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    Default I want to be a cut throat b*tch...

    There's a dancer who is horribly cut throat to the 'lesser' dancers.

    I am out of work *creating life* and won't be back until August.

    I have lots of free time to plot against her. Mwahahaa...

    She has struck fear in alot of the other girls and it's just not right. She fucks with thier heads and thier money until she runs them out of the club. Girls are 'afraid' to upset her.

    She's very unprofessional and very unattractive. One of her signature moves is to sit at a table with a group of guys, talk to one and under the table, put her hand down the front of the pants of another guy who's talking to another dancer. She also interupts other dancers lap dances and just generally messes with you, if she's targeted you.

    *Note* She hasn't targeted me. I've been doing this too long and I'm too good at this to get tangled in her web.

    She generally ruins the mood in the club. It's time for her to get a dose of her own medicine. my brain doesn't work that way. I wouldn't know where to start to fuck with her. Suggestions, please?

    I thought about posting 'What's the worst cut throat thing you've ever seen?' But... I'm not willing to do alot of the things that *they* do.

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    Default Re: I want to be a cut throat b*tch...

    Argghh...I hate to say it...but I really don't think you should start a cycle of passive aggressive behaviors. You said she isn't picking on you, so why not leave her alone? If things are civil right now, then you should ignore her.

    I get where you're coming from--we all have evil thoughts where we want to get back at people who do that kind of shit--but I think these should stay thoughts. Any advice you get otherwise will just be petty, tit-for-tat, high school shit. I'd highly suggest that you not do anything to her.

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    Default Re: I want to be a cut throat b*tch...

    Confront her loudly and honestly, but as a backhanded compliment. For instance; "Way to take the customer away from Sherry. She totally didn;t have a chance of selling a dance once you started feeling him up. these days every girl is on her own, Good Job!"

    Or "compliment" her around the club in the same fashion. Your comments are being offered under the premise of admiration, but it is so totally not actions to be admired, that by speaking the actions out loud, her bad behavior will be on display for all to see.

    It sort of works like:
    "George Bush tortured farmers and cab drivers to prevent another 9/11 attack, and it totally worked. He's a pretty smart guy for setting an example by torturing civilians!"
    (not trying to start a thread on politics, and this example does not reflect my own or anyone else's opinion.)


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    Default Re: I want to be a cut throat b*tch...

    ^^ Good advice. Steer away from petty stuff, and confront her without actually doing anything that could be reciprocated.

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    Default Re: I want to be a cut throat b*tch...

    while I like paris' idea, I don't know if I would do that unless I wanted to go toe to toe with that girl, and I don't agree with fighting. my advice is just let it run its course. eventually she'll fuck up and either get fired, or arrested. just hope the universe has it happen on a day you're there. always remember that what comes around goes around, and you reap what you sow. karma is a real motherfucker.

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    I agree with the Karma statement, there was this dancer who tried over a year to get other girls and myself kicked out of whatever club she was working in at the time, she was an expert on all the underhanded and malicious ways to intimidate girls and turn customers, staff and other girls on certain dancers. Just recently, I heard from a source close to her, that she is being investigated by the police for illegal activity she was performing in a club and it looks like she won't be able to step foot in any club now or ever again , karma works in funny ways.

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    Default Re: I want to be a cut throat b*tch...

    Zomg.......... I totally feel you on this one girl. i was working at several clubs in South Florida that this ONE girl kept poppin up at. I have had several encounters with her but not as bad as other girls who have dealt with her. She is even worse cus she "rolls with a crew" and trys to befriend other girls to come be with them. They are nothing but bad news and harrass other girls who dont befriend them (and believe me you dont want to roll they way they do). This is typical to a pimped girls mentality. Its very low life and sad and I cant stand it.

    The idea of just leaving the girl alone is sometimes not an option if you feel like she is really effecting your work environment and ability to make money without too many headaches. Thoughts of seriously injuring this one girl i am thinking of has crossed my mind. One night in particular she had started some shit with me actually telling ME that i would have bad Karma (almost like witchcraft) fucking with my head. Later on that night she twisted her ankle so bad she couldnt dance for 2 weeks!!!! Haahahahaahahahah

    If i were you i would just stay out of harms way. These chicks are usually not people you want to have a run in with unless you take it to a whole other level. They are doing what they do on purpose and are not gunna get scared off by your comments or whatever. If she speaks to you then be confident in making a remark back that points out her shit, but otherwise leave her to her own hell. Or speak to the manager? Sometimes they listen and get rid of the girls that suck. If they dont then its their bad. I personally think issues like this are the main problem with clubs today. Girls do too much stupid shit and the managers dont care. Eventually the clubs go downhill overall.


    good luck girly!!

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    Default Re: I want to be a cut throat b*tch...

    i worked with a similar girl. i eventually gave up and just worked a schedule around her. but now i've come to find out that she just eventually burned out once new girls who were not afraid of her and that she could not intimidate replaced all the girls that used to be there. other than that i have no advice.

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    Thanks for all the advice/ opinions.

    Management is useless in this situation. I've been out of work since January. She was fired for a couple months before that. I just got word from one of the girls that she's been rehired and will be there Tuesday. This club is really trashy (great money if you can ignore the bs) they don't care about 'extras' and you're on your own with everything else like dealing with customers and other dancers.

    My initial reaction is to go in there and beat the fucking piss out of her. Make it so she CAN'T dance anymore. So sinking to 'that level' isn't really an issue. I just thought I'd see if she can take it as good as she gives it.

