Thanks Holly and others. Yeah, it seemed a bit low... Now there's a new spin. We talked today and she has our next evening planned out... she called from a guy's house who is "a very close friend" and the plan is for me to meet with her, him and a bartender I met last time out. The bartender is a nice ol'gal. Later in the evening we would meet wp with others... Drinks, clubbing, food, pool, party. It's about what I had in mind, but just with her, not a small and possibly growing crowd.
I'm not into hangin with groups of people I don't know, and if "very close friend" is her bf... wtf? I'm still in new territory here. I know I can cancel and I know I can say no to the tag-along friends. When I didn't sound too excited about the idea, she did say "you're the one getting me out of work, so whatever the hell you want." (Not said in an angry tone, but clearly she expected me to react all excited about her plan).
Part of me is saying go with her plan and go with the flow, it still could be fun. The other part is saying NOT.
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