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    how do dancers get used to working in touching allowed clubs. i live in iowa and go to a couple different clubs that allow touching. the rules are customers can touch a dancers legs , behind, and breasts. no licking or biting and no touching any area covered by the dancer's thong. the first time i went to a touch club i was up at the stage and a dancer took my hands and put them on her breasts. i wasn't sure if it was legal and put my hands down. the dancer laughed and said " first time here honey?" i was a little embarassed but felt better when she gave me a private dance. i was just wondering your opinion on touch clubs and do u mind guys u don't know touching you?

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    i would never work at a place where part of the rules were that the customers were allowed to touch my boobs. i allow it sometimes, with customers i know and like and trust and who always spend well on me, but i would not be comfortable with every single guy in there doing it, especially when i was on stage.
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    i tolerated a full contact club for a few months because i needed the money. i regret it and i'd never go back to high contact. i don't regret anything i've ever done more than working there.

    however, some girls can do it and some are even happy with it. more power to them. i just, can't.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dancersrfun View Post
    how do dancers get used to working in touching allowed clubs.
    My knee-jerk resopnce is that we don't. We find ways to deal with it, or just repress it. We only put up with it for money.

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    i was just wondering your opinion on touch clubs and do u mind guys u don't know touching you?
    Personally, I don't allow guys to touch anything a bikini covers. It's just not cool with me. I allowed it once and I still regret it. I don't even let guys touch my sock unless the price is right.

    I have no clue why you're asking this. You're clearly fine touching girls who would rather you didn't, in areas they really don't want you to. It's not like any dancers here are going to go "OMG! I love it when strangers play with my boobs!" It's just SS when dancers say that in the club.

    Now, the blue ribbons can go ahead and chime in about how we chose this job, money this, they spend that, mutual agreement, club policies and all that jazz.

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    All the girls like it when I touch them. I haz the magic touch.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    All the girls like it when I touch them. I haz the magic touch.
    Haha. I like you.

    To the OP: What all the other girls said. The high contact girls either ignore or repress it for money.

    Personally I don't allow bikini area touching. And when guys try to lick/suck my nipples, I ask them if they were bottle fed. Blech!

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    I'd suspect by and large, dancers go with whatever the local norm is in their particular area. If the situation isn't ideal (and usually it isn't), and there's something they can do to make it more tolerable, they'll take advantage of it.
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    All clubs in Auckland are contact clubs, but with my club, there are rules about where and when - you can't, for instance, slap a girl on the ass in the club, touch her breasts unless you're in a executive dance and she has consented (touching is to dancer's discretion) and any misbehaviour of this kind is not tolerated. I think the fact that touching is to dancer's discretion (bar between the legs and mouth contact, both strict no nos obviously) is nice - it means if one girl feels uncomfortable letting guys touch her breasts she can say no and be backed by the club, but if another dancer is ok with it, that's fine too - I've noticed some girls are happy to do spreaders right in custies faces in private dances, but won't let them touch them, or vice versa - so it leaves it a little bit up to the girls and their level of comfort with contact.

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    shockingly enough I have danced with girls at high contact clubs, who not only didn't mind guys groping them, I could swear they liked it. I saw a lot of girls take the custies hands and place them on their tits, even on stage like the OP's situation. Then again, these were the same girls who like to drink all night, and most of the custies that would come in weren't old, fat or gross or anything, just younger working or college guys. Also many of the girls would wipe thri bodies with babywipes after giving a contact dance. I guess that makes it easier for them or something. Personally, I don't like having strange men grope me, esp my ass and breasts, but whatever to each their own. I still make money.
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    I don't like to be touched by strangers at all.

    After working in Vegas all these years, I can't stand it. These assholes try to stick their finger in your ass,just because you are sitting on their lap. Seriously I have had a couple incidents where guys are literally trying to forcefully hold me and try to do that shit. Where are the bouncers when you need them????
    On the busy weekends, there is nowhere to sit but on guys laps, so the only way to avoid all gropey guys is by doing 'the wanna dance hustle'. This approach does not work well for me, unless I've had a couple of drinks.

    I think lots of girls just go with the flow. If its a high contact club, most likely a lot of money comes from VIP, which usually means touching.