    As far as looking the other way because it doesn't involve me directly, it does. Some of the girls she messes with are good friends of mine. I've known some of them for years, inside and outside the club. When they don't want to go to work because of her or are losing sleep over some bs she pulled or letting her get in thier head and ruin thier night or end up in tears, it is my business. They are just intimidated by her. I'm not. I've never given her any shit or taken her customers/ money even though I easily could have because I'm not like that. Power is a state of mind and she doesn't have shit on me. I think it's time she gets put in her place.

    I suppose I'll just watch her and mimmick what she does to other girls to her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gabrielle MB View Post

    My initial reaction is to go in there and beat the fucking piss out of her. Make it so she CAN'T dance anymore. So sinking to 'that level' isn't really an issue. I just thought I'd see if she can take it as good as she gives it.
    Holy crap! That's freakin' crazy... Now, don't catch yourself a damn case.... Then, she'll definitely piss you off in court...

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    Default Re: I want to be a cut throat b*tch...

    sheesh.... just be careful girl.

    If you do end up getting into it with her....... make sure there are witnesses and she hits you first. You can only get out of trouble if you prove its self defense. Not that its an issue with these kind of clubs usually. They dont want to call the cops EVER and if the cops ARE called, the management will fire whoever made that call. I have been permanantly banned from regular nightclubs for calling an ambulance/police even.

    It sounds like you really want this bitch in trouble but i would be careful seriously. I have had girls drive me to not want to work somewhere because of their skanky shit but eventually realized that it was better to walk away than to try to fix it myself - especially if i have to fight to make it happen. Working in ghetto environments is bad enough without getting caught up in ghetto situations. Like i said- i totally feel you. My life is good and it doesnt effect me much at this point, but there are times when i am really thinking of how i could get back at that one bitch i know. She totally deserves it.

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    Default Re: I want to be a cut throat b*tch...

    Quote Originally Posted by Gabrielle MB View Post
    cMy initial reaction is to go in there and beat the fucking piss out of her. Make it so she CAN'T dance anymore. So sinking to 'that level' isn't really an issue. I just thought I'd see if she can take it as good as she gives it.
    emotions like that are usually wasted on pieces of shit. I know it feels good to think about wrecking someone, but people like the girl you describe usually wreck themselves. fear is a state of mind. instead of stooping to her level, why not educate your friends to know how to avoid her? if you take the route you describe above, I hope you are ready for a fight.... and those fights usually aren't worth it. choose your battles..... I know you're pissed, but try taking a more proactive stance. educate your friends if you know how to avoid her. but taking the attitude that you have stated above lets her win. just sayin'

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    Yes, yes,yes! That's why I want to give her a taste of what she gives. I was just saying I'm not afraid to go "toe to toe"with her. I'm not going to get into a physical altercation with a girl at work over some childish nonsense. I'm just saying I'm not afraid of her. She's a bully and bullys are all bark no bite. Somebody slapped her in the face once and she left crying and didn't come back for a week. She picks on the insecure girls. This has been going on two or three years. Enough already.

    It's not my problem. I know that. I'm nobody's hero, either. I have my own stuff to worry about. I care about the girls I work with. There is (unfortunately) a pecking order in the clubs. It's just hard to see the stress and anguish she causes. I try to give advice to the girls and they are just afraid to respond to her. She really mind- fucks them.

    And if and we ever did end up in court for assault charges, it would be my word against hers, of course. I have a squeeky clean not even a parking ticket record. She has charges from drugs to prostitution, dcf has taken her children, covered in tattoos and she's got about 70 lbs on me. The court will see me as the victim. I'm not worried about it. Just sayin'...

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    From the way that you've described her, the best way to get under her skin would be to help the dancers she's picking on to stand up to her. Not necessarily directly and overtly, but help them to realize that they don't have to put up with her shit. Even just small things, like giving her a slightly snarky underhanded compliment and then just walking away when she's trying to prey on their customers.

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    Default Re: I want to be a cut throat b*tch...

    Don't get tangled in her web.

    That is probably why she targeted some of the other girls.

    Don't provoke her that is what she is waiting for but if she says something to you don't take any of her shit.

    Every once in a while I get girls who target me because I make money so they try to eliminate the competition so to speak.

    Depending on the situation I'd mention that 'that girl over there is always competing with me. I'll make you a bet the minute I get up and walk away shes over her in two seconds talkin' shit. If I'm right you get to buy me a dance.'

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    Does management know about her little "under the table" tricks? I'd be reporting her!
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    Default Re: I want to be a cut throat b*tch...

    Honestly, while I get you being pissed at her actions (I would be too), if you start a fight with her, I hope you get fired or the cops called.

    she might be a bitch, and even fucking with your friends money, BUT, that still doesn't give you the right to get physical with her.

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    Default Re: I want to be a cut throat b*tch...

    It does sound like she's getting to you, though. I can totally understand daydreaming about choking a bitch, but don't let the anger get to you so much. That is just another way she's fucking with you girls. Honestly, there isn't really room for insecure girls in these types of clubs. They'll have to grow thick skin QUICK. It's doable, Lord knows I had to. So I agree with whoever suggested that you help your friends stand up to her. I wouldn't give her the pleasure of a real fight. It sounds like that's what she's looking for.

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    Oh man, I would love to do something to her like put nair in her shampoo or laxatives in her drink or something stupid. Those things never work though, not that I know from experience. I would just ignore her, but that is bad for the psyche. I hope it works out, whatever happens don't let her win!

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    Default Re: I want to be a cut throat b*tch...

    If she's that low then she's probably a true hoe. No way you can compete w/ a chick that meets guys otc. And I bet she does. In which case time will take care of her. Some dude will f*ck her up or some combination of drugs/ alcohol.
    But if you really feel the need there are lots of websites out there that will give you ideas. Also wait until you're not pissed off anymore. Then there is less chance you will screw something up in haste and implicate yourself.
    And you're right with what you're thinking- I wouldn't want to piss me off either.

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