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    I love SW and am a very respectful customer. I will be honest though, I'm a binge drinker. I either don't drink or I drink till I almost pass out (I'm working on drinking very rarely).

    I live in one of the stripping hot spots. Before I moved here I found a small dive-ish club I love. Became kind of a regular before I moved there. Even got to the point where if dancers ran into me at a bar or elsewhere they'd make their presence known and we'd hang out (one time I was so drunk I never would have recognized my dancer friend if she didn't scream my name run up to me and hug me with me asking "who am I hugging")

    Well I fucked it up. I acted a damn fool one night in October. I had gone to the club gotten dances from some of my favorites. I had been drinking and went to the adult bookstore at the front of the club and bought whip-its. For a while I was doing them in the bathroom and quickly leaving to get dances with that floaty feeling added. Well at the end on the night after the dancers had gone home I was in the front bullshitting around with the adult video clerk. I buy another whip-it and do it at the counter. (I know whip-its are kind of lame, it just seemed like fun when I was drunk that night, never have done them before or since).

    Next time I go to the club I find out I am banned for that.

    My twin brother sometimes goes the club (he is socially awkward and doesn't enjoy it or spend money nearly as much as I do). He talked to them about the incident and he and my favorite dancer worked it out with the manager that I could come to the club only if my favorite is working "because she knows how to keep me from doing silly things" according to the manager.

    Well I've seen my favorite randomly at a bar a couple months back and we'd love to recreate a fun two hours we had in VIP once.

    I just can't bring myself to go back to that club, it feels so awkward. I've tried other clubs and they are just lame. I every want to go back to my favorite club with my favorite dancer or just quit going to clubs. I want to spend my money on someone I actually think is very cool.

    I'm not to keen on the management anymore (I see where there coming from though). Would it be lame to give them an apology letter I wrote, promise not to drink before coming there (I'm more fun sober I think), and get a VIP with my favorite? I just want to put this all behind me and turn that club back into the fun times it used to be for me before I screwed it up.

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    btw I wanted to mention how wonderful my favorite is for being sweet to my brother. He doesn't buy dances from her (I dunno why she isn't his cup of tea). But knowing him and knowing me she will take time to sit with him for free and do nice things like recommend coffee shops to him (if the club is slow enough). I want to be able to go into the club partly just to tip her for that bit of awesomeness.

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    Go back to the club. It's been since October, you should be fine. Just don't drink anything harder than coffee, tip the staff generously.

    Don't write a letter now. It's been too long for it to matter.


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    No use crying over spilt milk and if they offer you another one, take it (just don't make it into a white russian).
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    why would they sell them if you weren't allowed to do them? that seems strange.

    i would go back, be extra courteous, behave yourself, spend on your lady, and just enjoy the evening.
    "If she wants to dance and drink all night, well there's no one that can stop her. She's going til the house lights come up or her stomach spills onto the floor. This night is gonna end when we're damn well ready for it to be over, worked all week long, and now the music is playing on our time. Yeah we do what we do to get by, and then we need a release!" - Against Me!, "Thrash Unreal"

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    The bouncer talked to me about it outside of the club. They own two clubs in rather rough parts of town, both have adult video stores in front. They say the official policy on whip-its are they are whip cream chargers, and they are to be bought and taken off property immediately, they let me do them in the bathroom cause they are cool with me, but once I did them out front that was a no go because if vice was in they could see me, and it would be a $200 minor drug fine for them. They had to dust the box off when I bought them, If I was them I'd ditch them from inventory, seems like more trouble/risk than its worth on the clubs part.

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    What's a whip-it?

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    Stop torturing yourself CDRO. You are no doubt feeling remorseful, but I'd be hard pressed to name anyone who has not overdone it and embarrassed himself or herself at least once. The club understands this,too. If they are okay with your returning, you should have no worries...just find other ways to have fun other than whippets and excess alcohol. Cheers! Harlow

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    I'll stop torturing myself , I just feel both welcome and unwelcome at the same time. They have given my brother shitty looks mistaking him for me (the twin thing). Its lame that I have to take a chance on my favorite being there or not, because if she's not there, I'm not welcome. We all know what happens when you call a club asking if a girl is working (they will always says yes to get you there). Thanks for making my dumb ass feel better

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    Quote Originally Posted by rlams2000 View Post
    What's a whip-it?
    nitrous oxide (laughing gas/the stuff at the dentist) pressure packed into an aluminum cylinder. you put them into a canister that punctures them, and fills it with gas, and you can either then

    A. use it to make whipped cream

    or

    B. inhale it and enjoy the whole world going wiggly for a couple minutes.
    "If she wants to dance and drink all night, well there's no one that can stop her. She's going til the house lights come up or her stomach spills onto the floor. This night is gonna end when we're damn well ready for it to be over, worked all week long, and now the music is playing on our time. Yeah we do what we do to get by, and then we need a release!" - Against Me!, "Thrash Unreal"

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    I guess I'm just a total square, but I had no idea wtf a whip it was until I read this thread.

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    *belts huey lewis and the news* its hip to be square!

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    Default Re: Embarrassed to go to my favorite club

    So, did ya' go back or what?
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    Not back yet I'm still building the courage cause management is still weird about it according to my brother. I don't get it, I've spent around $2,000 there over 5 or 6 visits my brother is a cheapskate and has spent under $300 in 10 or so. I'd love to have an hour or two in VIP with my favorite, but I hate the idea of management I no longer like getting my money. I'm thinking of just buying a loong string of lap dances for the same amount of $ instead knowing management doesn't take a cut of those. I'd just have to pick a slow night not to be rude to my fave (I understand lots of laps takes more time than VIP and time is money).

    I just wish they would have done what I would have done if I was management, cut whip-its from the inventory (they are a way old school adult store so I understand why they have them). But I don't since the profit versus risk on them. Come on, they had to dust the box and it took 5 minutes for the clerk to find the balloons for them (and the were so old that they broke super easy) so its not like they are turning them over hand over foot.

    I hate what I did but I also don't like the way management handled it.

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    seriously, just go back and enjoy yourself. if you spend $2k every 5 visits, they probably miss you.

    and whatever you do, do NOT apologize to anyone or even bring up the topic. it's over. just go and spend your money and have a good time.

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    “I will be honest though, I'm a binge drinker. I either don't drink or I drink till I almost pass out (I'm working on drinking very rarely).”

    You are an alcoholic and you need to quit drinking. Go to rehab or AA.

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    I would just let it go. Best way for them to forget it is not have your brother talk about it to them. Its prolly difficult the first time you go back, but it will get easier. Clubs are used to people doing weird stuff. To them, its just another guy who did something. Don't lose sleep over it anymore, just go and have fun. As soon as you are with your dancer friend, you will start forgetting about it!




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