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    Hi! I live in Myrtle Beach,SC and I'm somewhat new to the escorting business, and was wondering where the best places to advertise (for free) online would be, other than Craigslist. Any advice you ladies could offer would be much appreciated.

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    I'm not a female poster but there are active sites for escorts. A couple that I frequent are:

    www.bigdoggie.net

    www.aspd.net

    aspd.net is customer oriented with very descriptive reviews but has a lot of good info. bigdoggie.net is more like a traditional message board. In both cases the boards are broken down into geographic areas so you can concentrate on participating in those areas that are pertinent to you.

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    You can put up what is known as an "ad post" once a week on a local message board. You can also participate in the forums which can help raise your profile.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    You can put up what is known as an "ad post" once a week on a local message board. You can also participate in the forums which can help raise your profile.

    www.theeroticreview.com
    Guys dont recommend TER to anyone. Its well known that the site's owner is getting sued by many escorts who were blackmailed by him.

    Ladies, stay the hell away from TER.
    I'm getting my Dial-A-Stripper service up and running again. If you are in NYC or NJ and are interested in private party dancing, email [email protected] with your SW handle, contact info, photo (if you have one) & best time to call and I'll get back to you asap.

    If you're having a party and need strippers, email me with the details and any questions you have. Thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AkashaM View Post
    Guys dont recommend TER to anyone. Its well known that the site's owner is getting sued by many escorts who were blackmailed by him.

    Ladies, stay the hell away from TER.
    Whatever, I have heard those rumors for years and it is all conjecture. Until I hear about someone actually winning a lawsuit I take it the same way I take any rumor. With a grain of salt...

    In the meantime TER moves along with new providers and new customers signing up and logging on every day. MANY ladies participate in the forums and benefit from the providers only board as well as interacting with other providers and clients.

    That being said, no lady should promote herself where she doesn't feel comfortable.
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    craigslist is a big no-no.

    escorts.com
    and
    southerngfe.com

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Whatever, I have heard those rumors for years and it is all conjecture. Until I hear about someone actually winning a lawsuit I take it the same way I take any rumor. With a grain of salt...

    In the meantime TER moves along with new providers and new customers signing up and logging on every day. MANY ladies participate in the forums and benefit from the providers only board as well as interacting with other providers and clients.

    That being said, no lady should promote herself where she doesn't feel comfortable.
    Actually, its been in the news...the owner has been in court for some time now. Its not a rumour...i dont spread useless gossip. I also have a couple of friends who have been screwed over by TERs owner.

    Its also very true that reviews have been used in court to get convictions. Of course it doesnt concern johns--they rarely get busted.

    This is exactly why I dont have reviews...
    I'm getting my Dial-A-Stripper service up and running again. If you are in NYC or NJ and are interested in private party dancing, email [email protected] with your SW handle, contact info, photo (if you have one) & best time to call and I'll get back to you asap.

    If you're having a party and need strippers, email me with the details and any questions you have. Thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AkashaM View Post
    Actually, its been in the news...the owner has been in court for some time now. Its not a rumour...i dont spread useless gossip. I also have a couple of friends who have been screwed over by TERs owner.

    Its also very true that reviews have been used in court to get convictions. Of course it doesnt concern johns--they rarely get busted.

    This is exactly why I don't have reviews...
    It's a choice that each individual has to make. I have two ATF escorts that don't participate on TER and don't have reviews. They do just fine without it. I also have used agencies and seen dozens of indie girls who DO use TER, are very well reviewd and have never had any problems with Elms, the moderators or anyone else on the site. If others have then that's between them, TER and the courts to deal with.

    You are entitled to you opinion on the topic of TER and I'm not going to get into a pissing contest over what you know vs. what I know. Calling customers johns however is a bit condescending. I don't call the ladies I see hookers or whoars. And by the way, I do care quite a bit about what happens to the ladies that I see regularly. They are friends as well as business associates.

