I've been working in this club for about 4 months and right from the get go was introduced to a club regular by another "newbie". He comes in to just hang out and knows a lot of bartenders and dancers cause he's been coming there for a long time, i get the feeling they all think he's a chill guy. He never does dances, EVER, but hangs out and buys girls drinks. I always thought of him as a very nice, "normal" guy. He always tells me how much he likes me, yadeeyadeeya, and gave me his business card cause he's a mechanic. He tells me to call him all the time and i tell him i don't have any free time, which is true, and give him other subtle hints so he won't be led on. The other week i needed some car work done, badly, so i asked if he would do the work (he does tons of work for other people at the club) and he said to call him. I called him and he checked my car out and we arranged to have the work done. But the whole time he's telling me that he's giving me such a great deal, cause he really likes me and he keeps on repeating that. He's said we should go out on some dates, i just ignore all this. The other day he called me w/ all the prices and then in casual conversation he asked if i was working that night, i said no that i was going to my friend's b-day party, he asked where, i said a dive bar, and he was like i know where that is and asked if he could come along, i said (not wanting to be mean, i'm stupid) well the more the merrier but i have to tell u i haven't seen these people in a while and i'll be catching up w/ them all night and basically told him not to come in several other subtle ways. He showed up! it was really awkward, he even started touching my hair at the bar until i told him to knock it off! he really freaked me out w/ that move, but he has already ordered the parts to my car and i feel obligated to get the work done. He's always been really normal, what should I do?!



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