Short question: Can a customer be a regular of more than one girl in the same club?
Long situation: I've been a regular of one girl at a club for a few years now. Nothing OTC aside from her having my number and texting me every now and again (and I wasn't looking for anything OTC). I'd probably see her on average maybe once month or so when I happened to be there on the same night as her and we'd chat for awhile, lapdance for awhile, chat for awhile after, and I'd leave happy. She always remembered what we had talked about last and what was going on with me, she'd tell me about what was going on in her life, and if she was there I would basically spend my time and budget on her for the evening.
Then she moved away and was gone for about 6 months. During that time I struck up much of the same "regular customer" relationship with another girl that worked there. Again, no OTC or extras or anything like that, although she also got my phone # and would shoot me the occasional text. Like the first girl, we had some nice conversations about what was going on with her and I'd come in, we'd chat for awhile and have some private dances and I'd spend my whole evening in the club with her.
Then the first dancer moved back, things didn't work out where she had moved to. Now, if I end up at the club and both of them are there, it's kind of awkward. They both seem to be kind of territorial toward me and each has made snippy comments about the other one to me in private.
The whole thing is kind of weird. I think they are both very cool people and have a good time chatting with both them and getting dances from both of them. There's no relationship with either beyond being a good regular customer that they feel comfortable enough to talk to, but if they are both there I get the feeling that I am hurting one girl's feelings a little if I spend time with one and not the other (and I don't always have the time or budget to hang out with both of them on the same night). It ends up in that odd place where it's not like either one is my girlfriend, and I shouldn't be feeling guilty, but they both have some sort of connection to me and possessive behavior toward me and so it ends up feeling uncomfortable.
Ideally I'd like to still be able to hang out with either of them just depending on whichever one sees me first or something, but I don't like the idea that I'm causing friction between them or upsetting anyone.
So, for you dancers, any tips on how to handle this? Do you have regulars that are also regulars of other girls, and is that okay? Is this the sort of thing you hash out between yourselves in the dressing room? Do I need to say something to them about it? I haven't discussed it beyond "oh yeah, she's another friend of mine" and left it at that.



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