    As I said, every woman in the industry owes it to herself to do only what she feels comfortable doing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Calling customers johns however is a bit condescending. I don't call the ladies I see hookers or whoars. And by the way, I do care quite a bit about what happens to the ladies that I see regularly. They are friends as well as business associates.
    I dont really care what you call me...just dont call me late for dinner... Bad joke, I know...
    Men say what they want amongst eachother anyway. Just b/c you dont refer to prostitutes as hookers or whatever doesnt mean that other men dont. You may care about your regulars, other men dont.

    None of what I said applied to you personally.

    As for a pissing contest...I wasnt trying to bait you into one at all. I was merely pointing the dangers of (1) having reviews (2) TER- Its not a place for newbies.

    The OP asked for advice...My advice to a newbie in the game is to stay away from TER.
    I'm getting my Dial-A-Stripper service up and running again. If you are in NYC or NJ and are interested in private party dancing, email [email protected] with your SW handle, contact info, photo (if you have one) & best time to call and I'll get back to you asap.

    If you're having a party and need strippers, email me with the details and any questions you have. Thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AkashaM View Post
    Guys dont recommend TER to anyone. Its well known that the site's owner is getting sued by many escorts who were blackmailed by him.

    Ladies, stay the hell away from TER.
    Dave Elms is a real piece of work alright [name is common knowledge... I'm not letting any cats out of any bags].

    Ladies stay away from TER.

    Great for generating business for NYC/NJ based ladies is: www.utopiaguide.com They have a free traveling independents forum where ads can be posted for free on a limited basis.
    Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.


    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Whatever, I have heard those rumors for years and it is all conjecture. Until I hear about someone actually winning a lawsuit I take it the same way I take any rumor. With a grain of salt...
    Yoda, I've heard directly from Ladies I trust telling me horror stories of coerced bare back fee free services in exchange for promises not to delete their good reviews, or threats to only post bad reviews, etc and so forth.

    Within the industry he is NOT a well respected fellow.

    Some of the TER mods are well liked but Dave...
    Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.


    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Quote Originally Posted by thesightofoneself View Post
    craigslist is a big no-no.

    escorts.com
    and
    southerngfe.com
    www.backpage.com is up and coming as a CL replacement.
    Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.


    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Golden_Rule View Post
    Dave Elms is a real piece of work alright [name is common knowledge... I'm not letting any cats out of any bags].

    Ladies stay away from TER.

    Great for generating business for NYC/NJ based ladies is: www.utopiaguide.com They have a free traveling independents forum where ads can be posted for free on a limited basis.
    Utopiaguide is an excellent resource as is bestgfe.com especially if you want the New Jersey market.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Golden_Rule View Post
    Yoda, I've heard directly from Ladies I trust telling me horror stories of coerced bare back fee free services in exchange for promises not to delete their good reviews, or threats to only post bad reviews, etc and so forth.

    Within the industry he is NOT a well respected fellow.

    Some of the TER mods are well liked but Dave...
    And I know dozens of ladies and agencies who use the site and have never had any trouble. There are thousands of escorts and clients using the site very effectively every day GR.

    I'm not nominating David Elms for sainthood, I'm saying his site can be a useful tool.

    Guess what, Craig's List is a much higher risk place to tread than TER and thousands of escorts and customers still use that site as well...
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    And I know dozens of ladies and agencies who use the site and have never had any trouble. There are thousands of escorts and clients using the site very effectively every day GR.

    I'm not nominating David Elms for sainthood, I'm saying his site can be a useful tool.

    Guess what, Craig's List is a much higher risk place to tread than TER and thousands of escorts and customers still use that site as well...
    TER as a site can be an effective tool [which is what also makes it effective coercion fodder]. Dave Elms reputation within the industry, not good.

    Yes, we are talking about two different things.

    Both can be true without effecting the other.
    Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.


    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    I've heards that in some cities, police are cracking down on Craig's List posters. I really don't know, myself, as I only read the boards and smile.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    ^^^
    CL now requires PAID adult adverts. You pay 5 bucks per post and the CC info is then reported to the police if the business is suspected to be illegal one.

    OP should just stick to paid advertising or the private boards. If you dont know how to properly screen clients (as most newbies don't) TER, CL, Backpage are not the best way to go.
    I'm getting my Dial-A-Stripper service up and running again. If you are in NYC or NJ and are interested in private party dancing, email [email protected] with your SW handle, contact info, photo (if you have one) & best time to call and I'll get back to you asap.

