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    Default Are there any SC managers/owners here?

    If so, would you mind engaging in a discussion with me about something?

    Over the weekend, I was verbally abused by a manager for NO reason at all. I have been at my club for almost a year, never caused any problems, I always fly under the radar and behave myself, do my job.....

    This particular manager, well I've seen him around a few times but we've never spoke. He has a reputation for being extremely abrasive towards the girls, so I have just avoided him at all costs. I've heard him verbally abuse other girls the few times I have seen him.
    Over the weekend, he approached me and blasted me about something COMPLETELY ridiculous, as if he was looking for a reason to have an interaction with me so he could have a chance to speak to me in a demeaning way. I almost feel like he was thinking "I haven't got to her yet.....I better go over there and make sure she knows who I am"

    He controls with fear and brow-beating, I've heard him call girls "Sluts", "Whores" "Bitches" and "Cunts" I hate it but I've always tried to just put it out of my mind and stay out of his way. Even though I hate seeing other girls get treated like that....

    WHY me? WHY anyone, for that matter? I mean, I do understand that girls can be annoying, break rules, be disrespectful, but even then, do they really deserve to be called a cunt and screamed at?
    What's even scarier is that he seems to have some girls under a spell. I was quite visibly upset when I was getting ready to leave, and a girl said to me "Suck it up. If he sees you upset, he'll take you out back and beat you. Don't try to call the cops either." Then another girl chimed in "Yeah, and next time you seem him, you'd better be super sweet" WHAT.THE.FUCK. At this point I am kinda scared to go back to my club.

    So if there are any managers or owners here that would like to give me their take on verbally abuse, please chime in......

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    Default Re: Are there any SC managers/owners here?

    He beats dancers?

    Run like hell from that club.

    I would tell the police too, but that's me. Do you think he could be paying the cops off?


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    Default Re: Are there any SC managers/owners here?

    Quote Originally Posted by abcd View Post


    I read your post on the pink site about how you yelled at a customer because he gave/offered you a dollar and asked you to find him a dancer who would give him the pleasure(s) he needed in VIP. I think that it is possible that this manager heard about it, got mad, and wanted to punish you for your behavior.

    Uhm. Or it's possible that her manager is an abusive asshole. Which, of the two scenarious, do you think is more likely?


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    Default Re: Are there any SC managers/owners here?

    If this had happened to me I, at the very least, would not return. But, since I am also a vindictive bitch when it comes to people mistreating me, I would first find a different club and then I would go to the police. The fact that the other girls have witnessed this behavor means it will not stop and it puts you in danger. It's also irrelevant what you might've done to set this guy off (although it doesn't sound like he needs a reason), a manager beating a dancer is inexcusable. We take enough abuse without having to get it from the managers and owners too. Be safe!
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    Default Re: Are there any SC managers/owners here?

    That is insane behaviour coming from a person in a position of authority and trust. People who act like this towards subordinates invariably suffer unexplained misfortune....police showing up at inconvenient times...wives or girlfriends finding out things....the owner hearing nasty rumours....

    Karma. You reap what you sow...what goes around, comes around, etc.

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    Default Re: Are there any SC managers/owners here?

    Not sure where you are located at, but what about working at a different club?
    Have we not heard the chimes at midnight?

    Once more, unto the breach, dear friends.

    If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?

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    Default Re: Are there any SC managers/owners here?

    Quote Originally Posted by josie View Post
    Uhm. Or it's possible that her manager is an abusive asshole. Which, of the two scenarious, do you think is more likely?
    A little of both.

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    Default Re: Are there any SC managers/owners here?

    I've worked with and for a number of people who used abuse and intimidation as their favorite management tools, and every one of them was unqualified, unimaginative, and insecure. They had a high level of turnover except for the few in their circle of toadies (just as CherryBomb described) and for the most part were unsuccessful in their careers. I have a thick skin and I can take it, but still I only put up with it as long as I absolutely have to, and then leave on my own terms and at the time of my choosing.

    Threat of physical abuse is different. That's off the charts. That's the kinda guy that needs a great big ass-kicking.

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    Default Re: Are there any SC managers/owners here?

    Tell the owner manager is abusive, and get him fired.

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