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    I've been thinking about becoming a dancer for awhile now and the one thing I'm most worried about are the girls. I'm very simple minded, and if people play mind games with me I'm usually completely oblivious to it and get (in game term) PWNED...

    I know if I start I'd be the "new girl" and just another "competition" so most likely no one will take to my arriving very well (esp with the recession). I think dancing will be fun and a good way of making money by doing something I would enjoy and I think I can take a good amount of bullshit.

    Basically I'm asking if you ever worked at a club where there are girls just so evil, conniving, manipulative, that you couldn't stand working there and had to quit (or maybe gave u no choice but to quit)? they would plot out shit and scheme you? whats the worst thing a girl (or group of girls) have done to you? and how did you handle it? are there girls that will pick on you nonstop and just for some reason have a disdain for you?

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    the number one thing is to not worry or concern yourself with other girls. this is more than likely goin to lead to trouble. just make your money and mind your own business. if anything find a friend and try it out! its not as bad as it seems. their are girls like that but their are many that arent!

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    Just stay out of the club drama. It's not too hard, at least where I work. When I started, I came in, got dressed, and went out on the floor. I was friendly, but I didn't go out of my way to talk to the other girls. And over time, you observe, and see which girls create the drama and which ones don't, and then you know who you want to stay away from. A year later, I'm very friendly with most of the girls. And keep in mind, there's always going to be gossip and backstabbing where there are women. In my experience, there's no more of that at the club than there was at a restaurant I used to work at. And there are always going to be girls that drift in with the nastiest, bitchiest attitudes ever. Keep in mind that it's not just you; they behave that way with everyone, and the other girls there probably hate her a lot more than you do.

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    At every club I worked at I stayed out of drama. However, that hasn't stopped a few girls from disliking me. At this one club a few pulled an extremely cruel joke. So cruel that everytime I think about it I get angry, though this happened years ago.

    At the one club this guy used to come in regularly. He was friends with the owner. I thought he was cute and mentioned it to another dancer. I thought the dancer was pretty cool, but I was wrong. So she tells other girls about this and next thing you know other girls are telling me he's asking about me. So I go and flrt with him. He started telling me he was gay, etc. While he's telling me all this I see another dancer laughing. So of course I was devastated. The next day another dancer told me that she thought it was pretty nasty what they did (not her). Apparently several of the dancers (and one of the managers) wanted to "fix" me and thought they'd upset me by doing this. Needless to say, even though I banked, I left the club not long after. I also made a point never to chat with most dancers anymore, except light converstation. Made me very distrustful of anyone I worked with again. I did stay in contact with a few dancers from the club, but none were involved with this (most left the club by then).

    Come to think of it, they did a few other bad things. Another lesser thing they did was order me a sandwich from the deli next door (my club didn't offer food) with extra peppers, though I said no peppers (I hate peppers). When I got the sandwich it was nothing but peppers and another dancer said the person did it because they hated me. I gave the sandwich to another dancer. Another time the club got busted for prostitution and one of the dancers gave the police my stage name. I go to work the next day and find out they accused me of being a hooker. Luckily I wasn't there that day, and the bouncers all told the managers I was a clean dancer and never did anything even risque.

    I worked many clubs, and never dealt with this before or since. I'm pretty sure it was jealousy because I was a top earner and never resorted to anything illegal to make a great night. Guys liked me because while I was pretty, I was also nice to them and would chat (for pay of course). This same club pulled an evil "joke" on one of the djs' by getting him a "date". The date was a stuffed pig. This club is no longer around and I say good riddance.

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    Just go in, do your job, and go home. Be friendly, but not friends.

    Other than that I think you are worrying too much.

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    I think the key is really minding your own business most of the time. Get your money and put it away, don't let them know what you are making. Personally, I think the top house girls often get a lot of grief simply because they make the most money... I learned that early on. Don't let them see it, or have an idea of it and just be super nice. If you have questions your best bet is always to ask a manager.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    Just go in, do your job, and go home. Be friendly, but not friends.

    Other than that I think you are worrying too much.
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    If you work at clubs where there's a lot of money to be made, you shouldn't have any problems. But if you work at some trailer trash dump where the girls make pocket change ($30.00 a day/night) they'll give you trouble no matter what.

    One of the worst things that ever happened to a girl who wound up dancing at a trailer trash bar was the fact that the owner/mgr was a racist asshole, he pretty much encouraged jealous girls to spread bullshit about her by claiming she was a hooker, he even sent his butt ugly nephew after her and when she rejected him, he had some ugly sack of shit rape her a few days after she inquired about worker's comp when she fell down the stairs. The rape was to make her look guilty of the lies they were telling about her and he used that as an excuse to fire her.

    Just keep to yourself, don't lend your belongings to anyone and don't date bouncers or other co-workers.

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    I have only worked at two clubs and am a new dancer. The first one was a shady establishment, and I was only there for three nights and then quit. The girls were okay, though. Some were a little ghetto or rough around the edges, but I just tried to mind my own business and just say speak to or say "hello" to all the girls. The club where I am now, the girls are really fun and we have a good time. Just don't get involved in the drama. Go in, make your money and be polite and respectful of the other girls. Don't do shady things like snatch someone else's customer when they get up to go on stage or to use the bathroom. Don't run your mouth (brag about how much money you make or complain about how much you don't, talk about any other girls). And don't trust anyone. It's great to get along and joke around with the girls, bc it makes for a good working environment. But don't trust any of them. Dont' be stuck up or arrogant or shady. Just be laid back.

    I don't think you will have any problems as long as you just go in and do your job and stay out of the drama.

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    There's more shit in middle in high school than in a strip club. I've worked at 9 clubs, only had trouble at 2 and never got in a fight. If you work somewhere and don't like the atmosphere, go somewhere else. Also, at the two clubs I had bitchy girls, I ended up being cool later with the girls I had problems with. I've had more problems outside work than in.
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    Girls may talk trash in private but it is unlikely they will mess with you in the club. They are too busy trying to make money. If you have an issue with a girl you could confront them nicely that is if you have time to do so, if not tell the manager. If management sucks work elsewhere.

    It really comes down to how management handles things. If the girls are collaborating against someone or picking on new girls it's really the management that is lacking.




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    Quote Originally Posted by trixforyou327 View Post
    Basically I'm asking if you ever worked at a club where there are girls just so evil, conniving, manipulative
    Most clubs are. It's just the nature of the business. It took me a long time to get over it. I just couldn't believe people could be so fucked up. Really, there is no big secret or crafty trick that can prevent you from just taking the shit head on and working through it and just getting used to it.

    Quote Originally Posted by firemaiden04 View Post
    When I started, I came in, got dressed, and went out on the floor. I was friendly, but I didn't go out of my way to talk to the other girls. And over time, you observe, and see which girls create the drama and which ones don't, and then you know who you want to stay away from.
    That's pretty much the best advice you can get. See no evil, speak no evil, hear no evil...or at least try. Sometimes though, people are gonna fuck with you no matter what. It's one of those things that you have to accept with doing this job.

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