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    Default I'm Back

    Hey everyone,

    This is my first time back on stripperweb in a while. There's been a lot going on. I did go to a club for the first time about four months back (YAY) ! I made some cold hard cash and was really excited. The problem was... I told my boyfriend and he freaked out. We had a rough relationship and I ended up kicking him out of my apartment. He wasn't paying, treating me like I was a constant annoyance, etc etc. Long story short, we're over and I want to start stripping again for ME.

    So I went back to the club last night and totally could not get into it. I ended up leaving really early and made only about a quarter of what I made on my first night. I KNOW it was because of my attitude and I didn't put much effort in at all. I can't stop thinking about my ex and it's really affecting my daily life. I hate it. How can I let another person's actions/words change how I feel about myself. It's disgusting. I fell in love with an asshole lol...

    Anyone have some tips? I really need a pick-me-up.

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    Default Re: I'm Back

    Do you have anyone else you could talk to? A family member? A friend? I find that if I don't have at least ONE person I can talk to (honestly, openly), then I totally lose my groove at work. This also happens when I lose perspective and burn out--to cure this, I usually go on a walk or do something different from my normal schedule.

    You KNOW you have the ability to make money at your club, so start out by NOT worrying about the money. If you can choose your music, then dance only to music you LOVE to dance to (even if you think it won't make you money). Wear outfits that make you feel sexy. Hell--go out and buy a new outfit. The point is, if you stop worrying about the money (and psyching yourself out of it), then you'll make money!

    Mostly, though, I think you just need a sympathetic ear who will support your decisions.

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