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    Ok I know what this says but what does it really say about her? Ladies??? To top it off she broke up with me via myspace! How sad is that???

    Things just don't feel right. I wanted them to in every way but they just don't. No need to force something upon either one of us that just isn't going to be there.

    Please don't come here, call or text, go to my family or anything. I won't do that to you and I would hope for the same. It's over and just not meant to be.

    I'm going to remove you from here so that I'm not tempted every day to look at your profile.

    Take care of yourself!
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    It says she is a life lesson and to put her in the past since you don't need to rile yourself up emotionally about this person.

    Also, if "don't come here" means the club you are banned son. She'll make some bullshit lie about you to enforce it.

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    She was not a stripper lol!!!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by big_daddy View Post
    Ok I know what this says but what does it really say about her?
    All it says beyond the fact that she is over you is that she doesn't like confrontation. That's life in the information age.
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    It's a clean break. She isn't going to mince words to pretend to save your feelings. The "Lets be friends" crap that most people fall back on during a break-up is more cruel than if the break was quick but honest.

    I wish I had been given this kind of good-bye on many occasions. Those wishy-washy break ups have always left me hurting the most. The break ups where we were "offically" broken up except for those 2am booty calls were pure torture. Talk about sending mixed signals!

    I'm sorry you got the news in an email. That is kind of cowardly. I can't say that I wouldn't do the same thing if I were dating people today. I've done phone break-ups before (been married 11 years) and was criticized for being cold. I guess there is really no such thing as a warm/ friendly way to break it off with some one, though.


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    Quote Originally Posted by big_daddy View Post
    Ok I know what this says but what does it really say about her? Ladies??? To top it off she broke up with me via myspace! How sad is that???

    Things just don't feel right. I wanted them to in every way but they just don't. No need to force something upon either one of us that just isn't going to be there.

    Please don't come here, call or text, go to my family or anything. I won't do that to you and I would hope for the same. It's over and just not meant to be.

    I'm going to remove you from here so that I'm not tempted every day to look at your profile.

    Take care of yourself!
    You're dumped. The end.

    Did you really have to ask?

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    Translation: Inside I am a ten year old girl, I can't face responsibility, If I had to say this in person I could cry. Don't find me and force me to deal with Life, not as it is. I want it as Mommy told me it would be.


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    you know you're right, it wasn't a very nice way to do it..but i'm not sure there's ever a nice way.

    try not to get upset or call her names, be the better person..forgive the situation and see it from her end. she was probably a bit cowardly to tell you in person and has issues of her own. I garantee that she has her own lessons to learn and will probably be hurt in a similar way in future.

    The fact she wants no contact and did it this way is not your problem, if anything a blessing in disguise and leaves you to find someone better and maybe teach you a few things about yourself in the process.

    In time, you won't even remember this and perhaps even laugh about it.

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    what is she really saying? i think she said it. there's no crossed wires or subtle hints that she wants anything else at all. respect her wishes, forget all about her, and meet someone new.
    "If she wants to dance and drink all night, well there's no one that can stop her. She's going til the house lights come up or her stomach spills onto the floor. This night is gonna end when we're damn well ready for it to be over, worked all week long, and now the music is playing on our time. Yeah we do what we do to get by, and then we need a release!" - Against Me!, "Thrash Unreal"

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    evalicious, ArmySGT. Deogol and Paris Thanks you figured out what I was asking! I'm moving on for sure!! I'm bigger than calling her names or bothering her! There are lots of fish in the sea!!!
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    Yeah, like others have said, she wants a clean break. Unfortunately, she was pretty childish in how she approached it. Breaking up now is the best thing. You'd only be in for more immature emotional behaviors if you stayed together.

    If you feel like responding, hold your head up high. You could respond with something like this:

    I'm sorry it had to end like this, but totally agree with you. I've been having similar feelings for a while. I thought it was just me, but now I see both of us felt the same way. I'll totally abide by your requests and I ask you do to the same for me. I'm sure you'll find the right person for you.
    I'm sure this didn't come completely out of the blue. You must have had some doubts leading up to this. Responding like that will give you a little bit of your respect back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by big_daddy View Post
    Ok I know what this says but what does it really say about her? Ladies??? To top it off she broke up with me via myspace! How sad is that???

    Things just don't feel right. I wanted them to in every way but they just don't. No need to force something upon either one of us that just isn't going to be there.

    Please don't come here, call or text, go to my family or anything. I won't do that to you and I would hope for the same. It's over and just not meant to be.

    I'm going to remove you from here so that I'm not tempted every day to look at your profile.

    Take care of yourself!
    I have been in the Seduction community for a while I can tell you exactly what this means.