    If you're having a party and need strippers, email me with the details and any questions you have. Thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AkashaM View Post
    ^^^
    CL now requires PAID adult adverts. You pay 5 bucks per post and the CC info is then reported to the police if the business is suspected to be illegal one.

    OP should just stick to paid advertising or the private boards. If you dont know how to properly screen clients (as most newbies don't) TER, CL, Backpage are not the best way to go.
    Agreed.

    If you post on a board you generate interest as potential clients like getting to know, via posts, the providers they might be seeing.

    For the providers checking previous posts gives a clue as to what this gent is made up of. Also checking dates back to first posts, reviews, and other material posted gives a very good indication as to whether this fellow is truly a monger or potential LE trouble.

    Example: member of board for 4 years with 6000 posts, reviews with info that indicates the poster actually saw these providers being reviewed, plus additional posts that are just too much work when put together to be LE attempting a sting.

    Exampe: member for 2 months. Short body of posts that are very generic. No reviews. Probably not worth taking a risk on until he's been around longer and true colors can be determined.

    PMB's [like Utopia Guide, etc] can be very useful tools to providers.
    Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.


    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Is anyone familiar with escorting in Vegas?

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    or should I say...... if you are- can you send me a PM?

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    Escorting in Vegas is mostly prostitution and is illegal

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    Quote Originally Posted by XAnastasiaX View Post
    Escorting in Vegas is mostly prostitution and is illegal
    that is what i kinda figured but i hear girls saying that guys will pay you to come gamble with them too so i often wonder how that whole thing works and/or if there is agencies that will introduce you to such kinds of guys. I often suspect that when girls say they are doing this that more is involved but wasnt really sure.

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    I think I'll put in my two cents about TER, since that's pretty much what half this thread was spent discussing-

    It CAN be a good place to advertise. Notice, I emphasize the word CAN and did not say is. While there are girls that advertised there without a single problem, it is also well known that Dave Elms is an obsolute prick and did/does take advantage of some girls. So my thought on the matter is that the choice to use TER is up to the individual girl.

    However, as my own opinion, I would be careful with ANY review site. While a good number of people do realize that escorts are only paid for their presence, a good few more idiots think escorts are also being paid for sexual services. Because of that, you can run the risk of bad reviews for not putting out to the jerks. On the flip side though, some will think twice about paying for your services if you don't have previous reviews. So, like I said before, the choice really does come down to the girl's preference.

    But, I would stay away from Craig's List. While lots of people use it, it's not exactly the most reputable way to advertise.
    Exotic dancing is like any other job.
    If you work in an office, you wear dress shoes and a suit.
    If you work in a restaraunt, you wear skid resistant shoes and a uniform.
    If you work in a strip club, you wear 7" stilettos and lycra g-strings.

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    David Elms. Yeah, he's a stand-up guy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Naida View Post
    I think I'll put in my two cents about TER, since that's pretty much what half this thread was spent discussing-

    It CAN be a good place to advertise. Notice, I emphasize the word CAN and did not say is. While there are girls that advertised there without a single problem, it is also well known that Dave Elms is an obsolute prick and did/does take advantage of some girls. So my thought on the matter is that the choice to use TER is up to the individual girl.

    However, as my own opinion, I would be careful with ANY review site. While a good number of people do realize that escorts are only paid for their presence, a good few more idiots think escorts are also being paid for sexual services. Because of that, you can run the risk of bad reviews for not putting out to the jerks. On the flip side though, some will think twice about paying for your services if you don't have previous reviews. So, like I said before, the choice really does come down to the girl's preference.

    But, I would stay away from Craig's List. While lots of people use it, it's not exactly the most reputable way to advertise.

    I'm going to go ahead and be real for a minute. If you advertise on TER, you better be fucking for money. Those escort review websites are not for advertising "companionship", they are for hookers. You advertise on a hooker website, charging hooker prices and you're not a hooker, you could end up getting hurt. That's just reality.

    If you want to be a non hooker escort, then stay off the whore boards altogether, it's not worth the trouble.

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