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    Default nude club -how can i protect myself?

    i heard that a local nude club pays really well, but it seems so vulnerable
    to be doing lap dances naked. (that's what they do there.) there isn't supposed to be alcohol but they get around it by having the bar in a separate room. do you just have to make sure the club's security is excellent? it seems like one could be violated sooo easily! i'm sure some of the girls let it go on to just make more money, but i feel terrified something bad happening. should i just not work at a nude club since i feel that way, or are there specific precautions to take?
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    Default Re: nude club -how can i protect myself?

    Listen to your gut and never do anything that you don't feel is right for you.

    As far as doing nude lap dances, yes security should do their job, but ultimately you're your own first line of "defense". If a guy does something you're not comfortable with, you can usually just move their hands to where you want them to be while saying in a cute voice" Oh no, that's against the rules. You don't want to get me in trouble, right?" and then make cute puppy eyes. You're always in control. Never forget that. If a customer is pushy and won't listen after you've laid out the rules, you can tell him if he does it again, you're going to have to end the dance. If he does, then end it and let security know. But check with the security at your club to see what their procedure is. All clubs have different levels of tolerance for customer shananigans.

    You'll find that if you listen to your intuition with customers you can avoid dancing for guys who are jerks. Though as things get slower and slower in the clubs due to the economy, you will likely find yourself dancing for customers who you would have passed up before. Which can make you feel bad... which again comes back to don't do anything you're not comfortable with.
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    Default Re: nude club -how can i protect myself?

    ^^^excellent advice there!
    i would add that (depending on the club) sometimes you must leave your gstring on. however, if the club you have your eye on IS full nude private, you oftentimes can bring your own towel, if the club doesn't already require it.
    some guys may act all offended, and then that's when you say things like "oh, I do this for everyone, babe, even cuties like you!" *giggle* to the 500 pound sweaty grabby bastard.
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    It's weird...I've worked for a dive-ish nude club (no contact) for the past 2.5 years...and I don't think I've ever had a problem during lap dance. If someone starts to try something, you should be watching (using the mirrors, or just being careful to make sure you can always see him), and they're too slow to get away with anything.

    The only time I have problems is when I take a tip on stage from my underwear...so just be super careful to only take tips with the side of your t bar or whatever. Sometimes guys will try to swipe you with the dollar, or touch you and make it look like an accident. "SECURITY!!"

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    you just have to make a mental effort to be aware where their hands are at all times. eventually it becomes second nature. i f a guy is grabby, take a step back so he cant reach you, but its definitely up tot you to keep an eye on him. sure the security is there in case things get out of hand, but you are your own first line of defense
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    Quote Originally Posted by saphire123456 View Post
    you just have to make a mental effort to be aware where their hands are at all times. eventually it becomes second nature. i f a guy is grabby, take a step back so he cant reach you, but its definitely up tot you to keep an eye on him. sure the security is there in case things get out of hand, but you are your own first line of defense
    This is exactly right. You have to be constantly mentally aware of what you're doing and what your custie is doing when you work full nude, or someone will take advantage of you at some point. They are the same ones who would probably try something whether they were in a bikini bar, topless club or turtleneck club for that matter, lol.

    Don't turn away from the custie for too long or look over your shoulder when you dance with your back to them. Always keep yourself in a dominant position when facing them as well - straightened up a little bit so you're taller than them or dancing with one leg on the ground and the other conveniently between his legs if he "accidently" does anything, you can "accidently" give him a swift kick to the groin. And I definitely agree with ending the dance if they seem to be a custie who is only going to push the limits farther and farther. If they touch somewhere they know they're not allowed to and have otherwise been a respectful custie, I will stop moving, step away from them and give them a firm warning before continuing my dance. If they do it again, the super stripper bitch comes out to play and they should be so lucky to have me end the dance instead of standing there and retaliating like I want to
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    thank you, thank you, thank you to all of you guys!!!!
    this makes me feel so much better, and more ready to
    take them on, with also taking care of myself!

