Ok, so here's the scenerio: I've been seeing this guy now since mid October. Things are going great, we have a lot in common, we have the same views and beliefs on subjects, and we have a blast together.
As far as I know, he's been open & honest with me about his past relationship with his ex wife whom he divorced in 2004. He's told me that he sometimes teaches classes at her gym she owns; a gym he's also invested in. He's told me that when they divorced they shared custody of their dog, trading him weeks at a time (almost like custody over a child). He also told me that when they were together (for 7 yrs) they never fought ONCE-- Not once, (that's a lil strange isn't it?). He said she was the only one out of his friends and his family that truly understood him, and that he really loved her, yadda, yadda, yadda...
Now...he says that he has no intention of getting back together with her. In fact, she's tried to get back together with him after their divorce but he didn't allow it. Now she's supposedly getting engaged to the guy she's been with. He said the reason they broke up was because, "She couldn't fully be herself with out me around." Apparently they got together when she was 19, and she was never really able to become herself with out him. I dunno....I sort of understand, but I dunno.... He speaks very highly of her and their past realtionship, as well as expresses his serious distaste for unfaithful or unhappy relationships.
I honestly don't know why I'm worried. I suppose if he wanted to be with her, then he would be right? This is just my first experience in this kind of situation and I always tend to be cautious. Should I be worried?



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