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    Crossfingers Im broken!!!

    So Ive noticed a small problem developing lately in my personal sex life. It started out where it was taking me alot longer then normal to cum, and now, I cant seem to at all. Its been probably a month now, and Ive tried everything I can think of to solve this problem. Hours and hours of direct clitoral contact...everything. Im freaking out. Is this something I should go to the dr over or am I possibly just worn out and need to give myself a break to recover? Does this kind of thing happen, where you will just randomly lose sensitivity without any kind of known damage to your organs or change in lifestyle patterns? Its really starting to scare me. I havent done anything different at all...I eat the same, take the same medications, sleep the same patterns, nothing really has changed and I have no serious stresses...

    well...besides this.

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    You could just be getting yourself stressed out with the thought of it. Have you tried experimenting with your partner? Maybe using external stimulants (lube, lotions) or role playing? It could just be boredom.
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    Do you have a genital piercing? Sometimes the constant rubbing of the ring can make you insensitive over time. Removing the jewelry allows sensation to come back. Just a shot in the dark.

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    I dont have piercings anymore, but I did have a ladder about a year ago. 3 each side. That was on the outer labia though, didnt ever really come into contact with the button either. My man really liked it though. Said I was ribbed for HIS pleasure. Lol. But yeah, I actually have a very healthy sex life and am not bored at all. But I did try that weird warming stuff from the sex store and even new batteries in my vibe. Maybe I should arrange for a friend to come over and try helping? I may just need some attention from someone other than myself and Im on a temporary trip back home to see family and away from my boyfriend. I could possibly be bored. Or just missing him. Who knows. Im on a mission though...and I will make myself cum. I figure if you cant do that anymore, theres no point in living. Lol!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rian Winters View Post
    Hours and hours of direct clitoral contact...everything.
    Well, I know that for myself after that much stimulation I need at least 3 days of little to no contact on the button in order to 'recover' otherwise it hurts for some reason, maybe your overdoing it and should give yourself a break

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    The thing is, usually I am too. After I cum I get super sensitive and cant even go anywhere near the nonnie for about a day or two. But since I cant get off, Im not even feeling sensitive. in fact, I barely feel a thing. Its as if the entire area has gone completely numb. My vagina is totally broken.

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    When you say the same medications are any of them antidepressants.

    Anytime I ever took them this happened to me. I didn't even realize what it was that caused until years later when i tried them again.

    Just a suggestion, i don't even know if this applies to you.

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    No, I just take Tri-Cyclen low and daily vitamins. I dont think its that, cause Ive been on the same birth control for almost 6 years now.

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    Oddly enough I'm searching around for other stuff and I found an old thread by Dottie about birth control and sexual function.

    She started the thread and its about diaphragms if you want to find it but the link she gave doesn't work.

    Apparently the gist is that long term (which I think they count as five years) bc use decreases sexual function. I would believe it, that shit scares me.

    I hope yours isn't related, but I thought of your situation when I saw it.

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    sooo...i wonder how much it would cost to get tubes tied? can it be undone when ready for kids? ive been considering doing this.. wouldnt have to deal with all the hormonal factors of BC OR worry about getting pregnant

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    Quote Originally Posted by Meleania View Post
    sooo...i wonder how much it would cost to get tubes tied? can it be undone when ready for kids? ive been considering doing this.. wouldnt have to deal with all the hormonal factors of BC OR worry about getting pregnant

    I dont think you should do that if one day you think you want kids, just encase. But each to their own, I know on men they can un-do it...well I saw it on scrubs lol but still I wouldnt want to mess about with that sorta thing.

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    rian, i have this problem too. often times it's caused by stress, or not being able to focus. like i'll be totally distracted while i'm having sex. thinking about work and money and stuff.

    i find that playing music (without vocals, though) helps get my mind and body in synch. the sound gives you something to think about, but not enough to distract you. helps me at least.
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    If you are on meds, definately go see your doctor. Sometimes meds are fine in the short term but cause damage over the long term. You may also consider your age. If you are near 30 or older, you could be experiencing early onset of menopause. With all the hormonal garbage in our food supply these days, it is becoming a lot more common for younger women to experience earlier menstration and menopause than ever before.

    Just like if you suddenly couldn't taste or smell, you'd go see a doctor, you should get medical advice on lack of sexual sensation, too.


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    I went to the Dr, probably a week ago now, and she couldnt seem to find any problems with me. She also told me it may be stress and that my birth control shouldnt be causing sexual problems. But the thing is, Im still having this issue and Im wondering if its time to get a second opinion from another Dr. I dont know, its just very very frustrating. I dont really feel stressed. In fact, I recall times of alot more stress in my life, and still never had issues like this. I actually would LOVE to get my tubes tied, I dont ever plan on having children, but I was told I wasnt legally allowed to do that until I was 25. I dont want to just stop taking the pill...that cant be a good idea...but there has to be something that can be done about this.

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    you can't reverse having your tubes tied.

    I don't take the pill anymore after having the same problem as you. the boy and I use condoms now, and things are much better.

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    I hope you get "unbroken" soon

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