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    Default Can men earn any money from stripping, topless waitering?

    well my best friend is a male stripper so naturally I have gotten to know a few of them

    I have model looks athletic physique.. coached gymnastics.. can do the splits left right... and the middle

    if I become a really good performer can I earn any money?
    or are male strippers just merely entertainers nothing more?

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    You can make money as a male stripper, but the real money to be made in that is dancing for other men. Can you deal with that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    You can make money as a male stripper, but the real money to be made in that is dancing for other men. Can you deal with that?
    quoted for truth. the money is in dancing for other guys. I don't know how male clubs are everywhere, but in portland the guys are allowed to touch you on stage in a male club. well, that's what I saw at 3 sisters, when I lived in portland anyway. can you handle that? viola speaks the truth. the money for guys is in dancing and lapdancing for other guys.

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    yep I know gay customers is the where the real money is...

    as a joke I once advertised myself on an escort page
    the only willing clients were gay!

    so annoying this occupation is mainly for women..

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    Default Re: Can men earn any money from stripping, topless waitering?

    Yes. I know many male strippers that make more than their female counterparts. The exact amount you earn is based on location and season. The south is a good place to be working right now. The upper mid-west and Pacific Northwest is good in the summer.


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucifer911 View Post
    yep I know gay customers is the where the real money is...

    as a joke I once advertised myself on an escort page
    the only willing clients were gay!

    so annoying this occupation is mainly for women..
    Well, I mean, we are mostly not attracted to the people we dance for... so I don't see the difference or how male dancers (gay for pay) have it worse. Sorry you can't get paid to dance or fuck gorgeous women... it's mostly going to be fat old rich gay men.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    Well, I mean, we are mostly not attracted to the people we dance for... so I don't see the difference or how male dancers (gay for pay) have it worse. Sorry you can't get paid to dance or fuck gorgeous women... it's mostly going to be fat old rich gay men.
    bwahahaha! again, qft. I can count all the guys I've danced for that I was actually attracted to in more than a decade on ONE, yes one hand, lol. Its a job, sometimes a tough job, and not nearly as glamorous as tv and movies make it look.

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    okay I have an idea

    I could like offer a free Louis Vutton handbag with every private lap dance.. this should attract the women by the droves..

    I could also play titanic music in the background as they are more emotional than men and all LOL

    Now I just need to find a way to get LV handbags without paying for them haha

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    Haha Viola, yes. Thank you for saying that. What the hell?

    Lucifer, I don't like L.V or Titanic. Any more stereotypes to throw at us?
    Originally Posted by ViolaStrings
    I get turned around when my boyfriend does the helicockter. I'm totally visual.

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    Quote Originally Posted by davka View Post
    Haha Viola, yes. Thank you for saying that. What the hell?

    Lucifer, I don't like L.V or Titanic. Any more stereotypes to throw at us?
    I wasn't throwing any stereotypes around.. however it is a FACT men cannot do as well as women in this industry because women aren't as visual as men when it comes to choosing a potential partner

    collectively more women do like Titanic more than men... and as for LV its a famous designer... hell I wouldn't mind a pair of LV sunnies myself

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    ^ you can do just as well as we do dancing for gropey fat men you would never touch without the incentive of money. For serious. Get over it.

    What's the difference?!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucifer911 View Post
    I wasn't throwing any stereotypes around.. however it is a FACT men cannot do as well as women in this industry because women aren't as visual as men when it comes to choosing a potential partner
    that "women aren't as visual" crap is bullshit. men like to root all gender differences in biology (without any evidence) rather than social constructed norms.

    you basically said women are emotional and materialistic.
    Originally Posted by ViolaStrings
    I get turned around when my boyfriend does the helicockter. I'm totally visual.

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    Viola, exactly.
    Originally Posted by ViolaStrings
    I get turned around when my boyfriend does the helicockter. I'm totally visual.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucifer911 View Post
    I wasn't throwing any stereotypes around.. however it is a FACT men cannot do as well as women in this industry because women aren't as visual as men when it comes to choosing a potential partner

    collectively more women do like Titanic more than men... and as for LV its a famous designer... hell I wouldn't mind a pair of LV sunnies myself
    not true, women can be very visual, i for one am very shallow lol.
    But I think there is a difference in that women have been glamorized, sexualized, and kind of put on a pedestal for their looks for centuries and men have not. A naked woman is seen as sexy and entrancing while a naked man is seen as funny. Male nudity is more often used for humor while female nudity is sexualized. So it makes more sense to pay a woman to touch and look at her and not to do the same for a man. Men just dont have the same mystique

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    Default Re: Can men earn any money from stripping, topless waitering?

