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    Crossfingers milking newbie status...

    ok, so its getting down to the wire and just about time for me to try out at the club i want to work at. ive read and reread hustle hut until tips are leaking out of my ears. among the things ive learned is that newb often get beginners luck, since being the new girl at the club attracts some degree of novelty, im hoping to really use this to my advantage and work every angle of the newness while i can. i have a few ideas, some my own some ive read on here like:
    - using the fact that "im not used to the shoes yet" as an excuse to sit down and chat
    -asking if they want my "first dance" etc. to break me in or give some tips
    - going right up to a larger group and talking to them about how nervous i am for my first time on stage, asking if theyll watch and tell me how i did, or sit at the stage and cheer me on (giving me an excuse to go back for dances)
    - plus i see being new as an easier way to ask them to come back again to see me and se how ive imporved lol.
    -gives me an easy way to introduce myself.

    do these seem like good ideas. do any of you ladies have a better spin on these ideas or any others. id really like to take the first week or so to my advantage. any advice would be great...

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    Default Re: milking newbie status...

    I don't have any suggestions to add to your ideas, only a warning: dudes did not respond as warmly to my newbie status as I hoped they would, when I used it as a hustle in a way similar to the plan you have. I would say 80% didn't care how long I had been there, 10% thought I was lying when I said it was my first day, and the other 10% was downright contemptuous, saying how much I sucked at walking in the shoes and dancing.

    Maybe your experience will be different, but in mine, customers didn't really care if I was new or not. If they wanted to spend money on me they wanted to spend money on me, and if they didn't, they didn't. My newbie status had no bearing on it whatsoever.

    edit:I also think "new girl money" comes from the fact that you're a fresh face, not the thrill of getting a lapdance from a noob or the fantasy of debasing an innocent newcomer.
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    Default Re: milking newbie status...

    thanks, i mean i have no clue how it will work or even if it will, just brainstorming and looking for insight, yours it great. i dont really think the debasing an innocent thing is what i was looking for, just using the fact that im new as an opener before i get used to talking to custies at the club. just looking for a way, if its possible to use the fresh face to my advantage. besides i fully realize that beginners luck is exactly that, just luck, some get it some dont. though skill will definetly improve my chances, no? just want to show up as ready as i can be, not just show up and wanna dance my way through the night.

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    ^^ The fact that some newbies are incredibley sexy, have a fresh non- hardened attitude, and put effort into their look has alot to do w/ the "new girl $$".

    The majority of custies arent there to walk a newbie thru her nerves and coach her to sexiness. They want to come in and be smitten by a sexpot.

    Alot of guys think newbie = sucky lapdance/rooms. They might be nice to you for a min. but your "im so nervous hustle" is probably going to get easily dismissed when another dancer simply looks at the custy and proceeds to wink, lick her lips, and jiggle her ass/ boobs while walking by or saying hello.Men like confidence. Most want the "best" stripper there. The best product for there dollar,lol.

    Youre on point tho. Be prepared by thinking of something cute and open ended to say to join any custy.
    Make a reason to join crowds...like my feet hurt can i chill by you, then feel out a sale now that hes at ease.
    Groups: care if i chit chat for a sec before my stage set etc., so you guys drinkin it up to night or what? Hows everyone doing havin fun yet? me , hell yeah! Most importantly your reason to join a customer...because its a stripclub, he entered it, and your a stripper. He came to buy dances and be entertained by you in some form. Being in the building is the only reason i need to approach someone. My second step is to make myself appealing to him if he bites, sale. If not im nice to him but i move on.

    Alot of patrons are MORE hardened than the dancers and wont believe you. The days of 5-7 dancers over and over causing custies to love a new face is over in my parts. there are always shit tons of new faces and some of them are newbies some are just traveling/random.

    If you work at a club w/ 5ish dancers that the custies are sick of than you should just get the new girl money. If not just work on your approaches, sales pitch, and closings-and then build clientele.
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    Default Re: milking newbie status...

    actually there are onlt about 25-30 dancers employed at the club, period. so im hoping so. i looked on this strip club list website to just see what people had to say about the club and they were alot of them saying how theres nobody new. the newest person there started july of last year, theres a really high turnover for the waitresses there, but not dancers. im just getting really psyched about it, cant wait to jump in so i figure filling my time with hustle strategy wont hurt. but i can see how newbie= sucky to a customer. and im sure the newness isnt something to bring up with every customer obviously, im just thinking it might with some. if i start to get discouraged on what to say, ya ill use it to my advantage, in a fun flirty way, to others ill have to try to look like i know what im doing. any other suggestions?

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    Default Re: milking newbie status...

    If there is a demand for new faces then youre golden. play up that your new to the club but that your not new to being sensual/sexual.

    You sound like me. I have certain openers/stories/lines that get me thru work.
    I tell the men that im an "attention whore", they love it. Then you can be aggressive about them watching you onstage and getting private dances, "i need that attention damnit, you were warned ;0)". You could also use that line as your reason for getting into dancing, since youre new. You just want to have all eyes on you and to be looked at..."private attention is my weakness"< that can get you into VIP.

    I worked w/ a newbie that out sold me and everyone. she was divorced and let all the custies know that she was new to the stripping scene and that she was happy to put the years of dancing in private for her ex to good use in public. She seriously had a trunk of lingerie boas and all and some hot moves, she claimed that it was all from her hot personal life. Many customers and dancers didnt believe she was new, she was like i better be a good stripper i stripped for my ex for 5 years. Lots of guys were like "Now thats a woman".

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    Default Re: milking newbie status...

    attention whore...i like it. im thinking it will be okay. im a very playful person by nature, so i think thatll help when i always look like im enjoying what im doing on stage, having fun with it. the confidence ill have to fake for now.that spin on being able to be aggressive from loving attention sounds good. and that girl you worked with wow. im hoping to have the fresh face but also look like i know what im doing, atleast somewhat. i dont want to go in there stammering on what to say and tripping all over myself. im sure ill be okay talking to customers when it comes down to it, and selling as well. its just the openers i need work on. even IRL i am the worst at approaching people, but once i do im a charmer. i always get the theres just something about you bs. hope i can play it up and learn to be more agressive. i mean i know you learn the more you go along especially in this buisness, i just want a head start. wow, im sounding like a broken record. but thanks and ladies keep it coming.

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