If any of you are like me, the first thought that comes to mind when someone says, "You are too good for stripping! It's so degrading!" is"If only you knew how wrong that is..."
Stripping has it's negative side like anything else does. However, dancing has affected me in so many more positive ways than just about any other life experience I have had so far.
I'll list mine first and then if anyone would like to list theirs, I think it could be an uplifting thread to look at whenever we are feeling down or not wanting to go to work!
Dancing has:
* Made me more assertive. I was one of those girls who wanted everyone to think she was "nice" and that always translated into being walked all over.
* Given me multitudes more of self confidence. Whereas I would pretend to be confident before dancing, now I can walk into a room and feel powerful and sure of myself. This also carries over into my romantic life - I would never date the men I did in the past! I have more respect for myself and will choose someone outstanding the next time I am in a relationship.
* Caused me to be more financially independent and actually interested in accruing wealth as opposed to spending recklessly on useless things the minute I had a paycheck!
* Given me a new interest in fitness and building a healthy, strong and sexy physique that will be an asset at work instead of a reason to be insecure.
* Caused me to be much more open minded and free spirited about sexuality and how people express theirs.
* Helped me cut toxic and critical "friends" out of my life. If you can't be associated with a stripper, I can't possibly be associated with a narrow minded person like you!
Okay let's hear yours!




"If only you knew how wrong that is..."


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