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    UGHHHH fuckin TWICE last week this happened to me...

    I have 2 regulars... 1 comes in once a week and the other usually twice a week. They both told me (on on wed. night... the other on friday) that they can't keep seeing me... cuz they're falling for me big time and they don't wanna get hurt. (they both know i have a fiance' and that i dont intend to break up with him) And one of the guys is married.... and he's said oh i like you so much but ur engaged and im married.... so i know its never gonna work how i want it to. SO WHAT THE HELL DO I DO TO KEEP THESE GUYS COMING IN????
    "LIVE FAST DIE PRETTY!!!"

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    Hmmm...maybe try to lighten them up a little? It sounds like everyone involved is taking the strip club thing a liiiitle too seriously. Remind them that the fact you're all in relationships doesn't mean they have to stop enjoying your company. Obviously they came into the SC to have fun in the first place...and since they're good regulars, I'd be guessing they weren't coming there to find a relationship. So try to re-focus the dynamic. The SC is a place where they can be entertained and enjoy a connection that doesn't have to extend OTC.

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    ugh, this has happened to me too! Suddenly my regular started to see time spent together ITC as "dates" rather than dancer/customer. Eventually he "couldn't bear to see me acting the same way with other guys because he got jealous". Once you find a true regular, who knows the limits and is happy with them, it will be awesome, don't worry!


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    regulars like that never last long, and there is always another right around the corner, cheer up!

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    one of them ive had for almost a year though!
    "LIVE FAST DIE PRETTY!!!"

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    tell them that you understand how they feel, because you're starting to feel too attracted to them too. this hooks them in a little bit. then tell them you'd love to stay close to them as just friends, since they're such great guys.

    it could work.
    "If she wants to dance and drink all night, well there's no one that can stop her. She's going til the house lights come up or her stomach spills onto the floor. This night is gonna end when we're damn well ready for it to be over, worked all week long, and now the music is playing on our time. Yeah we do what we do to get by, and then we need a release!" - Against Me!, "Thrash Unreal"

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    oops double post
    "If she wants to dance and drink all night, well there's no one that can stop her. She's going til the house lights come up or her stomach spills onto the floor. This night is gonna end when we're damn well ready for it to be over, worked all week long, and now the music is playing on our time. Yeah we do what we do to get by, and then we need a release!" - Against Me!, "Thrash Unreal"

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    The truth about regulars is that they all have expiration dates. They're luxuries while they last, and they can even turn you into a lazy hustler! Maybe it's just time to get out there and make some new ones!

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    Default Re: "I really like you now... I just can't do this anymore..."

    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    The truth about regulars is that they all have expiration dates. They're luxuries while they last, and they can even turn you into a lazy hustler! Maybe it's just time to get out there and make some new ones!
    yep, that's what I'm sayin'!All customers have a shelf life, very few are twinkies.(twinkies= no exp date, lol.)

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    I agree that regulars can turn you into a lazy hustler, this one regular I had for almost a year just turned sour in the past few months, I guess I should have ended it when he perpetually believed that the entertainment in the club was some kind of relationship OTC, but I kept it going because it was easy money and I did'nt have to work the room as much most nights, but I now realize I've also lost some of the focus and determination to meet my goals each night at a club, it was not worth the effort keeping a regular who drains your energy and badgers you with "expectations" for a OTC relationship.

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    I agree with all the ladies above. I had a great regular who went buhbye after he proceeded to try to give me an engagement ring that had belonged to his mother. Uhhhh. Obviously regulars who develop feelings for you are playing right into what we project for them but it's a double edged sword. They can either believe that we're really into them and spend money on us consistently for a while OR they know it's fun but it's only entertainment and they never become a regular. Just be happy that you had 2 great regs for a while and let them go! More will come, they always do
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    I don't think there's anything you could have done to stop this from happening so don't be hard on yourself. As long as you weren't leading them on in a way that goes past the standard hustle, you did nothing wrong and the next regular will be there in no time.

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    I'd say just remind them that no matter what goes on outside the club, they can always come to you to have fun.

    "Oh, honey, I thought we were having fun here! We don't have to bother with all that complicated relationship stuff!"

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    Men. Retards. I think they might be asking for more attention from you.

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