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    Default I'm opening up potential invites to our very Private Party...

    ... this is an experiment I am doing only because I've been a member here for awhile and I want to do something for the select portion of this community that fits our guest qualifications and might be interested in attending.

    We have been doing upscale private parties in NYC for a few years now. These large affairs happen only a few times a year. While they are 'under ground' they are not 'down low'. There is nothing in the NYC area like these parties.

    The majority of female guests, and everyone at this party is an invited guest [all guests are vetted and must pass muster before being give info as to where, when, how, etc], are mostly dancers in mid to high end clubs in and around NYC. Other female guests might be, but not limited to, independent providers; escorts of some of the higher end agencies in the NYC-NJ area; Special guest invitees like porn starlets and other sex industry entertainers. Not all parties have special guest invitees attending as their appearances are subject to availability and scheduling commitments.

    There is an entry fee. It is reasonable [usually between $40-$60 depending on venue]. There is a secure coat check [all must check their coats at the door]. There is a cash bar. Meet and greet areas. Lap dance areas. Semi and full private VIPs.

    The difference between our private parties and the clubs these dancers normally work in is that in our VIPs the dancers are free to set their own limits. The management does not get involved in the goings on between consenting adults in the VIPs. Nor do we take a cut from anything paid any dancer. We are TOTALLY uninvolved in such matters UNLESS someone complains of being treated improperly. Then we investigate and someone gets, at the very least, sent home for the remainder of that party [no refunds will be made if that occurs, but it never has occurred... our parties have always been orderly, well managed, affairs].

    All the female guests at our parties are to be respected, as well as their individuals limits. If a male guest can not come to terms with a female guest as to what they both want than he should seek out someone who might feel differently. If no one feels differently maybe he ought rethink the nature of his requests as they are probably unreasonable.

    Respond via PM for more info ONLY if you are someone in the NYC area who is interested in attending AND:

    1) Understand all of the posted requirements and can agree to them with absolutely no qualms of any sort.

    2) Will meet our dress code [absolutely NO thug wear, track suits, sweat-pants, gang colors of any sort]. The code is business casual [dress pants or dressy jeans, collared shirts or sweaters] all the way to dress to impress.

    3) Agree to submit to the following: All guests are subject to search at entry and at any time the management feels there is specific need to do so. [the 'any time' portion has never come up as there has been no need to date, but its there so be aware]

    4) Absolutely NO DRUGS OF ANY KIND are allowed on premises. There is a ZERO TOLERANCE policy in regard to this. If you bring drugs in and you are caught you will be ejected with no refunds given and removed from our list for future parties.

    5) Can be verified as to the nature of your status within our community. In other words, I can satisfy myself that you are the legit consumer of the type of product we provide and you claim to be, and are absolutely no threat to the party itself and its guests. I am the final arbitrator of that and it will be no personal reflection on you but please forgive me, as it is nothing personal, if you can not provide me with sufficient information to allow me to substantiate that you are the type of person who can be trusted at a high end private party.

    I will take as a referral that you meet our standards [middle/upper class and up income and manners; knows how to treat a Lady like a Lady; has and can use common sense to apply appropriate behavior within environments such as a private, upscale, event; is NOT any individual who might desire to do damage to our party, its management or employees, or cause our guests any manner of discomfort]:

    1) A call or e-mail verification by a dancer known to me that you meet our criteria.

    2) A call or e-mail verification sent directly to me on an account I can verify by an escort agency or independent provider known to me.

    3) Work documentation that states you work within the industry [special attention to industry VIPs - particularly other party promoters].

    I understand only a very few will be able to provide what I have requested. Again, I am sorry but that is the very least acceptable to assure me we aren't letting anyone into the event who might be a threat to it. I assure you it is nothing personal if I have to say, "Sorry, not this time."

    Contact me via PM ONLY if you can meet the above, are definitely interested in attending, and want additional info as to how to get verified.

    In a community such as this I am sure there are people present who have been to our parties before.

    Since you are all anonymous behind your screen names I have no idea who those people might be other than Eric Stoner, whose screen name is known to me and I know has been at our parties in the past.

    If, and only if, he is of a mind to he might come forward here and state what he has thought of our previous affairs.

    I will state for the record that this party will be at one of our established venues, but its theme is going to be experimental. We are going to try something a bit new and different and we trust it is going to be very entertaining, although maybe a bit provocative.