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    Having security that actually watches and gives a damn is priceless when doing nude dances. The only club I've worked in where nude dances were on offer had vigilant bouncers that took no shit, and they were awesome about making sure we were safe and comfortable and not violated.

    Other than that, just be aware at all times. Don't drink too much; alcohol (and/or drugs) will lower your defenses and slow your reactions, and that's the easiest way for a pervert to catch you off guard.

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    If they seem like they're going to get (more) grabby, make them sit on their hands. They might still try to reach out quick and grab something, but they'll be slower to do it (easier to catch) and they can't pretend it wasn't intentional.

    But the first offense, I take their hands and guide them to the sides--unless they straight out grabbed my pussy, lol. Then I just walk out. P.S.: get your money for the first dance up front! That way, you can walk out if you need to without worrying that you lost money. And they're more likely to behave themselves if they know that there are no refunds if the dance must be cut short.....

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    hide a gun in your vagina!
    "If she wants to dance and drink all night, well there's no one that can stop her. She's going til the house lights come up or her stomach spills onto the floor. This night is gonna end when we're damn well ready for it to be over, worked all week long, and now the music is playing on our time. Yeah we do what we do to get by, and then we need a release!" - Against Me!, "Thrash Unreal"

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    ^^^ hahaha!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by sorsi View Post
    Other than that, just be aware at all times. Don't drink too much; alcohol (and/or drugs) will lower your defenses and slow your reactions, and that's the easiest way for a pervert to catch you off guard.
    Absolutely. Also, if your management knows you are always sober, they will be on your side and take your word for it (if something happens) no matter what. Whereas if you are always a drunken mess they are going to have a harder time knowing who is telling the truth about what happened and knowing how to handle it.

    Just always be on watch, if the guy wants to try, he's going to try! And for the guys who go for the cookie, an 8 inch stilleto in the crotch might get the point across.... not saying I've ever done that But i do threaten with it! Those things are weapons!

    Good luck

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    In Most nude clubs there is a distance that you must be away from the custie. I would only work at nude clubs that say you must stay ( a few feet) away from custies while dancing.
    Otherwise I would not bother with the club, I would assume too much prostitution going on, and in that enviornment it is hard for a clean dancer to make money.

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    ^ I'd disagree. I work in a nude club, and I bank off of being one of the very few clean dancers. You just have to learn how to read customers--which ones will try something, and which ones will be respectful?

    I find it extremely easy to anticipate when a custie is going to try to touch me. As long as you pay attention, you'll be fine in a nude club, OP. Just tip your bouncers well so they watch out for you.

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    I like the gun in your vagina idea. That'd make for some extremely intense kegal exercises.

    Are the dances private? In that case you can get away with keeping stuff on. They don't know what goes on in other dances. If they've gotten dances from other girls and try saying they get entirely naked then just say you operate differently, act like it's in their best interest ("do you want every other guy I danced for all over you? a gstring can be changed at work." Use that first part for the towel bit.) and say you allow that privellege to your most loyal customers. Act like it's in short supply, and higher demand. May work to upsell/hook more dances. Or they might go onto a girl who'll do it anyway. It's up to you to weigh the pros and cons of that one.

    If they keep getting grabby/touchy, use the "if I let you touch me, that means I let many other hands touch, and do you really want to touch all those other guys?" line. It makes the customer feel you care more about them, and may promote him to "earn" that privilege.

    But as far as safety goes, take off your shoes WHILE dancing, acting cute, saying you can give a better dance on your feet. This way they're easier to get to if you need them. And of course, stay mentally aware. Don't drink or do drugs. It may help you loosen up a bit, but it's not worth what could happen. (And if you can't work sober, you shouldn't be doing this.)
    Lead me not into temptation. I can find it myself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sorsi View Post
    Having security that actually watches and gives a damn is priceless when doing nude dances. The only club I've worked in where nude dances were on offer had vigilant bouncers that took no shit, and they were awesome about making sure we were safe and comfortable and not violated.

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    if you have overbearing security at your club, and a million cameras the guys WONT be getting dances. Which guy wants to get a dance when 400 pound bubba is watching over them. Not many.

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