but i SHOULD have back when i was a virgin. My first 2 years dancing they killed my money and it turned the custies off. No one wanted a lapdance from the virgin,lol.

    Other than that though dancers usually cut throat me w / blatant lies- they dont need to ask you anything to make up shit like: shes married w/ 3 kids (im single no kids), shes a complete lesbian and doesnt date men (true for like 6 years), she only likes black guys (to white custies), and she only dates white dudes( to black custies).

    For the most part ive not had other dancers ask me anything too personal. Just where are ya from? whats your race? do you have a b/f do you like girls?LOL

    When im hit my thirties im going to start lying about my age to custies and AND dancers as needed,lol.

    I dont get some of the weird lies that i hear strippers spouting out to each other though...alot are kind of pointless like the occupation and education level lies..who cares? Why is it so important to impress another dancer, we're all in the same place now ;0)

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    When I enter the club I become my dancer persona. That means regardless who i talk to I tell them information that is attached to my stage personality- my fake home town, my decreased age, my non marital status etc. I learnt this the hard way with various dancers telling enough of my personal details over time to one of my regulars (including my phone number!!) who ended up being a stalker (suicide threats and all the associated drama-yuck) That way whatever another dancer happens to slip up (or deliberately) tell customers information about me it is the information I want them to have that fits with my stage personality. I'm not there to make friends. I don't care if no-one knows the honest truth about me when I am at work.

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    I conceal the truth all the time from girls. You're lucky if you can get the truth out of me on a good day.

    I really don't know these girls, but I think they know I'm not a backstabber and can be truthfully honest and helpful, if needed.

    Generally, I keep to myself and play the "I didn't see nothing, I didn't hear nothing, I didn't say nothing, and I don't know nothing" game. It's kept me focused, out of the rumor mill, and practically drama-free.

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    ^^That's pretty much how I roll too. There are girls who I've worked with for 3yrs that think my real name is "Candice" (no that's not it lol) and that's how they're going to keep knowing me as too.







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    dancers shouldn't even bother lying about their age to other dancers (when you're not around custies) since true age is so obvious once you are in the dressing room.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lklucky View Post
    dancers shouldn't even bother lying about their age to other dancers (when you're not around custies) since true age is so obvious once you are in the dressing room.
    That's so true! Makeup does wonders these days..

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    I once worked with a VERY overweight person who claimed she used to make thousands of dollars in the 90s before so many girls began to join the industry. But then, she also claimed to have a degree in psychology yet, she was living in a weekly motel with 3 or more kids and a verbally abusive husband. She always needed to borrow money from us (other dancers) but would pay us back.

    You never really know what's going on in the personal lives of other girls but I believe a lot of them will lie about their earnings just to make themselves feel better and perhaps as an attempt to make you feel intimidated. I never ask others how much they've made and I don't want them asking me. If a girl randomly starts bragging about how much she's made, I avoid her. Besides, I would never believe a girl with a bad set of teeth if she claims to be a high earner. This is a business (and everyday life) when looking your best is a must and having all your teeth is crucial even for a traditional job.

    Incidently, a lot of laughter broke out when someone pulled up a co-worker on Myspace who claimed she made $$$$. One shouldn't put that kind of information up if they can't even afford a new ponytail or decent hair extensions. Most girls who make that kind of money tend to take care of themselves and drive nice cars.

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