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    Hey ladies,

    Some of you may know that I have been working for a private party company while I danced for the past few months. This past Friday night, myself and two other dancers had a very bad experience when attempting to leave a bunk show and we were all assaulted. Due to this, I am obviously going to stop working for a private company because of how unsafe it is to do so.

    My friends and family (understandably) do not want me to dance anymore but the truth is that there is no way I can continue to go to school full time and receive good grades while making enough money to support myself and put myself through school without dancing! I've tried the numbers a million different ways on paper and it's just not going to happen. I enjoy being financially independent and I take pride in the fact that I am paying for all of my own college education at this point. SO - I need to figure out what to do.

    There are many private companies here (central valley, CA) and two small SC's here in town. I do not want to work at either of those for various reasons. The next 2 closest SC's are Cheetah's in Visalia (I believe) and Deja Vu in Bakersfield (about 2 hr. drive from me). I am willing to travel but wanted to put this out there for any advice any of you ladies may have.

    Would it be more lucrative to pay airfare and try to dance elsewhere? With the economy, it just makes me nervous that I wouldn't make back my travel costs I am willing to entertain any ideas that you ladies may have and I am not limiting working in California alone. If there are any clubs out of state that may work in your opinion I'd like to hear about it. Also, if you wouldn't mind including whether any clubs you mention work on a set schedule or are more freelance that would be really helpful.

    Thanks so much girls in advance for any help you may have. I need to make a decision soon because rent is almost due and I just went broke last week paying for uber expensive textbooks!

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    I am, however, very concerned about hair syphillis. I can't seem to find any information about this horrible disease caused by high heels. Somebody please, help me out here before I catch it.

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    Default Re: NEED ADVCICE please re: clubs

    I dont think I entirely understand the question. Do you want to quit party dancing and work at clubs out of town?
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    Default Re: NEED ADVCICE please re: clubs

    if your family already knows that you dance at private parties, why not dance in your own town? it's certainly safer.

    also, did you take the legal steps to press charges against those who assaulted you? even if you don't know everybody's name, you should at least have the full name of the person that hired you, right? sue them for damages.
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    You can look into cheap flights with Virgin America (I heart them) and Southwest (longtime rapid rewards member) and fly to big cities over a long weekend. Maybe for your future semesters you can schedule your classes M-W or M-Thurs and use the weekends to travel out of town.

    A few cities I can think of off-the-bat include Phoenix, Vegas, Reno which are flights 2 hrs or less from LAX/Burbank airport and have clubs with flexible scheduling.
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    You could also try to connect with a larger private dance company in the greater Los Angeles area that will be flexible with your hours and availability.
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    hi ladies,

    Thanks so much for the replies.

    Sorry if I wasn't clear in my initial post. Yes I want to quit private party dancing and find a club to dance at instead because I think it will be much safer. I am pursuing charges against the men involved as well.

    The reason I wanting to dance out of town is that none of my friends (male especially) know that I dance and they frequent those 2 clubs in town. Also, I know girls who work at both and they are not clubs set up with the dancer in mind. The girls don't make much money, the management is sexist and the clubs are dirty.

    Thank you to london for the great suggestions, especially regarding scheduling classes.

    I know that markets like Vegas are flooded with girls right now, but to be honest I do not need to make astronomical amounts of money to be satisfied. I live modestly (rent a room in a house, drive a used car with no car payments, etc.) so even if I didn't come home with a lot of money, it would still very likely be much more than I would have made at a min. wage job.

    I'm not clear on how I would go about being a traveling dancer - should I let management know up front that I would be flying in to work weekends? Would they dislike that?
    Originally Posted by MarvelGirl
    I am, however, very concerned about hair syphillis. I can't seem to find any information about this horrible disease caused by high heels. Somebody please, help me out here before I catch it.

    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

    What you think about and thank about, you bring about. xox Lexi

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    Quote Originally Posted by lexi2008 View Post
    hi ladies,

    Thanks so much for the replies.

    Sorry if I wasn't clear in my initial post. Yes I want to quit private party dancing and find a club to dance at instead because I think it will be much safer. I am pursuing charges against the men involved as well.

    The reason I wanting to dance out of town is that none of my friends (male especially) know that I dance and they frequent those 2 clubs in town. Also, I know girls who work at both and they are not clubs set up with the dancer in mind. The girls don't make much money, the management is sexist and the clubs are dirty.

    Thank you to london for the great suggestions, especially regarding scheduling classes.

    I know that markets like Vegas are flooded with girls right now, but to be honest I do not need to make astronomical amounts of money to be satisfied. I live modestly (rent a room in a house, drive a used car with no car payments, etc.) so even if I didn't come home with a lot of money, it would still very likely be much more than I would have made at a min. wage job.

    I'm not clear on how I would go about being a traveling dancer - should I let management know up front that I would be flying in to work weekends? Would they dislike that?

    I have a friend from your area and she dances out here in Vegas.

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    Quote Originally Posted by london View Post
    You can look into cheap flights with Virgin America (I heart them) and Southwest (longtime rapid rewards member) and fly to big cities over a long weekend. Maybe for your future semesters you can schedule your classes M-W or M-Thurs and use the weekends to travel out of town.

    A few cities I can think of off-the-bat include Phoenix, Vegas, Reno which are flights 2 hrs or less from LAX/Burbank airport and have clubs with flexible scheduling.
    Yeah ummm, to be completely honest, Vegas blows right now. Even Rhino and Sapphire girls are coming to my independent (ish) club to work now. It is getting scary. MANY clubs are closing.

    To the OP: If you can make $300+ where you are, STAY. It is NOT worh it to travel at the moment. I was going to go to NYC or Denver, but I dont want to take food out of the locals girls' mouths.

    All we can do is sit tight.

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    Thanks for the replies, ladies. I'm going to just sit tight right now and not risk traveling for work. I will have to move in a year or so for school anyways, so at that point I will make a more definitive decision about what cities/clubs to veer towards.

    Thanks again!
    Originally Posted by MarvelGirl
    I am, however, very concerned about hair syphillis. I can't seem to find any information about this horrible disease caused by high heels. Somebody please, help me out here before I catch it.

    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

    What you think about and thank about, you bring about. xox Lexi

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    I was going to go to NYC or Denver, but I dont want to take food out of the locals girls' mouths.
    Oh, you wouldn't be taking food from the Denver girls... there's hardly anything to be made here! A lot of girls are actually quitting from lack of money.
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