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    Okay sorry I just really need to get this out. Quick background my club is very very strict about rules and will hand out fines faster than you can imagine.

    Lately we have gotten a lot of new girls and the reason is so the club can get rid of girls who don't follow the rules. However the new girls they have hired are allowed to get away with whatever they want. For example we are supposed to be ready on the floor when are shift starts or its a 20 fine, our shift starts at four and we have at least 1-2 girls who will show up 5-6pm and take forever getting . ready - not fined. My club has a zero tolarence drug policy and if you are caught your ass leaves in handcuffs. A girl walks in tonight - late - comes out to the bar and is so messed up she almost fell off her chair, nothing was done.

    Last Friday I had a high fever and after passing out in the stage room from the fever I still had to pay a fifty dollar fine to leave early - yet the new girls can go home if they are tired ect.

    We are supposed to have set shifts 4pm - midnight, mightnight -8am, 8am to 4am, new girls are allowed to work 8pm-4am on weekends or just pretty much set their shifts.

    I got the most dances tonight - 3 songs, went on stage twice and still had to pay a DJ tip out (which the DJ does not get because he is on payroll, just an excuse for the club to make more money off the girls, I would not have a problem if the money went directly to the DJ) and now we have to pay a "legal fee" everynight so the club can defend themselves with the township.


    Okay thanks for letting me rant and rave.
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    Default Re: Totally need to rant about a bad night

    A legal fee? Give me a break! It sounds like they are going to be needing to use it for dancers who complain that they aren't being fair.

    As always, I say talk to the manager about it. If it doesn't get worked out leave and let them know why. Tell them you love the club, but bending the rules for some and not others is not cool.
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    The worst part is I bring this stuff up over and over again to my boyfriend who is one of the owners and he just does not understand why I get so upset.
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    Sorry let me clarify I am not the only one of is angry about this, however whenever the group of us who have been there awhile bring this up we are told to mind our own business. We have meetings every Friday and bring it up in a mature manor without pointing fingers or putting people on the spot but it feels like management does not care.
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    I'd be telling your bf and the other managers that you are going to go to another club... and do it. I don't deal with BS... especially when I'm close to people. Sorry girl!
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    I wish I could go to another club for awhile but all I would be doing is screwing myself. I live over an hour away from any other decent clubs. I've worked at some of the crap clubs close to me but the money I made didn't even cover my gas (i mean $20 on a weekend night).

    I guess I'm just really frustrated because I go out of my way, work on my days off if they are call outs, come in early if I'm needed along with staying late, follow the rules, don't start problems, will do what ever I am asked to do. Okay I'm done ranting I guess I wll continue fighting with the boyfriend.
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    I'm pissed about double standards, too. Tonight my manager informed me that I wouldn't be doing my stage rotations tonight because of my tattoo. MY ONE REALLY NICE TATTOO! And yet, some of the other girls--one of whom is apprenticing to be a tattoo artist, who has 22 tattoos, another of whom has got a 1/2 sleeve--were allowed to do their stage sets!

    I mean, WTF!!! I know I don't earn much from stage, but dang, even a little extra helps out! I just don't get it. Is she trying to force me out or something?

    ughhh! well, thanks for letting me get in on your rant. it's not fair that some girls can get away with anything.

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    I wonder what is going through the heads of the people who run these clubs. You'd think they'd want to keep their dancers happy. As if they could get 6 bucks for a coke without us there.
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    If I weren't getting the proper respect as an employee and treated on fair grounds I would leave for sure. I used to travel over an hour to my club for a year. I know what it's like. And it was totally worth it. Got the respect I know I deserve and made more and was much happier there.

    It's a serious issue and they are making it your business because you work there and it affects your money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Winged Dinghy View Post
    I'm pissed about double standards, too. Tonight my manager informed me that I wouldn't be doing my stage rotations tonight because of my tattoo. MY ONE REALLY NICE TATTOO! And yet, some of the other girls--one of whom is apprenticing to be a tattoo artist, who has 22 tattoos, another of whom has got a 1/2 sleeve--were allowed to do their stage sets!

    I mean, WTF!!! I know I don't earn much from stage, but dang, even a little extra helps out! I just don't get it. Is she trying to force me out or something?

    ughhh! well, thanks for letting me get in on your rant. it's not fair that some girls can get away with anything.
    Oh WTF. My old club pulled this BS. I had worked there for YEARS, and when I got my leg tattoo, they told me to cover it. I pointed out another girl had more than I did, and was told "Well, we didn't hire you with tattoos". SUCH BULLSHIT.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Winged Dinghy View Post
    I'm pissed about double standards, too. Tonight my manager informed me that I wouldn't be doing my stage rotations tonight because of my tattoo. MY ONE REALLY NICE TATTOO! And yet, some of the other girls--one of whom is apprenticing to be a tattoo artist, who has 22 tattoos, another of whom has got a 1/2 sleeve--were allowed to do their stage sets!
    Funny you'd mention that cause it's the one double standard that frustrates me most. I dealt with that at my old club, one of the owners didn't like my tattoo but there were 2 girls there with full sleeves on both arms, a girl with a back piece and another with a thigh piece.

    It's also bullshit when you go to audition at a club and they make a stink about your tattoos, but you see a more than a handful of girls on the floor with twice as many as you.

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    K. Not to be mean. BUT you have to put up with all that fine crap, are the best girl there and your boyfriend is one of the owners? Sorry hun, that makes him a pimp. He gets to sleep with you and he's charging you all that extra $. He either doesn't care or gee an owner that has NO pull? Hmmm.
    And they're only doing it b/c they know you're not going anywhere else.
    I'd say it's time to move and find a new man. One w/ actual balls and decency.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mare View Post
    K. Not to be mean. BUT you have to put up with all that fine crap, are the best girl there and your boyfriend is one of the owners? Sorry hun, that makes him a pimp. He gets to sleep with you and he's charging you all that extra $. He either doesn't care or gee an owner that has NO pull? Hmmm.
    And they're only doing it b/c they know you're not going anywhere else.
    I'd say it's time to move and find a new man. One w/ actual balls and decency.
    Maybe I'm just in a mood today but how in the hell does that make him her pimp? That's a pretty audacious statement.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mare View Post
    K. Not to be mean. BUT you have to put up with all that fine crap, are the best girl there and your boyfriend is one of the owners? Sorry hun, that makes him a pimp. He gets to sleep with you and he's charging you all that extra $. He either doesn't care or gee an owner that has NO pull? Hmmm.
    And they're only doing it b/c they know you're not going anywhere else.
    I'd say it's time to move and find a new man. One w/ actual balls and decency.

    Sorry but i kind of have to agree. These people are taking advantage of you. Your bf runs a club that doesn't give a shit about their dancers and will screw you any way they can. They're even passing their legal fees on to you?!? OMG, the audacity. I can't believe you would date someone with so little care or respect for the dancers that make this club what it is.

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    I have always kept my relationship seperate from my work life - even if we disagree about something at work it does not carry over into the home life. He is also only a part owner and has to answer to two other partners. Supposidly some of the stuff is being dealth with today at the meeting, I guess I'll find out when I go into work tonight and let you guys know.
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    ^^^ Let us know what happens. I wouldn't be hanging around though if they are going to continue being like that.
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    It makes him a pimp that he benefits from her monetairily. AND he gets to have sex with her. USED<USED<USED. I don't care if he's the nicest guy in the world. He wouldn't let you get treated like they have been treating you.
    Think about it. If I wrote what you wrote what would you tell me? You would tell me to leave that club and get a new man. It's like he's charging you for sex. And you're going home broke. ARGH.

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