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    Default Re: My new boyfriend is messing up my hustle! Help!

    You have to decide what YOU really want. If you would prefer to be with him then go for it! But if you are already struggling with this, I say it's a red flag.
    I was working hard and saving for my future when I met my last boyfriend. He did not like my dancing and I struggled with the decision between the job and him the entire relationship. I quit, got a real job and eventually moved in with him. Things were good and I still love him very much, but I constantly felt resentful of the fact that he did not love me for me and I gave up so much for him. He paid my bills but I felt kind of like a "kept woman". I'd rather make my own money, prepare for my future, and find a guy who can respect that and love me no matter what, or, I'll just be single.
    Men come and go, but being financially stable lasts forever! I say, focus on YOU and get your finances right for life! But I'm a sucker for love as well, and we know how it can complicate plans..

    It all depends on your plan- whether you have a money goal to get out of the business or if you want to be a life dancer, either way you have to decide which is more important, the guy or your job. Or try and balance the two. He has to understand you have to work. Discuss it and be upfront with him, if he doesn't compromise and work with you, that is not a good sign.

    As far as feeling guilty at work- I felt that way to before I quit. As long as you know you are not doing anything wrong, you should not feel quilty. Don't do anything to feel guilty about and it will be fine. This job is of course more personal than others, but that's just part of it.

    Good luck!!!!

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    Default Re: My new boyfriend is messing up my hustle! Help!

    Simple. Throw your phone in your locker and leave it there until the end of the night. If your man is being insecure about your dancing and that's why he is always talking you out of going to work, gather up all your bills, total them up and present them to him, saying "If you really don't want me to dance, here are my bills, you can find a way to pay them." That has worked for a LOT of girls I know.

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