If any of you read my post, "Why do guys suck so much?" you know that I am going through a HORRIBLE breakup right now, Im emotionally weak and fragile....
Well the last thing I should have done was go to work last night, but I had a customer, so you know how it goes.... The night went great until I ran into some mutual friends of me and the ex in the dressing room. One girl in particular, who had only heard his side of the story and came at me defensively. I told her what REALLY happened, and I broke down and cried in the dressing room like a pathetic loser.
She of course was then sympathetic towards me and tried to calm me down, but then another, extremely ghetto trashy dancer walks by me, and as I glance up at her she says "What are you looking at bitch? Why are you crying like a little bitch?" If anyone on here actually knows me in person, then you know I NEVER fight girls, Im not ghetto, and I honestly think of myself as one of the classiest, articulate "strippers" out there. I'm not looking down on anyone, but I walk into a club with a level of confidence and by my attitude and attire, I think my hustle and presence even at work irritates the more ghetto trashy girls, (they think I think I am better than everybody, if that makes any sense, or at least thats the feeling I get from some of the looks they give me)
Anyways,..... I look up and tell her that Im not looking at her and Im upset about a guy and consequently a friendship that was ruined all because of this jerk with which I wasted almost two years of my life! WELL, she walks off, but then comes back in five minutes and proceeds to tell she doesn't like they way I look, "that Im a stupid white bitch" etc. etc.
First of all, Im not white, Im Puerto Rican. And anyone that knows Puerto Ricans knows that we have fire in our bloodI then stood up and told her, with the other girl still standing between us and tears running down my face, that first of all I am not white, and second of all she has nothing to do with this conversation so please leave me alone..
She then reached over and punched me in the face. Hard. Of course I walk off, now hysterically crying, management is running in, and the manager says to me calm down. Well would you be calm right now? I wasn't yelling, just crying hysterically, I swear Im so upset and heartbroken, this really emotionally pushed me over the edge. He says he needs to get both sides of the story, I told him, "look at my face and look at her". He should have fired her on the spot, but she said I pushed her. Ridiculous. Oh but guess what? All the ghetto haters that work there, with (I'm really about to sound like a snotty b*tch right now) their fake designer purses, bags, etc. that do nothing but give me looks that could kill when they see my nice makeup, nice bags, long gowns I wear in an otherwise ghetto club, all said "oh yeah she definitely pushed her"
Oh. My. God. could my life get any worse? I knew all these girls already hated me and wanted me gone because of not only my style, but I'm a top earner at that club. I get paid by the hour in VIP, not dollars on stage for shaking my ass. Like I said, I'm really not trying to sound snotty, just paint a picture for you.
I told the manager, who is now yelling at me for some crazy reason, that everything is fine, Im just going to file my police report and never work there again. He told me if I call the cops I am fired!!!! Guess what? I called 911, the girl now has a pending assault charge on her. I asked to see the security cameras, but they are conveniently broken. At this point, I am getting dressed, another girl walks up and says I pushed her friend as well. All these girls are doing their best to gang up on me right now. She threatens to "whoop my a**", I ignore it and continue sobbing and getting dressed (In my sweats with my gucci sandals, gucci bag, and two LV bags and go to get my new BMW out of valet ha ha! As Im counting my 1500$ I made, and trust me they saw every hundred in my hand! These girls HATE me!!! (BTW, I have a well paying day job just so you know)
As I leave, my other friend that was working that night calls me crying. She was robbed by a customer, and what did management do? They kicked the guy out. She didn't get her $$$ back. If you want to work at a club where management will do nothing for you and kick you to the curb, this is it!
Uhhhhhhh, what do I do now? I am thinking class action lawsuit against Rick's cabaret/XTC, but I don't know..... the management did NOT fire the other girl, "Sparkle" they "fired" me because I said the magic word, COPS! Im not ignorant, and I watch enough Judge Judy to handle this situation right and cover all my bases.
so.....today is Valentines Day, one side of my face is bruised, Im out of a night job because another dancer hit ME, and guess what Im going through the hardest breakup of my life! I get to spend today SINGLE!!! woo hoo!!!!
No but seriously, I want to sue the sh*t out of that club. All anyone has to do is look at my face, and look at the other girl who doesn't have a scratch on her. Anyone have any suggestions???



I then stood up and told her, with the other girl still standing between us and tears running down my face, that first of all I am not white, and second of all she has nothing to do with this conversation so please leave me alone..
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You had every right to call the cops after an assault! I believe every word you wrote. Even though your emotions were heightened due to your personal life, you didn't deserve to be physically punished. IF she had any class, she would have walked away from your sobbing ass hoping that you feel better instead of trying to make it worse. I don't understand why the manager would stand up for someone like that. You would think he would want ANY reason to get rid of trash like that. Any good manager would know the $$$$ you bring in is more important to the club than the $ she brings in. Even if you were to blame by "pushing" her it still is a VERY poor management decision on his part. WHAT A MORON!!!

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