    I am NOT free to discuss precise details on that at this time because we are still putting things together. The date is set but it is NOT going to happen in the next couple of weeks so everyone has time to make plans and get verified IF they are of a mind to attend and can provide what is needed.

    I wish you all well...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Golden_Rule View Post
    ... this is an experiment I am doing only because I've been a member here for awhile and I want to do something for the select portion of this community that fits our guest qualifications and might be interested in attending.

    We have been doing upscale private parties in NYC for a few years now. These large affairs happen only a few times a year. While they are 'under ground' they are not 'down low'. There is nothing in the NYC area like these parties.

    The majority of female guests, and everyone at this party is an invited guest [all guests are vetted and must pass muster before being give info as to where, when, how, etc], are mostly dancers in mid to high end clubs in and around NYC. Other female guests might be, but not limited to, independent providers; escorts of some of the higher end agencies in the NYC-NJ area; Special guest invitees like porn starlets and other sex industry entertainers. Not all parties have special guest invitees attending as their appearances are subject to availability and scheduling commitments.

    There is an entry fee. It is reasonable [usually between $40-$60 depending on venue]. There is a secure coat check [all must check their coats at the door]. There is a cash bar. Meet and greet areas. Lap dance areas. Semi and full private VIPs.

    The difference between our private parties and the clubs these dancers normally work in is that in our VIPs the dancers are free to set their own limits. The management does not get involved in the goings on between consenting adults in the VIPs. Nor do we take a cut from anything paid any dancer. We are TOTALLY uninvolved in such matters UNLESS someone complains of being treated improperly. Then we investigate and someone gets, at the very least, sent home for the remainder of that party [no refunds will be made if that occurs, but it never has occurred... our parties have always been orderly, well managed, affairs].

    All the female guests at our parties are to be respected, as well as their individuals limits. If a male guest can not come to terms with a female guest as to what they both want than he should seek out someone who might feel differently. If no one feels differently maybe he ought rethink the nature of his requests as they are probably unreasonable.

    Respond via PM for more info ONLY if you are someone in the NYC area who is interested in attending AND:

    1) Understand all of the posted requirements and can agree to them with absolutely no qualms of any sort.

    2) Will meet our dress code [absolutely NO thug wear, track suits, sweat-pants, gang colors of any sort]. The code is business casual [dress pants or dressy jeans, collared shirts or sweaters] all the way to dress to impress.

    3) Agree to submit to the following: All guests are subject to search at entry and at any time the management feels there is specific need to do so. [the 'any time' portion has never come up as there has been no need to date, but its there so be aware]

    4) Absolutely NO DRUGS OF ANY KIND are allowed on premises. There is a ZERO TOLERANCE policy in regard to this. If you bring drugs in and you are caught you will be ejected with no refunds given and removed from our list for future parties.

    5) Can be verified as to the nature of your status within our community. In other words, I can satisfy myself that you are the legit consumer of the type of product we provide and you claim to be, and are absolutely no threat to the party itself and its guests. I am the final arbitrator of that and it will be no personal reflection on you but please forgive me, as it is nothing personal, if you can not provide me with sufficient information to allow me to substantiate that you are the type of person who can be trusted at a high end private party.

    I will take as a referral that you meet our standards [middle/upper class and up income and manners; knows how to treat a Lady like a Lady; has and can use common sense to apply appropriate behavior within environments such as a private, upscale, event; is NOT any individual who might desire to do damage to our party, its management or employees, or cause our guests any manner of discomfort]:

    1) A call or e-mail verification by a dancer known to me that you meet our criteria.

    2) A call or e-mail verification sent directly to me on an account I can verify by an escort agency or independent provider known to me.

    3) Work documentation that states you work within the industry [special attention to industry VIPs - particularly other party promoters].

    I understand only a very few will be able to provide what I have requested. Again, I am sorry but that is the very least acceptable to assure me we aren't letting anyone into the event who might be a threat to it. I assure you it is nothing personal if I have to say, "Sorry, not this time."

    Contact me via PM ONLY if you can meet the above, are definitely interested in attending, and want additional info as to how to get verified.

    In a community such as this I am sure there are people present who have been to our parties before.

    Since you are all anonymous behind your screen names I have no idea who those people might be other than Eric Stoner, whose screen name is known to me and I know has been at our parties in the past.

    If, and only if, he is of a mind to he might come forward here and state what he has thought of our previous affairs.

