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    Angry Power-trip bouncers

    Don't you freakin hate it when the bouncers think they're the ones running the show?! And by this I mean the rare few, because most of the bouncers at my club are awesome and always have our backs. But tonight this CIA-wannabe dude totally pissed me off!

    I have a regular that I've known for months, and now we're more friends than anything else, he's much older than me and we tend to just skip the dancing and have a drink together. I don't have a car right now so he's been giving me a ride home at the end of the night. I know some people that don't know better might think I'm heading out to a hotel or something with him, so we always keep it on the DL.

    Tonight he comes in, waves to let me know he's here, and we get a drink before I go to the DR to change and he goes for the car. I get out there and Bouncer is like "you know damn well you can't leave with a customer!!" I'm like we're friends, he's just picking me up. Bouncer says "he stepped into the club, which means he's a customer, which means you can't leave with him". I was thinking "what are ya gonna do, chain me to the club?!" I just said I'd sort it out and got in the car.

    I can understand that could definitely be worthy to stop people using the club for prostitution etc, but I can't count the amount of times I've hit up a guy for a dance and he's said "oh, I'm just here picking up my wife/gf/friend from work". I've worked there for 6 months and the person picking me up has always come in to tell me they're there. Now it becomes a problem


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    Default Re: Power-trip bouncers

    My club doesn't allow dancers to leave with customers either, it just looks bad weather or not your doing anything with him or not. Ive seen girls lose their jobs over it because the club can be shut down for prostitution or soliciting. Next time, let management know about your situation ahead of time. have him wait for you outside and not come in at all or have him call your cell or the front desk to let you know he's there. That way management will know your car is broken down, and that you are dependent on him for a ride.... it just looks more tasteful, and wont lead to as many assumptions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bambiblue View Post
    My club doesn't allow dancers to leave with customers either, it just looks bad weather or not your doing anything with him or not. Ive seen girls lose their jobs over it because the club can be shut down for prostitution or soliciting. Next time, let management know about your situation ahead of time. have him wait for you outside and not come in at all or have him call your cell or the front desk to let you know he's there. That way management will know your car is broken down, and that you are dependent on him for a ride.... it just looks more tasteful, and wont lead to as many assumptions.
    +1....I've worked at my club for 5 years and I'd be fired on the spot for leaving with a customer even if it was for the best intentions. It just looks bad, next time tell him to wait for you outside the club. That bouncer doesn't really know you or the situation so he was just doing his job.

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    Ladies.. Strip Clubs an Dancers Have To Marsh To A Different Drummer...
    >>They shut clubs all the time and put Dancers In Jail for just That... Scores Manhattan for one ..Hottest Strip Club In The US.. $400,000.oo a day in sales ..Last night was their last night...If they were not able to get a stay... Dancers leaving or ever meeting a person Man/Woman that has ever been a customer of a club including Boy/Girlfriends is grounds for Prostitution charges on the Dancers And grounds for the Club to loose their Licence... As in the case of Scores.. NO LICENCE as of 3:00am. 01/01/09..Score on 27th lost theirs in May because Club policy allowed Dancers to leave with so called Boy/Girlfriends
    There was one here that was shut down in 05. Raided with 34 agents and made National news.. One Dancer is still in Jail.. The last I heard.. Her charges were filed on her cell phone records from 278 men's numbers on her cell phone and never proved there was Sex/Drug involved just that the calls spoke of such and were received while on the clock at the CLUB... A girl that worked for a club here 5 years ago met one of her old customers from back then NOW a VICE COP went to dinner a couple of times.. Then went to a motel to party. Is now in jail serving 8 months for prostitution... The 1st contact was made in the Club 5yrs ago.. But he paid for the Drinks /Dances back then and the Dinners/Motel now so the Sex was not free.. And they are trying to file charges on the club owner even though the club has been closed 3yrs... And he is no longer in the strip club business...
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    > Yes.. Ladies It can be a really big Deal..
    > Once a Customer Always a Customer..
    >
    > In the eyes of the Law...
    > There Is no such thing as an ex
    > "Strip Club Customer And now we are just friends"...
    >
    > Dressing Room Lawyers will get you In Jail and the club Closed...
    >

