I work at a popular very crowded topless club and need the guys to weigh in on what I am doing wrong.
The problem: guys like me more before I talk to them, after a conversation its like I lose that "mystique" that my looks have primed them for. I grew up tall and AWKWARD so I guess I developed a girl next door personality that has stuck with me in my adult years. I have been told that I look like a trophy wife but when I talk I am very girl next doorish/mousy. I come off as super nice and sometimes I even bore myself. I talk too long before asking for a dance and even though I have been at this for five years I am still painfully shy on the approach; each and every approach! The reason this is especially bad in my club is that its a club where you must approach many people and do so quickly; I can't even justify "wanna dancing" guys because I feel as though I must first make them like me---think first date conversation at a strip club. It's like I don't have that Bitch factor that subconsciously tells guys that I'm worth it and don't waste my time.
Most nights I walk out with 200 hundred or less when the oppurtunity was there to make 5 or 600. Keep in mind that my club runs at least 300 girls a night; no one else works like I do; they are using one or two lines and sometimes sitting on their lap for a song if they seem like they will go in the Vip room.



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