    I will state for the record that this party will be at one of our established venues, but its theme is going to be experimental. We are going to try something a bit new and different and we trust it is going to be very entertaining, although maybe a bit provocative.

    I am NOT free to discuss precise details on that at this time because we are still putting things together. The date is set but it is NOT going to happen in the next couple of weeks so everyone has time to make plans and get verified IF they are of a mind to attend and can provide what is needed.

    I wish you all well...
    G.R. 's word is GOLD. The parties I've been to were a LOT of fun and problem free. Gee, I wonder if that had anything to do with the screening of the guests ?

    The ladies who work these parties are on a par with those who work at Hustler and PEC. Some just do laps and VIPS with contact. Others are a little friskier and adventurous. Many walk out with amounts equivalent to at least two night's earnings from their usual club for just a few hours work. That's no B.S. There is just a modest tip-in, usually around $40- $60 depending on the venue and then it ALL goes into the dancer's purse - no splits, no commissions , nobody to tip and nobody to "take care of " .

    A number of S-webbers have worked these parties with excellent results. ALL have asked to be kept in the loop for future events.

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    Will the former Governor be there? Or does he no longer meet your criteria?

    What would be the risks given the "private" club that was busted last year?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smokeless View Post
    Will the former Governor be there? Or does he no longer meet your criteria?

    What would be the risks given the "private" club that was busted last year?
    Ask his wife. she's had him on a VERY short leash.

    In contrast to Lou & his HotLap Dance club, the parties G.R. posted about carefully SCREEN everybody. More importantly, there is no advertising of the event. Even the date is NOT publicly posted , just the general window when it will take place. Most importantly the location only goes out to CONFIRMED and VERIFIED guests the morning of the event.

    There have NEVER been any problems with these parties.

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    This is not advertising?

    Nonetheless, it certainly sounds like a great opportunity, but unfortunately I'll probably be at least 2000 miles away from NYC anytime soon.

    Have fun.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smokeless View Post
    This is not advertising?

    Nonetheless, it certainly sounds like a great opportunity, but unfortunately I'll probably be at least 2000 miles away from NYC anytime soon.

    Have fun.
    I'm talking about idiots who publicly post the date, time and location. Or the nit-wits who put everything on a Yahoo Group anyone can belong to, or ( my favorite) the dummies who hand out flyers and put up posters with all the pertinent info.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smokeless View Post
    This is not advertising?
    Actually, technically no.

    We approach this as "community". These parties started out as get togethers for a well established group of gentlemen and the Ladies who entertained them in the NYC area. It has been continued to be treated as such as it expanded, so we make sure we know whose who before they join us. Same as any community, or club, would want to know who it is they are inviting to join them before they allow them full access.

    This was, as I stated above, about opening that community a little because someone very strongly attached to the parties [that would be me] is a member of this community.

    Have fun.
    Thanks. We plan to.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Eric Stoner View Post
    G.R. 's word is GOLD. The parties I've been to were a LOT of fun and problem free. Gee, I wonder if that had anything to do with the screening of the guests ?

    I'd hope it had something to do with our screening. Thanks for the kind words.

    The ladies who work these parties are on a par with those who work at Hustler and PEC. Some just do laps and VIPS with contact. Others are a little friskier and adventurous. Many walk out with amounts equivalent to at least two night's earnings from their usual club for just a few hours work. That's no B.S. There is just a modest tip-in, usually around $40- $60 depending on the venue and then it ALL goes into the dancer's purse - no splits, no commissions , nobody to tip and nobody to "take care of " .
    Well, many of the dancers are. All are attractive and would have no problem finding work at any mid-level or higher establishment. [like Lace, Tens, Flash Dancers, etc, all the way up to PEC and Hustler]

    As to the friskiness level of any dancer specifically you'd know more about that as I never go into the VIPs unless there is a problem and that almost never happens [and the couple of times it has it has been resolved very quickly with with little effort on my part due to the high caliber of our guests].

    Again, to those concerned, the dancers set their own limits and we have nothing to do with that. Only those gentleman and dancers who are OK with letting people be as they choose to be, what ever that is, should consider attending.

