So, me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 3 years. We have, generally, a great relationship. I mean, we have ups and downs and fights like any other couple. Lately, we haven't seen each other a lot due to both of us working and being full-time students. He works as a projectionist at a movie theatre.
So, while I've been working, he's been hanging out with his friends from work. There's this girl he works with, we'll call her S, and I know a year ago when he started working there, she had a bit of a thing for him. (Let me also tell you that she just turned 17 and is still in high school and my bf is 21). But honestly, she got over it and has a boyfriend now....
So, my boyfriend recently got texting on his phone and he texts nonstop with his coworkers, S being one of the most frequent. I started getting kind of suspicious and confronted his about it and he told me that she just texts a lot.
Then, he was supposed to drive up to Chicago with two of his guy friends for a day trip. I find out later that it ended up being him, S and his guy friend Josh. I flipped out and confronted him again. He told me I was being crazy. Big fucking mistake. We had a huge fight.
So lately, the texts and stuff have stopped coming as often, etc. I thought I finally got through to him.... apparently not. Apparently it was guilt. I got a call tonight from one of his coworkers telling me that I should check out the situation between them, that they were getting too close at work. So I call him and ask him to give me a completely honest answer about whether or not there is anything going on with them. He tells me that around Thanksgiving time, she was over at his house (wtf!?) and they kissed. They immediately decided to stop it and nothing has happened since.
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This happened about a half an hour ago. He has to work tonight but, apparently, is trying to get out of his shift. I told him that his ass had better be at my house the second he gets off of work and he is going to tell me exactly what happened and why.
So, he's going to be here in a bit and I have no idea what to say to him. I love him, I really and truly do... but I don't trust people easily and this just shattered everything. I feel so betrayed. He couldn't even do me the courtesy of telling me about it. I had to find out from a coworker that I don't even know. I'm hurt and broken and I don't know what I'm going to do.
I don't know if I can trust him anymore. Am I freaking out too much about a kiss or am I justified in being this upset?



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