do any of you guys have friends that know you strip and want to go to the club to see you and maybe get a couple lap dances?
do you think its awkward or its cool, more money for you.


do any of you guys have friends that know you strip and want to go to the club to see you and maybe get a couple lap dances?
do you think its awkward or its cool, more money for you.





For me, no it's not cool. I'm at work to work...make my money, and take my ass home.
My friends are a product of my "real self". When I go to work in the club, that life is all a fantasy. I do not mix the two.
Plus, I dont dance for people I know.
Some Douchebag: "[Pimp C] 12:43 am: its true we got to stick together the black people on SW CK you is teh condoleeza of SW"




yup, i'm with CK, i don't neef their $20 bucks that bad. i'm at work and they usually would want you to hang out with them, and then its just makes for drama and gossip OTC. No thank you.
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i'm okay with it if they're specifically there to get dances from me. or even if they want dances from other girls but will stay the fuck off the floor and not gawk at me or expect me to hang out with them. i'm fine dancing for friends because i'm well aware that pretty much all my guy friends want to fuck me, well the straight ones at least. if they were gay and wanted to entertain me for a bit on a slow night, that could be cool.
my big no no is guys i'm dating. that just feels weird. however, i'm totally cool with going to another club with them and letting them buy dances for me.


yea i was just curious because i told a guy friend of mine about it, we use to be really good friends 7 years ago and lost contact. we recently started talking again and he said he would love to bring some of his friends to watch me and get some lap dances.
i dont think it'll be too awkward since we dont hang out all the time and we have separate groups of friends. thanks for all the responses!
It's kinda fun. My husband and his best friend, and some of our other friends would come all the time to the club I used to work at. We'd have fun, be silly, they'd "make it rain" on me and tip me when I walked by....then I would get dances cause I looked like I was in high demand.
Those were the days.....when I was making bank, the economy wasn't quite in the shitter and times were good. Now most of our friends can't afford to come to the club and have that kind of fun.





I've had a lot of friends come visit me at the club, including a Catholic priest on sabbatical... although I think he'd pretty much lost his faith at that point. It doesn't phase me though. I'm pretty open minded, as are most of my friends, so I think for us it's more just for fun.
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i've never given a lapdance to any of my friends, but a number of them have come to see me.
"If she wants to dance and drink all night, well there's no one that can stop her. She's going til the house lights come up or her stomach spills onto the floor. This night is gonna end when we're damn well ready for it to be over, worked all week long, and now the music is playing on our time. Yeah we do what we do to get by, and then we need a release!" - Against Me!, "Thrash Unreal"





My take on this (and it's obviously a personal one).
I've become close friends with two dancers in particular outside of work over the past few years. Most of my time with them is now spent when they're not working, but if they need it I will pick them up from work. It's accepted practice that I'll come in for the last hour of their shift and stand them a drink. (Their choice - I've always been happy to wait outside for them).
We've got a tacit agreement that I'll take no real notice of them if they're nude. Basically, I won't pay any attention when they're dancing, but neither of us will get fussed if I catch an unintended/casual glance of them naked.
With me at least it's a courtesy thing - a way of showing that their friendship is more important to me than their job. (And if I'm honest, I know it's a factor in us getting on outside of work).
I also know that if I did pay any real interest it would change the nature of our friendship/relationship - some of the trust they have in me would go. I don't think you can pay attention to a dancer working without her putting you (in part at least) into her mental 'customer' pigeonhole - with all that implies.
OK, it's my opinion, but it works for me and the dancers I'm friendly with. Other dancers may have different attitudes/opinions - ces't la vie.
Phil.
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