    A number of S-webbers have worked these parties with excellent results. ALL have asked to be kept in the loop for future events.
    And again you'd know more about that. While in a community of this sort I have to assume there are members, both male and female, who have been to our parties the only one I know directly about is you. I only know that because you told me your screen name on SW at some point when the topic of SW came up at some point in one of our conversations. I forget how that came to occur though?
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Golden_Rule View Post
    Well, many of the dancers are. All are attractive and would have no problem finding work at any mid-level or higher establishment. [like Lace, Tens, Flash Dancers, etc, all the way up to PEC and Hustler]

    As to the friskiness level of any dancer specifically you'd know more about that as I never go into the VIPs unless there is a problem and that almost never happens [and the couple of times it has it has been resolved very quickly with with little effort on my part due to the high caliber of our guests].

    Again, to those concerned, the dancers set their own limits and we have nothing to do with that. Only those gentleman and dancers who are OK with letting people be as they choose to be, what ever that is, should consider attending.



    And again you'd know more about that. While in a community of this sort I have to assume there are members, both male and female, who have been to our parties the only one I know directly about is you. I only know that because you told me your screen name on SW at some point when the topic of SW came up at some point in one of our conversations. I forget how that came to occur though?
    Even though a few have posted about their positive esperiences at these parties, I'm not going to mention any names. But there have been a number of S-webber ladies at these parties. They usually dance at the better clubs in the Tri-State area. All reported to me that they did very well and had no problems that they couldn't easily handle themselves.

    Another positive is that the ladies get to check things out BEFORE deciding whether or not to work the party i.e. they get to observe the scene FIRST and then decide whether it fits their comfort level. EVERY one decided the water was fine and dove in and was glad she did.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Golden_Rule View Post

    2) Will meet our dress code [absolutely NO ....... sweat-pants,..........
    So much for "sweat pants boner man".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    So much for "sweat pants boner man".



    It is a high end party with a high end dress code.
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    Another GREAT party in the books thanks in large part to you "G.R." and in even larger part to our mutual friend who did a GREAT job putting everything together.

    As usual we had a few S-webbers in attendance and as usual they all did very well without leaving their own "comfort zone". We also had a couple S-web alums who just hung out and networked and all reported having a good and worthwhile time.

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    Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaawnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn... ...........

    OK, so, bandwidth being as expensive as it is and all, you guys are done giving each other a public mutual hand job for now...right?
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaawnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn... ...........

    OK, so, bandwidth being as expensive as it is and all, you guys are done giving each other a public mutual hand job for now...right?
    Guys do this yoda takes a shot...

    Girls do this yoda kisses ass...

    Well I suppose it's good the ass kissing doesn't take all your energy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jester214 View Post
    Guys do this yoda takes a shot...

    Girls do this yoda kisses ass...

    Well I suppose it's good the ass kissing doesn't take all your energy.
    You seem to take some sort of great pleasure in pointing out something that I have never denied. Do you have anything new to bring to the table or just the same tired old shit?

    Ass kissing doesn't take any energy at all. I save that for the sex...
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaawnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn... ...........
    Jealous.

    OK, so, bandwidth being as expensive as it is and all, you guys are done giving each other a public mutual hand job for now...right?
    Nope.

    It was great meeting you Sophia... and remeeting "The Lady in Red", now that I know who she is here on SW [and others not named].

    I always thought we had a contingent here. It just made sense, but now that I can put some screen names to faces it is nicer popping in here.

    Wishing well to all SW'ers who attended, whether I got a chance to meet you or not.

    Yoda, I'll make a special effort to let you know when the next one is so you can get down here from RI and join us.
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    Im still trying to figure out if Yoda is supporting this idea or if he is bashing you guys? Lol

    This sounds like a pretty cool idea.
    How do you decide which dancers you will use?
    I have never worked at a party like this but it looks like your approach is very realistic and intelligent. Two elements that most strip clubs nowadays are lacking (heavily). How often are they done?

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    Im still trying to figure out if Yoda is supporting this idea or if he is bashing you guys? Lol

    This sounds like a pretty cool idea.
    How do you decide which dancers you will use?
    I have never worked at a party like this but it looks like your approach is very realistic and intelligent. Two elements that most strip clubs nowadays are lacking (heavily). How often are they done?
    Not often enough afaic but considering that you can't just do it anywhere and it takes a lot of time,effort and energy to put the whole thing together; they happen on this scale about twice a year.

    The dancers select themselves so long as they are over 21 , can maintain security and are secure enough to handle themselves.