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    Eek well I have a customer turned friend. He comes into see me gets me dinner-drinks, drives me home if I need one. But this relationship has been going on for over 5 years. And my ex boyfriend used to pick me up. He'd come in early and have a drink at the bar and wait for me. Never had a problem. But I guess it all depends on management and what they know.
    “I am good, but not an angel. I do sin, but I am not the devil. I am just a small girl in a big world trying to find someone to love.”
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    I spoke to my customer/friend/ride about it and decided imma speak to management tomorrow before I make any changes etc. I get on real well with my manager but if he's not having it at all, then I'll have to start some CIA-style shit... getting a cab to the intersection and meeting my friend there or something


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    CIA-style. I like that. haha. What an inconvienence though. geez. Hope it all works out.
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    Yeah really! There's nothing underhand about the situation at all, but it definitely looks like it when we're having secret rendezvous at Waffle House after we leave the club etc!


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    ..........He used to spend money in the club, right? Now whats the point? He is seeing you OTC.

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    Ladies.. Please! Do understand I too am in the Adult Entertainment Industry..
    > I am Not Just some Drunk Customer or Dressing Room Lawyer..
    > I own a club.. Book Adult Entertainers and Dancers...
    > Consult lawyers on how to keep Clubs open and Dancers/Entertainers out of jail...
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    > Advising Dancers/Entertainers to not have ANY outside contact with a customer is like
    > telling a Deer not to cross a highway in front of a Speeding Semi Truck... But here goes...
    >
    > Federal Prostitution ... Chapter 567
    > Chapter 567.010. Definitions
    > Prostitution; When one accepts or receives or agrees to accept or receives anything or
    > any service of value. For any physical or conversational contact
    > Chapter 567.020; Prostitution is a class B misdemeanor.

    > Prostitution In The Third Degree; One commits the crime of prostitution in the third degree if
    > One accepts or receives or agrees to accepts or receives anything or any service of value
    > For any physical or conversational contact outside of a sexual oriented establishment
    > without regards to the status of that establishments license..
    > Chapter 567.070; Prostitution in the third degree is a class D felony
    >
    > Chapter 567.040: Prostitution in the first degree - No Defence
    > One commits prostitution in the first degree No Defence when both persons are of the same
    > sex accepts or receives or agree to accept or receives anything or any service of value
    > For any physical or conversational contact outside of a sexual oriented establishment
    > without regards to the status of that establishments license
    > Chapter 567.050; Prostitution in the first degree is a class B felony
    >
    > Ladies.. Sorry I will not quote any more of the laws..
    > By now you have the picture or you never will...
    >
    > Ladies...You Can Go To Jail For Up To 5 yrs for meeting a customer outside of the club..
    > And I know you do not care the club can also loose its SOB and Liquor License and can
    > go with you for up to 10 yrs...
    > If you inform your club a non relative is bringing and picking you up.
    > And they agree they are Providing and promoting...
    > A Taxi even though privately owned as long as the drive does not enter the club.
    > They are considered public transportation and are exempt.
    >
    > I am sure one or two of you also think Pot / Coke/ and Meth are legal as long as you use it
    > within 24 hours of purchase for your own personal use..
    > Along with Driving Drunk is legal as long as you don't hit a RED Cop Car...
    > And the Easter Bunny now rides a Harley..
    > Sorry Ladies .. Those too are all still just Fairytales...
    >
    > I am sure you will now send me tons of hate mail..
    > Sorry .. It is what it is...
    >
    > PS.. Boy/Girlfriends are NOT legal relatives
    Last edited by Wray Entertainment; 01-02-2009 at 09:09 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wray Entertainment View Post
    > I am sure one or two of you also think Pot / Coke/ and Meth are legal as long as you use it
    > within 24 hours of purchase for your own personal use..
    > Along with Driving Drunk is legal as long as you don't hit a RED Cop Car...
    > And the Easter Bunny now rides a Harley..
    > Sorry Ladies .. Those too are all still just Fairytales...
    >
    > I am sure you will now send me tons of hate mail..
    > Sorry .. It is what it is...
    >
    > PS.. Boy/Girlfriends are NOT legal relatives
    You will never get hate mail for informing everyone why 'it is what it is' legally! YOU WILL get hate mail for talking to these ladies like they are dumb. Everyone on SW is here because they are looking for support and information. Thank you for providing it.

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