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    Well , thats a little harsh. I guess I don't hate my job all the time. But it seems like here lately , I hate it a lot more then I used too. I guess I just need to vent.

    Stripping is hard enough , right? The money is shitty right now , which makes it worse. At least before when I had some asshole grope me , or all the drama at work got on my nerves , or my boss pissed me off , I could console myself with ''at least i'm being paid good to put up with this shit'' YKWIM?

    I still have a good night once in awhile..... but it seems like those are few and far apart.

    My boss pisses me off to know end. I work for a what is called a escorting agency , but they work a little different here then they do in most towns. You get a entertainment liscense , and do private party work. There is NO SEX , its pretty much pp work. You get a set fee to come over and get naked and dance , then you sell shows like toy shows.
    I started working there yrs ago after the clubs here went to shit. There is a LOT of extra's in this town , and with all the drama at the clubs , this was so much easier for me. I made more money too.

    Problem is... managment sucks. We have to work 10-14 hr shifts , 4 days a week , NO EXCEPTIONS. TO show you my point , there is a ice storm going on outside right now , there are wrecks everywhere , the police is asking everyone to stay off the roads , and yet I have to drive to where ever they send me if I get a appt. If I don't do it , i'm fined for my shift , which is $400 normally , but there is a convention in town , so that doubles to $800.

    I made a mistake on my books last week , and I owed her $115 more then I thought I did. She turned it around into I was trying to ''stiff her'' and lectured me for a hr on being trustworthy. Of course when she called me about it , i re-checked them , seen she was right , and went in right away to pay her. I DID NOT intentionally try to cheat her. I have been there for 6 yrs , and she never has a moments trouble out of me , and it really hurt my feelings that she acted that way.

    The other agency in town , provides more ''services'' then I am ok with , so working there isn't a option for me. And talking to a few friends I have in the clubs , there feeling lucky when they walk out with a $100 , so that doesn't look good either.

    I hate feeling like i'm stuck. I hate working there , but don't have anywhere else to go. I am the primary breadwinner in our family , hubby works part time and goes to school full time , and we have 2 kids , and so much debt i'm ashamed of it. When the money went down , we kept on living like before , always thinking it would go back up , but it didn't.
    The economy here sucks , lots of people getting laid off. I have a friend who has been looking for a job [ waitrass , factory , anything] for 2 months and has not found one , so i'm terrifed to quit , and I know were going into convention season anyway , so things should pick up a little soon.
    I guess I just hate being forced to deal with her[my boss] BS. There is so many girls that work there and don't do what there supposed to.. like show up late , give out there home phone numbers , offer extras , miss days and take the fines... and here I am doing what i'm supposed to and it seems like I am always the one getting bitched at.

    ok , rant over. Thanks for listening.

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    Look for any work anywhere right now but don't quit until you find one. Trust me its rough everywhere you go. It took me since october to get the job I have now. I just started it two weeks ago.





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    I sat here awake all fucking night and once again , didn't get a single appt.
    Another 10 hrs working and didn't make crap.
    I'm drunk , and I hate life right now. I hate everything , this stupid house I can'y afford , that stupid car i'm upside down on , and most of all , i gate my job. I really hate that stupid c**t that runs the place. I have to do something. I will probably hate myself in the morning , but I don't care right now. This freaking stinks.
    I hate how everyone holds m,e to this high standard , like I'm sopposed to be prefect or something. I don't even come close to be being perfect , but everyone seems to expect it.

    I feel like i am always leeting everyone down. no one excepts anything from the girl who comes to work drunk everynight , but me...... I better do everything right of there so dissapointed in me.
    i'm so stupid I have boatloads of debt , even though I know beytter , and yet , my family thinks i'm rolling in money since I have that nice house i can't afford , and drive those nice cars. I tell them i'm broke , but they don't believe me.
    I turned into that stripper I always told everyone else not to. Sure , i made a lot of money over the yrs , but what did i do with it? I am so angry at myself , i just want to cry.
    Why do i care what they think anyway?
    ARRRGGGG...... I am just so pissed at the world right now.
    And even as I write this , I know there will be people on here who judge me , and that bothers me too. I shouldn't write what i really feel , it might look bad. Fuck it.
    I will deal with this and the rest of my miserable life in the morning , but for now , i'm gonna take another shot of wiskey , and try to drown my sarrows.
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    and my teeth are numb and i hate that.

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    Hon, please don't take this as an insult but go get yourself a copy of the Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey.

    My husband and I are using it right now, and we're not where we want to be yet, but it's a huge relief just knowing that we're on the right track.

    It does suck though, realizing that if we'd done this 5 years ago, we'd be golden right now, but hell, we all have to start somewhere, right? Don't beat yourself up too bad, most people have boatloads of debt, we're trained to think that's "normal".

    Good luck to you and hang in there, we all have those days.

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    Listen, don't berate yourself for your financial situation too much. Yes, you have gotten into some debt, but look at the wonderful, responsible choices you have made with your money:

    1. You have bought a house! even if it is more than you can afford, I bet that if you get rid of your nice cars, you could pay the mortgage comfortably. And that's a much wiser use of money than blowing it all at the mall.

    2. You are raising two kids! What investment can be better than your own children?

    3. You are putting your husband through school! It's incredibly generous of you to invest in your husband's education.

    Don't hate yourself and don't call yourself stupid--it sounds like you are anything but. And you have every reason to be frustrated and angry right now. Just don't take it out on yourself! It's because you're in a bad situation, not because you're a bad person.

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    I don't normally recommend taking out loans, but if you are hurting really bad financially, now might be the time. Have your hubby check to see how much he qualifies for with school loans, they can often help cover living expenses which could make a big difference to you and your family during the recession. Then look at ways to help cut down your living expenses: trade in the car for something less, if you have two cars consider getting rid of one, cut out things like cable, eating out, movies. We all know it bites, but you can get through this! Living with less bills will help you de-stress and you might be able to find other work. Also look online for work! There are plenty of places like E-lance, Etsy, Ebay, and forum posting where you can make extra money.
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    I feel a lot better today. I guess I was just freaking out last night. Life has been a little rough lately , but we will be ok. I just needed to get everything off my chest.

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    Glad to hear you are better. A lot of people have debt, and haven't used their $$ wisely. My hubby and I sure haven't. We have used way too much credit, have no savings, and I can't work and haven't worked since Oct, because I am preggo with twins and on bed rest. We also have 4 kids already from previous relationships, (I have 2 kids, he has twin girls) that we have to support all on our own. We have to use credit cards just for ordinary things like groceries/household crap. We had to use credit to get the kids Christmas presents, and to buy things for the babies. All his money goes to rent, bills, car payments, and debt. I kick myself for not saving money, and using all that credit so irresponsibly when we should have saved for emergencies. I know that when we I go back to work I will have to hustle and we have to stick to our budget and save.

    If the job is making you miserable, I would look for something else. You would still have to work there until you found something else that could pay you the wage you need to pay off your debt/bills. That is what sucks and I sympathize. However you do need to cut back on some things now if you are in debt.
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