
Originally Posted by
charlie61
Part of your problem might be that you look too intimidating. From your avatar, I'd be guessing you look like the quintessential 'Barbie' (not a bad thing!!). If you're working in a club with lots of "black girls" and "gross girls," then it might be that you severely intimidate the guys who come in there looking for non-Vegas-ish strippers (hopefully that makes sense and doesn't sound offensive).
Personally, I feel like I look really good at work, but I definitely dress to fit the club. I would get eaten alive in a Vegas or even Chicago (nicer) club!! My look is definitely less polished than it could be, and it's because my club is much more casual. I go more for the 'girl next door' than the 'hot as $%&* girl who just jumped off the pages of Hustler.' I'm not telling you to completely grunge your look, but maybe try adjusting your aesthetic slightlyto the club's?
Also, is it possible that the other strippers are giving extras dances? One of my club's new hires is NOT attractive (literally, when she goes up on stage, all of the customers flee), yet I noticed the other night that she was still getting dances. I peeked into the booth during one of her dances and witnessed her doing some seriously illegal shit. So maybe that explains part of it? Do the other girls do the dick grab hustle or something? Are they whispering things in the customers' ears? (promises of extras)
There definitely is such a thing in stripping as being 'too pretty' or 'too dolled up.' Many normal guys like to get dances and have conversations with women who look at least somewhat approachable. Maybe this is what is scaring them off?
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