    Basically all the attraction that was there fell apart... everyday there is a process of choice that requires attraction to be recharged. What she is saying is your not doing enough to keep me and thus I want to end this in a way I thought wouldn't hurt you.

    But all is not lost man not in the least... it means that you will survive and that this is simply a life lesson. -- Truth

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    Quote Originally Posted by ArmySGT. View Post
    Translation: Inside I am a ten year old girl, I can't face responsibility, If I had to say this in person I could cry. Don't find me and force me to deal with Life, not as it is I want it as Mommy told me it would be.
    Well, that's one way to look at it...

    However, since we are only hearing one side of the story I'm making the decision not to judge a woman none of us knows by what a guy that none of us knows has chosen to print on a website that is populated by anonymous and total strangers.

    But that's just me...
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    Ok if she don't want anything to do with me why would she LOOK AT MY MYSPACE PAGE EVERYDAY?????? That's the point I'm getting at!!!! I don't want her back she was boring!!!
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    ^We do that. I check all of my exees pages. It's like a compulsion.

    I feel nothing for them, but I have a weird curiosity about what they're doing now

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    Sounds like she has some issues with herself...honestly....she's really short kind of cruel about it....IDK I think she feel guilty about something and doesn't want to say...
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    Quote Originally Posted by big_daddy View Post
    Ok if she don't want anything to do with me why would she LOOK AT MY MYSPACE PAGE EVERYDAY?????? That's the point I'm getting at!!!! I don't want her back she was boring!!!
    Because its something girls do. If you already figured out she was boring and you really don't want her back... go out and get a new girl thats worthy of your time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by -TruTh- View Post
    I have been in the Seduction community for a while I can tell you exactly what this means.

    Basically all the attraction that was there fell apart... everyday there is a process of choice that requires attraction to be recharged. What she is saying is your not doing enough to keep me and thus I want to end this in a way I thought wouldn't hurt you.

    But all is not lost man not in the least... it means that you will survive and that this is simply a life lesson. -- Truth
    what is the Seduction community?
    "If she wants to dance and drink all night, well there's no one that can stop her. She's going til the house lights come up or her stomach spills onto the floor. This night is gonna end when we're damn well ready for it to be over, worked all week long, and now the music is playing on our time. Yeah we do what we do to get by, and then we need a release!" - Against Me!, "Thrash Unreal"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ruby Ruckus View Post
    what is the Seduction community?
    Well if you watch VH1 the PickUp Artist that would be a summary.

    The Seduction Community are men who are capable of dating any type of woman... through self development purposes. Its quite a fascinating field... if you would like to learn. -- Truth

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    Quote Originally Posted by -TruTh- View Post
    The Seduction Community are men who are capable of dating any type of woman... through self development purposes. Its quite a fascinating field... if you would like to learn. -- Truth
    Oh boy, I can hear the sounds of the First Battalion of the Royal Regiment of Strippers forming up for the assault now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by big_daddy View Post
    Ok if she don't want anything to do with me why would she LOOK AT MY MYSPACE PAGE EVERYDAY?????? That's the point I'm getting at!!!! I don't want her back she was boring!!!
    Because she wants to see that you haven't done better than her, and to sabotage it if you have.

    She is immature, has self esteem issues, and a totally unrealistic world view skewed by romance fantasies. Delete your Myspace page and make a new one .

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    Quote Originally Posted by parris_star View Post
    Sounds like she has some issues with herself...honestly....she's really short kind of cruel about it....IDK I think she feel guilty about something and doesn't want to say...
    This is what I think!! Thank you! There will be a little extra in your pay check this week LOL!!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by ArmySGT. View Post
    Because she wants to see that you haven't done better than her, and to sabotage it if you have.

    She is immature, has self esteem issues, and a totally unrealistic world view skewed by romance fantasies. Delete your Myspace page and make a new one .
    I will block her before doing that!!! But you hit the nail right on the head!!
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    At least she made a clean break of it with no "lets be friends" or other classic lines. On the other hand consider yourself lucky she broke up with you, anyone who breaks off a relationship via MySpace is very immature. Not someone I would want to date, just stay away from where she works and avoid all contact.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phil-W View Post
    Oh boy, I can hear the sounds of the First Battalion of the Royal Regiment of Strippers forming up for the assault now.

    Phil.

    (Puts on tin hat and waits for bombardment to start....)
    Yea but it wouldn't make a difference... were in clubs, bars, Strip Clubs. We are everywhere... of course we have a saying "Leave them better then found".

    Were not evil... we live life... and were not judgmental in the least... theres woman too within are community.. its much like this forum. We exist to have great lifes and enjoy woman and in return the woman enjoy are company to. Nothing wrong with that... by the way.. Exotic dancers.. have been picked up as well.

    -- Truth

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