Ok, so basically due to financial reasons, I have to strip, but on top of that, I really really want to strip. The finances are; I don't have a car to get to work (i'm currently borrowing my boyfriend's car and it's inconveniencing everybody) and I also don't really have a place to live (i'm staying with my boyfriend's ex-stepdad, which is super akward and I hate it). I'm a fiercly independant person and I loathe having to be supported like I am, stripping would entitle me to the funds in which I could purchase my own volkswagen bus and live in it. Ok, i'm sort of a hippie, so?
Now, i've known i've wanted to somehow work in the sex industry since I was a little girl. The first time I ever saw a stripper on TV I was awed and amazed. I also have an unhealthy appertite for shoes and cute skanky outfits, ha.
So basically, I want to be a stripper and nothing can stop me.
However, I also have a somewhat protective boyfriend. Passive protective I guess...? He's a pisces if you know anything about astrology (and i'm a leo) I have brought up the idea of me stripping in a somewhat joking manner a few months ago and he didn't seem keen on the idea. Also, recently I told him that I had nude-cammed before and he got really angry, even though we weren't even dating at the time (we were taking a break from eachother) which is really hypocritical of him because hey, atleast I didn't fuck everybody and their mother like he did. /Whoops, getting off track on a rant here, sorry.
How would you ladies suggest that I break the news to him? I figured if I ask him permision before even auditioning he would immediately condone me, and I would never get the chance. One idea I had was to already audtion, but not work yet, and then tell him. Then I would already have the job and it would be harder for him to stop me.
I guess I could just strip behind his back, but I know it would eventually come back to bite me, so it's probably not the best idea.
So, if you could please help me out, I would be eternally thankful.



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. Don't let this boy call the shots for you. You yourself said that you were independent. A relationship should mean that both people are on equal grounds and equals don't ask each other for permission. I would approach him and say that there is something important that you need to speak with him about and ask if now is a good time. If he says yes, go into what you want to do. Make it clear that you are telling him out of respect for him, you are not asking his permission. If the discussion starts to turn into an argument walk away, and try again later. be careful not to go into it expecting him to be a jerk and shoot you down, even if he is, because it will cause you to defensive and jumpy. Good luck!

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