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    So I had my first night last week and it really didn't go well. The club I started at was a pretty shitty tourist club (Madonna in South Beach, Miami). It started out with the girls getting super catty with me in the dressing room because I put my bag where "the black girls put their stuff"...(ridiculous... I'm just quoting what they said to me). Then I wasn't allowed to use a locker because I was new. Anyways, the club is fucking empty at midnight. The first guy I go up to and ask if I can join him says NO!! (I'm stunned at this point because I am not really used to rejection, not to sound conceited.) I go up to all the other guys sitting, ask them if they want company and they all say no thanks, not now. WTF?? Then the WORST part is seeing them get lap dances from gross girls... Got 1 lapdance and the dude tipped me 20$, but besides that it was garbage. No one even wanted to talk to me. What am I doing wrong? I know it's not my appearence. I'm pissed because I know there is lots of money to be made in Miami, and here I am workin at 8$ an hour just to pay rent. Can anyone help me out here? Thanks ladies

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    Isn't Madonna the club that doesn't serve alcohol on South Beach... It's for like teenagers... It depends where you went to work at because there are clubs all over miami and broward... even palm beach (if u don't mind getting a license)....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Honey71783 View Post
    Isn't Madonna the club that doesn't serve alcohol on South Beach... It's for like teenagers... It depends where you went to work at because there are clubs all over miami and broward... even palm beach (if u don't mind getting a license)....
    ya they dont serve alcohol.. i realized that when i got there, but i went cuz i live in south beach and its closeby... i wanted to try tootsies but its kind of intimidating cause i havent really stripped b4

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    Part of your problem might be that you look too intimidating. From your avatar, I'd be guessing you look like the quintessential 'Barbie' (not a bad thing!!). If you're working in a club with lots of "black girls" and "gross girls," then it might be that you severely intimidate the guys who come in there looking for non-Vegas-ish strippers (hopefully that makes sense and doesn't sound offensive).

    Personally, I feel like I look really good at work, but I definitely dress to fit the club. I would get eaten alive in a Vegas or even Chicago (nicer) club!! My look is definitely less polished than it could be, and it's because my club is much more casual. I go more for the 'girl next door' than the 'hot as $%&* girl who just jumped off the pages of Hustler.' I'm not telling you to completely grunge your look, but maybe try adjusting your aesthetic slightlyto the club's?

    Also, is it possible that the other strippers are giving extras dances? One of my club's new hires is NOT attractive (literally, when she goes up on stage, all of the customers flee), yet I noticed the other night that she was still getting dances. I peeked into the booth during one of her dances and witnessed her doing some seriously illegal shit. So maybe that explains part of it? Do the other girls do the dick grab hustle or something? Are they whispering things in the customers' ears? (promises of extras)

    There definitely is such a thing in stripping as being 'too pretty' or 'too dolled up.' Many normal guys like to get dances and have conversations with women who look at least somewhat approachable. Maybe this is what is scaring them off?

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    Part of your problem might be that you look too intimidating. From your avatar, I'd be guessing you look like the quintessential 'Barbie' (not a bad thing!!). If you're working in a club with lots of "black girls" and "gross girls," then it might be that you severely intimidate the guys who come in there looking for non-Vegas-ish strippers (hopefully that makes sense and doesn't sound offensive).

    Personally, I feel like I look really good at work, but I definitely dress to fit the club. I would get eaten alive in a Vegas or even Chicago (nicer) club!! My look is definitely less polished than it could be, and it's because my club is much more casual. I go more for the 'girl next door' than the 'hot as $%&* girl who just jumped off the pages of Hustler.' I'm not telling you to completely grunge your look, but maybe try adjusting your aesthetic slightlyto the club's?

    Also, is it possible that the other strippers are giving extras dances? One of my club's new hires is NOT attractive (literally, when she goes up on stage, all of the customers flee), yet I noticed the other night that she was still getting dances. I peeked into the booth during one of her dances and witnessed her doing some seriously illegal shit. So maybe that explains part of it? Do the other girls do the dick grab hustle or something? Are they whispering things in the customers' ears? (promises of extras)

    There definitely is such a thing in stripping as being 'too pretty' or 'too dolled up.' Many normal guys like to get dances and have conversations with women who look at least somewhat approachable. Maybe this is what is scaring them off?
    yeah that makes a lot of sense. thanks hun. im going to try another, bigger vegas-style club

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    Furthermore, if you look super polished, most guys assume that your confidence must be rock-hard. That's probably why you got the "NO!" reaction. If a guy sees a chick who is obviously stunning, he'll be less likely to be really nice about rejecting her. He figures that she must be in very high demand and stereotypes her as conceited. Hence the somewhat violently anti-omfgbarbie reaction.

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