A few times recently, I've had this situation come up, and I guess guys in the area are so broke due to the economy that they've started to expect more for their money. Fuckers...
So anyways. I'll go up to a guy and try to sell a private dance. And they'll get very obviously interested, but then they start feeling the waters. You know, like, "So, how much can we really do back there," or, "So...what do I get for $50?" Or, "How much of you do I get to see for $X" (my club is in NY, where you can't be topless in the dances when the club serves alcohol; so no clothes really come off except on stage). I don't know, maybe I'm not getting their one-liners right, but you get what I mean...when they're trying to see if I'm going to give them extras. I know a lot of girls have no problem being like, "oh, baby, you get to do whatever you want," or basically tell them they'll give sexual favors. Then they go in the back, and the girl doesn't do anything of the sort, and the guy gets angry, and maybe grabby, then the bouncers kick him out, and he's all pissed off. And sure, the girl gets her $50 or whatever...but now that guy is going to remember that situation, and he's probably not going to come back, especially if he wasn't a regular custie in the first place.
I, on the other hand, have never even flirted with that concept. If a guy asks, I'll rather bluntly say, "I'll give you a great dance, but I'm not doing anything illegal." And recently, I kind of get the feeling that it's making me lose a little money. But I feel really, really weird leading a guy on so he thinks he gets to finger me as soon as we get in the back, and then he gets thrown the fuck out as soon as he tries.
What do you think about this situation? Any advice?



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