    This time a wristband system was used and everyone got an Instruction Sheet.
    RED = I am not "working" and anyone who wore red did not pay anything. However more than one liked the scene , paid her tip-in, switched to yellow or green and got to "work".
    YELLOW = I just do lap-dances.
    GREEN = I do VIP's
    PURPLE = Let me put it this way . More than one guy who didn't bother reading the sheet (FIRST) got a BIG surprise.

    The attendance was very heavy and this one was going strong a LOT later than usual. From speaking to my dancer friends, they averaged about $800 for 4 to 5 hours work WITHOUT any VIP's or extras. The "extras" girls did NOT really do any better. It's an irony that sometimes the "cleanest" girls are the most popular.
    "The Lady in Red" had a waiting line ( as usual) for lap-dances that was always at least 3 guys long.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eric Stoner View Post
    Not often enough afaic but considering that you can't just do it anywhere and it takes a lot of time,effort and energy to put the whole thing together; they happen on this scale about twice a year.

    The dancers select themselves so long as they are over 21 , can maintain security and are secure enough to handle themselves.

    .
    Eric is a guest but kicks in with elbow grease when needed and a list of people he has confirmed face to face because we trust him to know who is and isn't who they claim to be [yeah, he's been around that long ].

    He used the term "tip in" and I want to correct that. It isn't actually a tip in. Up until now, and we presume it will remain that way, everyone who comes to one of our parties is a guest and all guests pay the same entrance fee. No one should feel like they are working so... no tip ins. The Ladies wearing red wristbands are industry comps. They are not entertaining. Just there to party and mingle. Should they decide to entertain we do request them to pay a guest fee like everyone else. Anyone who is entertaining sets their own limits and we require those limits be respected in all ways. Toward that end there is a wristband system so that everyone has help finding like minded people.

    There are no further fees for the Ladies. We have nothing to do with anything that takes place between consenting adults in our VIPs. We take no commission on any fees the entertainers may charge. There is a moderate entrance fee for the VIP and there is a cash bar. Those are the only thing a guest might spend money on that we have anything to do with after the guest entrance fee.

    No splits. No additional "house fees". No commissions. Nada.

    We run these with the hope that all our guests have fun.

    Everyone who makes it to the invite list gets a sheet of instructions via email just before the event. The rules are common sense mostly. We desire everyone play fairly. We request that all drama and other forms of baggage be left at the door. We absolutely request that no drugs be brought onto the property [and you'll find none other than alcoholic beverages once inside].

    That's pretty much the straight skinny.

    Thanks. We are going to rest up now until next time.

    Eric, as always, thank you most kindly for pitching in the other night. It is appreciated.
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Golden_Rule View Post
    Eric is a guest but kicks in with elbow grease when needed and a list of people he has confirmed face to face because we trust him to know who is and isn't who they claim to be [yeah, he's been around that long ].

    He used the term "tip in" and I want to correct that. It isn't actually a tip in. Up until now, and we presume it will remain that way, everyone who comes to one of our parties is a guest and all guests pay the same entrance fee. No one should feel like they are working so... no tip ins. The Ladies wearing red wristbands are industry comps. They are not entertaining. Just there to party and mingle. Should they decide to entertain we do request them to pay a guest fee like everyone else. Anyone who is entertaining sets their own limits and we require those limits be respected in all ways. Toward that end there is a wristband system so that everyone has help finding like minded people.

    There are no further fees for the Ladies. We have nothing to do with anything that takes place between consenting adults in our VIPs. We take no commission on any fees the entertainers may charge. There is a moderate entrance fee for the VIP and there is a cash bar. Those are the only thing a guest might spend money on that we have anything to do with after the guest entrance fee.

    No splits. No additional "house fees". No commissions. Nada.

    We run these with the hope that all our guests have fun.

    Everyone who makes it to the invite list gets a sheet of instructions via email just before the event. The rules are common sense mostly. We desire everyone play fairly. We request that all drama and other forms of baggage be left at the door. We absolutely request that no drugs be brought onto the property [and you'll find none other than alcoholic beverages once inside].

    That's pretty much the straight skinny.

    Thanks. We are going to rest up now until next time.

    Eric, as always, thank you most kindly for pitching in the other night. It is appreciated.
    You are very welcome my good friend. It's my pleasure to help out in any way I can.