    In clubs where touching is not allowed, it just isn't allowed, or you are fired and the guy kicked out. I personally loved working at these kinds of clubs. I felt like the art of the performances was appreciated much more and people have more respect.

    I feel like in some high contact clubs, theres just not that level of respect. Some guys are so drunk, obnoxious and rude, but because they spent a lot of money that night they get away with it.( meaning bouncers/management did nothing.)

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    how do dancers get used to working in touching allowed clubs.
    1. We don't.

    I cannot stand it when guys try and touch my boobs. No offense most guys don't know how to handle a boob in the first place. Hands off. No touchy!




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    ...Study: You Touch It, You Buy It. You touch those mugs, you are paying for it.

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    I guess it's just something that some dancers get used to. It all depends on the individual dancer's comfort level and what she's willing to put up with for what amount of money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dancersrfun View Post
    how do dancers get used to working in touching allowed clubs. i live in iowa and go to a couple different clubs that allow touching. the rules are customers can touch a dancers legs , behind, and breasts. no licking or biting and no touching any area covered by the dancer's thong. the first time i went to a touch club i was up at the stage and a dancer took my hands and put them on her breasts. i wasn't sure if it was legal and put my hands down. the dancer laughed and said " first time here honey?" i was a little embarassed but felt better when she gave me a private dance. i was just wondering your opinion on touch clubs and do u mind guys u don't know touching you?
    Unless it is in a Nevada brothel, I think that breast touching is always illegal in the US. Clubs might encourage it, but watch what happens if the Police come in.

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    i don't mind it. never did mind it.

    i do mind it when guys get rough, mess with my rhythm, try to touch my pussy/asshole, or try to lick my nipples (and i only mind that because i'm afraid they will bite).

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    I don't know what it's like elsewhere in the country. But almost every club I've been to in Missouri and Kansas has the same rules as what the original poster wrote--Customers can touch the dancers breasts, butt, legs, belly, etc. Just not between her legs.

    Steve123, it's nothing 'extra' or under the table, either. The clubs advertise this in their print ads and web sites. Sometimes police will even come into the club and look around for funny business, but nobody gets in trouble for touching.

    I like it, but I'm a customer of course.


    I don't do it unless prompted, though. Usually the girl will take your hands and put them on her boobs or she will tell you that you can touch her. If they don't do those things, I just keep my hands to myself during the dance.

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    Those that can't stand it must find it horribly offensive to work in most clubs. Those that can't stand people looking at their bodies probably don't even work in clubs.

    I don't know why the OP asked the question in the first place. It is either unanswerable or it is obvious, depending on a club patron's outlook.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    ^ i assumed he was looking for one of us to say something to think about when he jerks it.

    the question is, was he looking for a girl to hate it and to feel dirty and ashamed? or was he looking for a girl to be a total cumslut who likes to break even the most lenient of rules because she just likes to?

    haha. i'm so jaded.
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    the word "cumslut", will never, ever stop being funny to me.
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    i know right?

    had to inject a little lightheartedness in my post.
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    Guess I am old fashioned. As a customer, I like non-contact. There is something about leaving a little mystery that I find compelling. And a really good dance will entertain you without requiring you to paw the dancer!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Miniman View Post
    Guess I am old fashioned. As a customer, I like non-contact. There is something about leaving a little mystery that I find compelling. And a really good dance will entertain you without requiring you to paw the dancer!!!
    This is definitely true of some! When I worked nude, sometimes I'd have a customer ask me to keep my underoos on!

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    A girl that gives you a dirty dance you might wonder who else she gave it to you might come see her once or twice at most.

    A girl with class and seductive appeal who gives you a great striptease now that's a repeat business you never grow tired of because she makes you feel good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by XAnastasiaX View Post
    A girl that gives you a dirty dance you might wonder who else she gave it to you might come see her once or twice at most.

    A girl with class and seductive appeal who gives you a great striptease now that's a repeat business you never grow tired of because she makes you feel good.
    You make a good point from your perspective but the reality is there are guys who like and will pay for a great strip tease (and don't want anything more) and there are guys who like and will pay for a dirty dance (and won't accept anything less). The good thing about the free market is both strippers and customers eventually gravitate towards and settle into clubs where the business models in place at those clubs make sense to them.

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    Customers at my club would think you're weird if you didn't allow *any* touching. But man I hate when people go for the vag.

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