    I get turned around when my boyfriend does the helicockter. I'm totally visual.

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    okay well every woman is different
    there is significantly more female strip joints than male
    shows.. something like 10-to-1 at least where I live
    because more men are willing to pay to see a naked woman
    than women seeing a naked man..

    but maybe one day things might turn around?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    I get turned around when my boyfriend does the helicockter. I'm totally visual.
    Lmao i would be so embarrassed and just laugh if my bf did that for me. I guess I have problems because I dont find the male body or male sexuality "sexy"
    I cant have sex and keep a straight face the whole time and my ex complains about this so much to me. Do other girls seriously find their guy "sexy"?
    Gorgeous, handsome, yes, but sexy seems to be reserved for girls and for unnattractive meatheads who make me laugh more than they turn me on.

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    ^My other half is hella sexy! I mean i totally get off on watching him, when he is wearing little tighty whiteys and leans against the wall waggling his ass at me i know how it feels for men when we do it - i would totally stick money in my man's calvins (although fortunately he does it for me for free!) - even when we met and went on our first dates he just totally did it for me in a physical way. And he is not a meatheat - oil and fake tan aren't sexy - he's all lean and shaven headed and just, just rah!

    It is only a relatively recent phenomenon that women have overtaken men in terms of being visually presented as objects of beauty. Classical greco-roman culture celebrates the male form far above and beyond that of the female. Have a read of Germaine Greer's The Boy and once you get over the slightly cringey descriptions of 'gushing fountains of sperm' you can see what she means about the attractiveness of the male form being overlooked and denied in modern Western society.

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    ha ha, i thought he wanted to know how to become a pimp!

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    as has already previously been stated, you can make money, if you dance for men. it has nothing to do with women being less visual, and everything to do with the fact that almost any woman on earth can get male attention, whereas men have it a little harder. why would we pay to watch naked guys when we can get them for free, assuming sex is the only motive. assuming materialism is our motive, why would we pay to watch naked guys, when we could go to a regular bar and get male attention for free, including free drinks, dinner dates, etc? especially if we are attractive women.

    you're complaining that you can't make your money the same way we do, but you can! all you have to do is pretend to be attracted to men that you are not, in fact, attracted to. if our world was an ideal place, all strip club customers would be rich, attractive men. but our world isn't perfect, and neither is yours.
    "If she wants to dance and drink all night, well there's no one that can stop her. She's going til the house lights come up or her stomach spills onto the floor. This night is gonna end when we're damn well ready for it to be over, worked all week long, and now the music is playing on our time. Yeah we do what we do to get by, and then we need a release!" - Against Me!, "Thrash Unreal"

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    haha viola you are cracking me up. i am now making my boyfriend do the helicockter. i never heard of it til now. hahaha
    Originally Posted by ViolaStrings
    I get turned around when my boyfriend does the helicockter. I'm totally visual.

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    The fact that there are more female strip clubs than male strip clubs is a benefit to the male dancers who dance. As we all know oversaturation of the market for female strip clubs is killing our money. So many strip clubs and so many female dancers. The fact that each city has very few places where men can get naked for money for men or women is quite a benefit. In my town, Portland, I can count on on one hand and still have fingers left over where men can dance. It would actually take me all of my fingers and toes doubled and then some for all of the female strip clubs..........Male dancers are making a killing here in Portland because there is zero competition.

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    I reckon there is a market for Move Look a Like Male Strippergrams.

    I would like a Batman or Constantine one for my B`Day please. Thing is, he would have to be young and hot though,and not the usual orange, oily thrusty male stripper type. I dont want to be thrusted or wiggled at. But something mysterious could be good.
    A civilian spends money to look good
    A stripper looks good to make money
    A civilian may be after your wage
    A stripper laughs at your wage

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    Quote Originally Posted by davka View Post
    haha viola you are cracking me up. i am now making my boyfriend do the helicockter. i never heard of it til now. hahaha
    I just named it. I didn't know how else to describe it.

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    oregonchick you made a great point
    oversaturation of female strip clubs would make it harder for sure..

    I'm starting off as a topless waiter next week
    ok who wants sex on the rocks???
    lol

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