    Thank you for the factual corrective re:" tip in" vs. "guest fee". Since I wasn't working the door, or making change ,I obviously did not know about the change in procedure . I DO know that more than one "red" banded gal paid to switch to yellow or green. I can also vouch that there are NEVER any splits, commissions or tips and nobody to "take care of". The VERY modest VIP fee is paid up front by the gentleman ( or in a few cases, couple) and NOT the dancer.
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    I'm not in the list bit jealous.

    I have no problem with the idea of private parties, rock on.

    I don't really see the need for it to be here on this site...

    The cyber high fives between GR and ES are getting quite tiresome. If you guys are so tight then just have lunch together or something...

    Just my opinion folks, that's all, nothing else...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Eric Stoner View Post
    Not often enough afaic but considering that you can't just do it anywhere and it takes a lot of time,effort and energy to put the whole thing together; they happen on this scale about twice a year.
    When my hobbyist/SC friends and I put together these types of parties in LA, we'd often use a club that was closed especially for us during the day. Do you guys do the same, or use a series of hotel suites, or would you rather not say in a public forum?

    I miss our LA get togethers. Would love to go to one of yours, but the probability of ever heading to NY at the same time as one of your shindigs is very slight.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chili Palmer View Post
    When my hobbyist/SC friends and I put together these types of parties in LA, we'd often use a club that was closed especially for us during the day. Do you guys do the same, or use a series of hotel suites, or would you rather not say in a public forum?

    I miss our LA get togethers. Would love to go to one of yours, but the probability of ever heading to NY at the same time as one of your shindigs is very slight.

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    I have done them in clubs & restaurants. I've been to them in clubs, party lofts, hotels , banquet facilities etc. When out in your neck of the woods and in Miami- private homes. In fact the "pool parties" I've attended in Hollywood Hills were the BEST. Unfortunately, a combination of greed and the lousy economy have killed the Golden Goose according to my sources. When I started going, very infrequently btw, it was free for the ladies. They had Pets, Playmates; fitness & fugure models and B-list porn girls plus a lot of dancers.

    The last one I went to back in August; they had started charging the ladies and also started charging for the drinks and buffet which USED to be included in the $150 to $200 entrance fee along with "open " bar. The higher end ladies started complaining about too many girls working and having their prices undercut and stopped going. The high-rollers started bitching about the higher end ladies dropping out and they stopped going. The housing collapse certainly didn't help. I'm told they didn't have any after August except for a X-mas Party and haven't had any since. No one wants to lay out the money and when you add up the booze bill; food; party supplies; SECURITY etc. plus a site rental; you're talking at least $10,000. Usually more depending on the venue. Too bad and too sad but I'm told the "Circuit" will eventually revive.

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    I'm not in the list bit jealous.

    I have no problem with the idea of private parties, rock on.

    I don't really see the need for it to be here on this site...

    The cyber high fives between GR and ES are getting quite tiresome. If you guys are so tight then just have lunch together or something...

    Just my opinion folks, that's all, nothing else...
    We've dined together. Does that count ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    I'm not in the list bit jealous.
    I didn't really thing you were, and I'd presume you know that if I really did I'd be polite enough not to say so.

    I have no problem with the idea of private parties, rock on.
    I'd hope, since you are a known quantity to me and I know you can be trusted, you'll join us next time if you are down in this area or can get here during the time of the next bash.

    I don't really see the need for it to be here on this site...
    If not there then were. If I hadn't Sophia and a couple of others wouldn't have found the work they did. It was the posting here that made them aware of it.

    If not here than I wouldn't have known that "The Lady in Red", already a poster here, had been to our parties and wouldn't have added that facet to our knowledge of each other. She was just someone who worked our parties. I never get to actually "know" folks who work them. We are all too busy running about. Now I know we have this cool gal working at the parties. Fun thing to know. [BTW, Sophia, truly cool gal as well]

    The cyber high fives between GR and ES are getting quite tiresome. If you guys are so tight then just have lunch together or something...

    Just my opinion folks, that's all, nothing else...
    We aren't really high fiving each other. Sorry if it seems that way. Just riding the natural high that happens when something that big, and therefore that risky, comes off well.

    Like you wouldn't be all high spirited if you made seven or eight straight passes at the craps table? Same-same.

    We took a bit of a gamble leaving a tried and true format to take on something bigger, laid out over 12K before we took in the first penny, two floors of a mid-town hotel just for starters, and it could have been a big bust. It wasn't. Happy times?
    Last edited by Golden_Rule; 03-02-2009 at 01:52 AM.
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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